#aplflux

[thelovelesscatholic]

It feels weird being aplatonic and having friends. It’s like I will never think of you as a friend. I am happy I met you. You will never be an essential source of happiness for me. You make life more fun. I don’t miss you when you’re gone. I like that your company is an option for me. Saying I love you and giving me hugs disgust me. Saying you’re grateful for me and being considerate of me makes me happy. I will never love you the way you love me. I hope I’m a good person to you. We will never completely understand each other. I like I can be myself around you. I hope I don’t hurt you. You can’t hurt me. If I lost you I wouldn’t grieve our relationship. I think of you without longing and view our lessons and experiences without ache. Is all of this fair to you? Is it fair to me? Is this really all okay or is it just me being selfish?

[aro-ace-chaos]

Aspec Glossary: Flux

What is the Aspec Glossary?

-flux is a microlabel suffix that indicates that the person in question experiences attraction of that type to a fluctuating degree. This can mean that they fluctuate between multiple identities while always remaining on the associated a-spectrum, or between being allo and aspec, etc.

Arofluxes may fluctuate between multiple identities or levels of attraction while always remaining on the aromantic spectrum (for example, fluctuating between being a green-stripe aromantic and demiromantic), or they may fluctuate between being aromantic and alloromantic, etc.

Acefluxes may fluctuate between multiple identities or levels of attraction while always remaining on the asexual spectrum (for example, fluctuating between being a black-stripe asexual and demisexual), or they may fluctuate between being asexual and allosexual, etc.

Aroacefluxes (Afluxes) are both aroflux and aceflux.

Aplfluxes may fluctuate between multiple identities or levels of attraction while always remaining on the aplatonic spectrum (for example, fluctuating between being a blue-stripe aplatonic and demiplatonic), or they may fluctuate between being aplatonic and alloplatonic, etc.

Someone can also be afamflux, asenflux, etc.

[dragonpride17]

[ID: 15 blinkies of different pride flags, with the name of each label written in pixel lettering. In order, they are bxy, agender man, aplatonic, greyplatonic, aplatonicflux (one reading "aplatonicflux" and the other reading "aplflux", disability stutter, genderfaun, demiboy, t4t bi, anifaux, amonab, aporagender, demigirlflux, and neptunic. /end ID]

blinkie requests for @crowinsnow, @kibbleluvr, @slavik-barkink, and various anons!

t4t bi flag (link) by @neopronouns - anifaux (link) by k9emote - AMonAB (link) by the-gender-mage

[tophats2o]

Really wish I could scroll Aromantic tags without being bombarded with people using friendship, QPRs and found family as a "replacement attraction." Like, come on!! Can't you at least tag it Alloplatonic, AlloQueerPlatonic and Allofamilial please? Really not asking for much here

[your-fave-is-loveless]

V1 from ULTRAKILL is a loveless aplatonic and platoflux!

[ID: V1 on the loveless aplatonic and aplflux flags. /end ID]

requested by anon!

[shiutsu]

I once heard a statement that in adulthood all your formed relationships will be genuine & eternal..

Yeah sure, especially if most adults go into romantic relationships, or desperately seek those cause they act like they're gonna die without any partner, ignore all of their friendships & basically just drown themselves in work & that mf they pulled & function like npcs..

And then either completely abandon the friends, or think that if they talk to their friends like 6 times per year, it's still a fulfilled friendship.. Like if you're capable to talk to your mf & your family on a daily basis, then you're capable to talk to your friends more often.

How are any of those relationships genuine if most people's brains cannot comprehend that partners aren't necessary and treat their friends like an extra treats?..

And don't go on me w the "Oh but yours just suck :/", like being getting brainwashed by amaronormativity shouldn't require anyone to constantly force themselves to others and then eventually guess which one's gonna match you. We don't have telepathy to read people, and all of that acquaintancing takes months or years. And what's the point of putting all that time into someone when it'll go to nowhere?.. Also not everyone is straightforward and can let themselves get brainwashed & forced into this culty system, so there's no prevention of that either.

[abstract-concepts]

aroaplflux

could not for the life of me find an aroaplflux flag, so i went ahead and made one. for when you're both aroflux (aromanticism fluctuates) and aplflux (aplatonicism fluctuates). they don't have to fluctuate together, or at the same severity, to use this label. colors are from me mashing together the aroflux and aplflux flags.

endo safe, rad/queers dni

[blinkie-rat]

Aplatonic blinkies from a request!