#acceptanceandcommitmenttherapy

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Dwarfism Awareness Month!

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@millennial.therapist thank you. #guilt,#shame #compassion and #acceptance change your life. #selfcompassion #selfacceptance #acceptanceandcommitmenttherapy #mentalhealth #counselling #counsellor #gedling #gedlingcounsellor #carlton #carltonhill #carltoncounselling #mapperley #mapperleycounselling #netherfield #netherfieldcounsellor #nottingham #nottinghamcounselling #elainebondcounselling (at Elaine Bond Counselling Services) https://www.instagram.com/p/CVe9jr9sMdR/?utm_medium=tumblr

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#acceptanceandcommitmenttherapy #taoism #mindfulness Image and words: @aolanow https://www.instagram.com/p/COILDtVLYDs/?igshid=4o3hrsdcqzz5

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The Distinct Paths of CBT and ACT: Which Therapy is Right for Your Mental Health Journey?

CBT vs ACT: What’s the Difference?There’s a moment in therapy where someone says: “I know this thought isn’t true. I’ve journaled it. I’ve r

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Stop Overthinking Everything

Overthinking can feel like a giant puzzle you can’t solve. Maybe you’re lying in bed, staring at the ceiling, and your mind keeps replaying that one mistake you made. Or perhaps you’re worried about the future, imagining all the things that could go wrong. If this sounds like you, know that you are not alone. Overthinking can be a real struggle, but there is hope and help available. Let’s explore how you can stop overthinking everything and find peace through God’s word and practical steps. What Is Overthinking? Overthinking happens when you dwell on the same thought or worry repeatedly. It’s like your brain is stuck on a loop, playing the same song over and over. This can make you feel anxious, stressed, and unable to focus on what’s important. The Bible tells us in Philippians 4:6-7, "Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." The Cycle of Overthinking Imagine this: Your boss sends you an email asking to meet in two days without explaining why. Your heart drops, and you start thinking, “What did I do wrong? Am I going to get fired?” You spend the next two days obsessing over every little detail of your work. You lie awake at night, your brain rehashing everything over and over. During the day, you struggle to focus and complete tasks. You ask your coworkers for any clues, and your spouse grows tired of your endless worries. Finally, the meeting time comes, and your boss tells you that the manager above you is quitting and he wants you to take the role. All that worrying was for nothing. Yet, as you leave, you start obsessing about why you worried so much and begin worrying about your new job. The cycle of overthinking starts all over again. Types of Overthinking Overthinking can take many forms. Here are four common types: - Rumination about the past: Thinking about past mistakes or regrets. - Worry about the future: Imagining worst-case scenarios for what might happen. - Overanalyzing decisions: Constantly second-guessing your choices. - Social anxiety: Worrying about what others think of you and what you said. Knowing these types can help you identify and stop overthinking. Strategies to Stop Overthinking You can learn the skills to stop overthinking and get back to living your life. Here are eight ways to help you stop overthinking everything: 1. Noticing and Naming The first step is to recognize when you’re overthinking. Say it out loud: "I'm overthinking." This simple act can help you separate yourself from your thoughts. Ask someone you trust to point it out when they see you doing it. Learn your triggers. What time of day are you most likely to overthink? Is it at work, when you’re alone, or in social situations? Predict these moments and prepare to shift your focus. 2. Setting Limits on Overthinking Postpone or schedule your rumination. Tell yourself, “I’ll worry about this at 2 pm.” Put it on your calendar. This sends a message to your brain to stop nagging you because you will address it later. Schedule worry time every day for a month. Set a time limit on how long you’ll worry or problem-solve. Write it down. There are many ways to write down your worries: free-write, make a pros and cons list, or do a brain dump. When you set limits on worry, your brain learns there is a time and place for it. 3. Attention Shifting Your brain is a thought machine, constantly generating thoughts. But you don’t have to believe everything you think. Separate yourself from your thoughts and choose which ones to focus on. Practice mindfulness or cognitive diffusion exercises. Visualize shifting thoughts as changing the channel on a remote control. Switch from compulsive worry to thinking about what you’re grateful for or what you can control. This helps use your energy in more helpful ways. 4. Focusing on the Present Moment Turn your attention away from negative thoughts and focus on the present. Use your senses. What can you see, hear, or feel right now? Get out of your mind and into your body. Notice your breathing. Shifting to the present moment moves you away from repetitive thoughts. This skill can be hard, especially when stressed about big problems, but practice makes it easier. 5. Concrete Thinking Abstract thinking sounds like overgeneralizations, leading to self-loathing and helplessness. Instead, focus on one or two details and look for small actions you can take. Asking “why” questions leads to rumination. Instead, ask “what” questions. For example, instead of “Why am I such a failure?” ask, “What is one small thing I can do today to improve?” This shift leads to action and practical solutions. 6. Aligning with Values Focusing on overthinking won’t stop it. Instead, shift to what you value in life. What is most important to you right now? What do you want your life to be about? Overthinking tends to make you withdraw, so take steps to engage with what you care about. Explore your values and align your actions with them. This helps retrain your brain to use its energy in helpful ways. 7. Healthy Distraction Distraction can help break the habit of overthinking, but use it wisely. Avoid distractions that lead to avoidance, like endlessly watching TV or scrolling on your phone. Instead, choose activities that you care about, like gardening or exercising. Distraction should not take over living a meaningful life. Face your problems directly, then spend time doing something you enjoy. 8. Seeking Professional Help If overthinking interferes with your life, seek help. Counseling can be very helpful. We use Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) that teaches skills to manage overthinking honoring to God. We can provide support and tools tailored to your needs. Christian counseling can offer guidance based on faith, helping you find peace through God's word. Biblical Examples of Overthinking The Bible provides many examples of people who struggled with overthinking. Consider Moses. When God called him to lead the Israelites out of Egypt, Moses worried about his ability to speak well (Exodus 4:10). He overthought his shortcomings instead of trusting God’s plan. God reassured him, providing Aaron to speak for him (Exodus 4:14-16). Trusting God helped Moses overcome his fears. Another example is Martha. When Jesus visited her home, Martha was distracted by all the preparations (Luke 10:40-42). She worried about many things, but Jesus reminded her that only one thing was needed: to sit and listen to Him. By focusing on Jesus, Martha could find peace and avoid overthinking. Jesus Himself taught about worry in Matthew 6:25-34. He told His followers not to worry about their lives, what they will eat or wear. Instead, seek first God's kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you. Trusting God’s provision helps us overcome worry and overthinking. Steps to Stop Overthinking To stop overthinking everything, take these action steps: - Recognize when you’re overthinking: Notice and name it. - Set limits on overthinking: Schedule worry time. - Shift your attention: Focus on the present moment and what you can control. - Ask concrete questions: Replace “why” questions with “what” questions. - Align with your values: Engage in activities that matter to you. - Use healthy distractions: Choose meaningful activities. - Seek professional help: Consider Christian counseling for overthinking guidance and support. By following these steps, you can break free from the cycle of overthinking and find peace in your mind and heart. Remember, God cares for you and wants you to live a life full of joy and purpose. Trust in Him, and take practical steps to manage your thoughts. Overthinking doesn’t have to control your life. With God’s help, you can overcome it and find peace. Read the full article

