#nonbinary umbrella

[hometomindandheart]

"There are only two genders"

-Wrong!

Here you can find some of the existing genders :)

Note: non-binary can fall under the trans umbrella, but doesn't have to! Some non-binary people do not identify as trans, and that's okay! :)

[imconfusedallthetimehelp]

Y'all ever look down your shirt and think "goddamn it, there's still tiddies in there."

[thesaddesttoothless]

every time someone who goes by it/its gets called they/them an angel loses its wings

(*assuming the person who called it they/them knew its pronouns were it/its)

[0-ya-su-mi]

Me when I'm not transgender correctly

But like rlly. Most trans people have the story that they've always known. Always felt smth was wrong. Never connected right with their name, gendered clothes, stereotypically gender toys. They change their name to something and it feels like it fits who they are. They transition with hormones and surgery and are sure in themselves and come out

Im none of that. I mean I never super liked my name but that was about it. I used to love dresses. I still do, if I can dress it up enough to not look entirely like a girl. No name I've tried fits. I don't want to be the opposite gender in a "correct" type of way. I want to be a boy who wants to be a girl. I'm both masculine and feminine and nothing all at once. I've considered getting top surgery bc I like the thought of being shirtless but there's a low chance I'd actually do it bc I'm scared of surgery. I feel absolutely fine not coming out bc I don't want things to change and any dysphoria isn't that bad. Every name I try never fits right so I just keep changing it. Gender is one of the 2 mysteries I'll never figure out. I'm so envious of ppl who just Know they're trans( especially from a young age to start transitioning early but yk) bc I'm so unsure in my own identity

Or maybe I'm actually just scared. Maybe I'm too scared to admit I rlly want to be a man. But then I think that I might not be a man, since I don't super like he/him pronouns (not that I like they/them better, rlly) and no name is ever right. And then I have to think how to condense down all these weird bad gender feels in order to explain it to come out. Transgender is the easiest for "normal people" to understand but there's so much more to my fucked up gender than that. I'm not 'man who was once girl'. I don't know if I ever rlly had a gender at all. It's just a scary dark swirl of void.

My transgender-ness could probably be blamed on mental illness if someone rlly wanted to. I'm autistic and unstable enough for someone to say that. Maybe it rlly is just the autism and I'm a fucked up girl that can be fixed, nevermind the fact being called a girl kinda makes me wanna scream

Anyway I hate gender and figuring myself out and I get way too introspective late at night when my meds have kicked in

Let's close this angsty rant with wise words from an excellent commenter on tiktok: "Gender is NOT the same as sex. Gender is what you identify as, while sex is what i'll be having with Albert Wesker tonight."

[jablesarttable]

I hate Family Guy, but this is the closest meme I could think of that could go with this😅 (I'm agender, but still masc)

[eivorthemothfae]

Happy International non-binary people’s day!!

Happy international Non-binary people’s day to everyone who considers themselves to either be nonbinary or fall under the nonbinary umbrella(like me).

Was slightly late, with only a couple hours left of it where I live, but better late than never.

[rocket-amongst-the-stars]

Because of my severe dysphoria and need to cut off my boobs I have a hard time remembering that just because someone has boobs doesn’t mean they use she/her because me myself having boobs feels so heavily coralated ro my memories of being she/her and that’s an issue I’m trying to work on. I’m thinking about making trans characters with with boobs to train myself better that bodies don’t mean gender

[puppybeing]

PANGENDERFLUID ;; -

a gender where the user is fluid through ANY/ALL genders within their culture and experience; could also be a simple label when you're both genderfluid and pangender, this can include xenogenders!

pinterest link : ♡

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pangenderfluid ;; -

a gender where the user is fluid through any / all genders within their culture and experience; could also be a simple label when you're both genderfluid and pangender. this can include xenogenders! end pt. ]

(made this cause i couldn't find anything that matches my experience, besides pangenderflux but that didn't feel right to me! colors are the genderfluid flag colors but a pastel gradient, plus a pastel yellow stripe in the middle from the pangender flag!)