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@tacostrufflestragedies

33, he/him, INFJ, Libra, Neurospicy (ADHD, HSP). Currently living in California. Ex-code cowboy, creative writer, coffee addict. Working on forming a non-profit in the neurodiversity space. When the inspiration hits, I'm also working on a novel. My happy places are: in the kitchen, behind the bar, on the beach, in the woods, and anywhere with a cup of coffee or a taco in my hand. Waffles > pancakes. Pineapple on pizza. Team Jacob.

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alwaysbegrateful365

don't forget how badly...

so so easy to loose track of this... i call this "a reality check big time"

credit: thousands thoughts

michaeldaaboul

The version of you that survived deserved more kindness than it received.

sleepytrain

Above the Canal

Shibuya, Japan 2026

midnightglances

my love language is making you laugh

sublimehoneybear

There's nothing wrong with choosing you btw. You don't... Always have to be useful to other people, you also don't have to help another person if doing it would harm you or take all that you have left in your tank. You don't have to constantly be productive.

You're one person. You're not some automoton without limits. Some weight you don't have to carry. You have limits and they're different for everyone, but most importantly, it's okay to ask for help. It's not selfish, and it never has been.

It's taken me so, so long to figure out and come to terms with all of this. And, I hope all of you do too. Sometimes you have to care for yourself first. Whether that means setting more boundaries and telling someone no, or just taking some time for yourself.

You can't fix the world when you need to mend. Sometimes you're the one that needs help healing, and that's okay.

vivalavinny

unsolicited unlicensed life advice from a chud who loves you #1

i bring a sorta 'wow that person is so pretty and successful im so proud and happy for them and i will manifest that for myself and i feel inspired by them to become a better person' kind of vibe that some of you 'wow that person is so pretty and successful and therefore that means i have failed and my life will never improve and i will end my journey here' people dont like

you *are* what you feed your brain , if you tell yourself positive things itll give you a more positive outlook overtime , same as if you talk to yourself negatively itll give you a negative outlook.

i understand jealousy and i know that everyone gets jealous , but its what you do with that jealousy that truly makes an impact because it can be made productive! if you try to see things as opportunities rther than shortcomings, youll really start to believe it and feel better about yourself.

the only person you should truly try to be better than is the person you were yesterday. dont settle for a life youre not happy in. make that change.