#ace questions

[hum-tittle]

Ace/aspec friends! would you go to a specific ace karaoke night? (I am debating on hosting one, I want to see if there'd be enough interest!)

Yes, I love karaoke

Yes, I want to sing and not get hit on

No

Yes, but I'm not ace but also don't want to be hit on

Not applicable, but I still want to vote :)

other

Voting ended onApr 29, 2024

[aego-culture-is]

can i be aego and... not ace? because i definitely think people are sexy but only if it doesn't involve me - im good with hot people sex that involves each other (like voyeurism), specific kinks, or like. characters. i think they're hot though, which is... as far as i know, allosexual? im kinda confused about what labels i should use for my sexuality, can i get some help?

You sure you’re not aegosexual? I don’t think you can be aego and allo, as it’s an ace identity

[icylemonade]

Ok so can one get aroused by someone but still not be sexually attracted to them ??

[avernss]

Question to all ace people and all peeps on the around spectrum

But like Is it normal to be in the aro spectrum and still crave being In a relationship

Also for my fellow AFABs is it normal to feel different about your place on the aro/ace spectrum on your menstrual cycle?

[disembodiedvoicecrossover]

what is up fellow aces why are we invading denmark

[ace-support]

If you're anywhere on the asexual spectrum you can submit questions/experiences/anything you'd like the community to know.

If you are questioning this is a safe space to ask questions to help figure everything out.

Anonymous asks are on.

If you are not on the asexual spectrum but are trying to educate yourself, you can ask questions here as long as they are not aphobic / offensive

[mossy-aro]

Question for all acespecs:

Is there a word to describe a sort of, like “erotic” attraction that’s not really sexual attraction, but has sexual undertones? Almost like an ambiguous area between sexual attraction and something else - not bereft of sexuality but not wholly sexual. It’s like, I don’t necessarily want to have sex with you, but I don’t have another word to describe the attraction I feel?? Is it aceflux? Is it sensual attraction? Is it grey asexuality? Or something else? I would be really grateful if anyone has heard of a similar thing before and could tell me :)