#apothifamilial

[neptune-scythe]

hugest shout-out to heartless a-specs, afamilials, aplatonics, loveless folks, repulsed a-specs and whatever the micro label is where your aspec identity is tied to neurodivergence/disability I shamefully never remember what that one's called

but yeah special shout out for pride month

[transbiograft]

- apothifamilial

| a recreation of this apothifamilial flag - an afamilial flag for individuals who are familial-repulsed.

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tagging @radiomogai

[tophats2o]

Really wish I could scroll Aromantic tags without being bombarded with people using friendship, QPRs and found family as a "replacement attraction." Like, come on!! Can't you at least tag it Alloplatonic, AlloQueerPlatonic and Allofamilial please? Really not asking for much here

[slavik-barkink]

LGBTQIA+ CAT PROFILE PICTURES [ pt 25 ]

Free to use, just credit if you can!

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[jacaelyx]

give a struggling afamilial $400 every holidays. maybe you could pay me to act like i love my family

[repulsed-confessions]

Favorable mfs when a repulsed person expresses their frustration with others trying to shame them for feeling disgust towards a specific action, cuz they take it as a personal attack for no reason.

"W-well but we get shamed for liking the action 🥺"

Well just cause a few people of an opposite stance write some dumb shit in your rant doesn't mean you can go shame & accuse others of ""attacking"" you for simply being disgusted with something that's been forced up everyone's asses since forever & it's done by 80% of the population every minute.

Cause not a single rant done by a repulsed person, whether it'd be a comment or a whole thread, was ever attacking any favorable or indifferent person. They were just displaying their repulsion or disgust, they never say anything along the lines of "This certain thing disgusts me so much everyone should stop doing it & if they like it, they should feel ashamed and rethink their life decisions."

Cause I never saw any repulsed person shaming a favorable in their rant. But I saw & experienced a lot of favorables shitting or twisting someone's disgust towards a certain action.

[our-afamspec-experience]

My apothifamilial experience is internally flinching when you have to toast to “us all being together” at the family dinner.

I wish there was a cure for my familial repulsion. I don’t like being like this. I don’t.

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[i-suggest-afam]

I nearly let this blog die, but I’m going to have to revive it if I want to stay calm and semi-sane (some of that’s a lost cause but I can keep the rest) (don’t worry I’m allowed to make that joke)

The season of love and family is here! Great, right? /s

We (afamilials and especially apothifamilials) need to invent a winter holiday of our own. Centered around “family is not the most important thing, not everyone has families worth celebrating, and a family being “worth celebrating”/non-abusive doesn’t oblige you to celebrate them”. And also around dessert because I’m hungry right now for some reason.