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Brief Catch-up Re-Depression (TLDR: I’m much better!)

T.W. - Suicidal ideation I stumbled upon this tumblr recently, and boy was it a time capsule! In case there is anyone out there who followed my failure with TMS: I went on to try electroconvulsive therapy (ECT). And it kinda worked. I had 3 months of pretty little depression. It was a wonderful experience and taught me that I was capable of not feeling depressed all of the time. The drawback was, that I only responded to a relatively high dose to both hemispheres of the brain. That increased the likelihood of memory loss, and I truly did lose a lot of memories. I did ECT at the end of 2016 and don’t remember 2016-2014 very well at all. That includes my wedding, and all the books and movies I watched in that period, people who I talked to quite intimately (according to our social media messages at the time) I don’t remember at all. Like, their faces don’t look remotely familiar. I also don’t remember almost any of my students from that time. I was told things might come back, and perhaps a few did, but overall, I still have quite the gap. So that sounds rather dark, but the good news is still ahead- I continued to struggle with suicidal thoughts and motivation. Then my father suggested I look into a new kind of therapy - ACT, (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy - sounds culty, I know). I looked into it briefly, thought it sounded like it was based in pretty good psychology + neuroscience, so I looked for a therapist. And it has literally been a life changer. The ACT approach to handling negative thoughts, and challenging negative core beliefs, literally took how I felt about myself and turned it on its head. Rather than arguing with each negative thought (like in CBT and to a lesser extent DBT) ACT has you recognize negative thoughts and emotions without reacting to them. I used to feel like my thoughts were me, and if I had a negative thought about myself, that was some kind of truth about how I felt about myself. Now, if a negative thought pops up, I think “I had thought a negative thought about myself, and that’s ok. That doesn’t mean anything about who I am.” ACT also isn’t overly “just be positive” and actually has you do a lot of work facing and really feeling negative emotions. Leaning into them, and as counterintuitive as that might feel to some people, doing that actually loosens the grip that things like anxiety can have.  Anyways, I wanted this to be brief, point is, I’ll probably have a tendency towards depression for the rest of my life, but I’m so much better prepared for it now and I wish that I’d discovered ACT a decade ago. 

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There are literally hundreds of #mentalhealth apps. Due to my business venture into the digital health space, I get exposed to many of these apps. They keep telling me… Apps are the future. I am test driving several. This ACT companion app is the best so far. Using principles from #acceptanceandcommitmenttherapy Example from Today’s exercise on thought diffusion.. “Your thoughts are like noisy passengers on a bus that you’re driving. You can’t get the passengers off the bus or make them stay silent, but you can keep your eyes on the road and your hands on the steering wheel, and get to where you need to go. Notice what you do when the passengers start getting noisy”. #recovery #sober #sobriety #mentalhealthawareness #stress #stressrelief #stressmanagement #recoveryispossible #acceptance (at Little Chicago, South Carolina) https://www.instagram.com/p/CSUlvFBnU7n/?utm_medium=tumblr

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Your commitment is only as strong as your level of resiliency. Do something that is hard every day! Keep fighting the good fight, you owe it to yourself! 🔥 ⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ #acceptanceandcommitmenttherapy #beauty #bitcoin #business #businesstip #commitment #commitment_matters #commitmentalert #commitmentissues #commitmentphobe #commitmentring #commitments #committment #digitalmarketing #fitnessmotivation #forex #hardwork #hardworker #hardworking #hardworkpaysoffs #hardworkpaysoff💪 #instagood #investment #motivationalquotes #nevergiveup #nocommitment #selfcommitment #socialmedia #travel #workout (at Houston, Texas) https://www.instagram.com/p/CRCZW7eHdIN/?utm_medium=tumblr