Please forgive any messing wording, im very tired! Okay, so, i don't like using numbers as everything is slightly blurry but i feel as if im 5/8 female and 3/8 a female but mainly non-binary mix. Like i feel as if i am comprised of a mainly female bit and a more gender-less but not entirely bit. I've heard of the term Demigirl and i do believe that is what i am but im confused as to what the other 3/8 can be referred to. It doesn't fluctuate, is it just Femgender or is there another word for it?
Femgender is a gender that is feminine, and that doesn’t necessarily has to do with being female.
There is a lot of terminology for genders that are “more or less this gender”, and I’m not sure of what you mean since you referred to this bit as 1) a mix of female and a nonbinary gender which is mostly nonbinary 2) a mostly genderless gender and 3) femgender. I’m going to assume it’s a mostly agender but somewhat female identity, or that it’s a nonbinary identity related to female, but feel free to clarify further if those don’t suit what you are talking about.
Those are some agender spectrum identities which I’ve seen linked to femaleness or to femininity before:
Agender girl: Someone who is agender, but who feels some link to being a girl. They may like presenting as a girl, prefer having a body that is associated with being a girl, feel connected to girlhood somehow, and so on.
Gendervoid or voidgender: “A gender identity defined by absence, a blank space or void where a gender might otherwise be.” Some gendervoid people feel like their gender is mostly a void but with some occasional “gender particles”.
Graygender or greygender: “Describes a person who is ambivalent about their gender identity/expression, but who identifies at least partially with a gender (defined or not) outside of the binary. They may experience a weak sense of gender, or have difficulty defining their gender, or just not be overly involved in gender as a concept.”
Gxrl: “A gender that is both girl and agender/no gender. You can be a girl and agender/no gender at the same time, go between them, or fluctuate between feeling female and not feeling gender.“
Libragender: "A gender identity that is mostly agender, but has a connection to masculinity and/or femininity and/or other gendered feelings. That connection may be static (libragender, librafeminine, libramasculine, etc) or fluid, where one feels that the gender one experiences changes (librafluid).Based on the zodiac sign Libra.”
Miscigender: “A gender that exists but is essentially unfelt and doesn't affect the owner's overall identity. For polygender people, to refer to "miscellaneous" genders that they may have, or for agender people, to describe a gender that is barely there and doesn't change their agender-ness.”
Genderpp or genderpianissimo: “A gender that is very soft; could be that is is extremely close to or is agender.”
Spanogender: “A person who barely identifies with a [said] certain or [said] multiple genders and, therefore, is almost entirely agender.(spanogirl, spanoboy, etc) - Uses the prefix, spano-, meaning scanty or scarce. “
Subgender or minumegender: “Mostly agender (¾) with a bit of another gender, ex. subboy, subgirl, etc.“
Vapogender: “A gender that sort of feels like smoke. One can see it and understand it on a shallow level but if one tried to go deeper it disappears, and one is left with no gender and only tiny wisps of the gender one thought it was.”
(You can almost always change gender to girl, such as in vapogirl or graygirl.)
And those are some other nonbinary genders related to female:
Abstragender: “A gender that's related to the abstract concept of another gender. Meant to be used as abstraboy, abstragirl, and so on.“
Altegender: "Derived from shortening the phrase “alternate existence.” It is a xenogender that feels as though it’s in a parallel dimension, on a different plane, in a mirror universe, or just in an alternate existence."
Girlprox, girl-proximal, wprox or woman-proximal: “a term made to include- women (cis and trans, just to affirm that) and - trans folks who are not necessarily women (or are not 100% women as some demigirls may ID, or are not always women as some genderfluid folks may ID, etc etc) but who experience a connection to girlhood, but not girlness.women (group 1) experience girlness because they are girls. they will usually also experience girlhood. girlprox non-women (group 2) experience girlhood, but not girlness, because they are not women.girlhood is a Very Large Concept and one that is difficult to pin down, because it has so many applications. here are some examples (not by any means all of them):- a connection to femininity- a connection to women, despite actual gender identity- a sense of belonging in women’s spaces (specifically in that nebulous community that i believe anyone girlprox creates just by existing near other girlprox folks)- a feminine or femme gender presentation- experience with misogyny- being assigned female at birth and holding that significant to one’s identity- holding female-assigned experiences significant to you and your life (ex: girl scouts, attending an all-girl school)- and, of course, identifying partially or sometimes or always as a woman - this is not required for girlhood, but often accompanies it.”
Juxera: “A gender relative to female, but is something separate and entirely on it’s own. It is not outside the gender spectrum."
Mollgender or molligender: “1) A gender identity that is largely related to a certain gender, but feels soft, as if it has blurred into other genders. Used as mollgirl, mollboy, mollinonbinary, etc.2) A gender that is quiet, soft and subdued. Can be used to mean a gender that feels gentle, not too present or blurred somehow.“
Nonbinary girl: “A nonbinary gender with feminine or 'girl' qualities.“
Offgender: “A gender that closely represents/is most closely represented by another gender, but is not that gender. Can be likened to what the color off-white is to white for descriptive purposes. Similar in definition to paragender and perigender.”
Paragender: "A gender identity that is close to, but not exactly, a gender. For instance, someone who is a paraboy may feel that their gender is near to, but not quite male/masculine."
Vectorgender: “When your gender is in the direction of something, but not actually that something, ie. a vectorgirl would be someone with a gender pointed in or traveling in the direction of girlness, but who is not actually a girl.“
Volitogender: “When one's gender feels hovering or floating. Can be combined with other genders. (volitoboy, girl, fluid, flux, etc)“
Xirl: “ Someone who identifies in some way as a nonbinary girl or nonbinary girl-adjacent. Someone who identifies with some part of woman/girlhood but who wants a more nonbinary and neutral sounding word because they aren’t entirely girls or don't want to be associated with the typical ideas brought up by the word “girl”.”
And then there are a lot of other possibilities, such as feminine genders that aren’t female, or xenogenders that may be woman-related somehow... but this post is already long enough. I hope it helps.
