Found some aphobic comments under a post talking about the less known aspec identities getting ignored, so let's mock them. This post contains multiple abuse mentions & even ableism,so proceed with caution.
It was on r/aromantic which is obviously a shitty subreddit but I'm honestly surprised the mods haven't deleted the post cuz normally they're whiny af when someone doesn't feel the same as they do.
& while I'd like to startle at the ppl there, I cannot since I don't wanna have to anything w it after almost losing my acc over whiny mods.
"Sexual"..blud,you're posting this on an aromantic community..
Second.. Feeling lack of attraction towards a group that most people feel is aspec.. I like how these mfs will preach about how there are 6+ different types of love, but act like everyone is capable of feeling like 3-4 of them.. Also aesthetic?? Like not finding people good-looking isn't aspec that's cuz most ppl get partners cuz of common sense & not looks, I get it now-/hj
And then you throw a tantrum whenever someone says that aro & ace are inseparable & that it's not entirely possible to feel just one of the attractions..
This is a joke btw.. Of course it sucks but these mfs will be discriminatory towards those that don't feel the same as them.
Respectfully, go fuck yourself.
Wait.. I meant disrespectfully, since you deserve no respect.
Do you realize that if someone struggles w relationships like that, that it's usually that the other side is bunch of assholes, therefore it's not the individual's fault?..
Great, I didn't know that domestic abuse & platonic abuse don't exist & that they're actually the victim's fault & not the perpetrators' & that I, nor someone else, has the right to call themselves like that after going through them.
And calling those who don't feel like that towards their friends/family members as psychologically unwell?.. Funny that the same shit's said about aros too. Except friendships & family members aren't exactly consensual, you can't (always) choose them, yet if someone would feel heart broken over a platonic breakup, you'd tell them to replace the person & that it doesn't matter how you felt.
Please tell those fuckers that people can, and are assholes & that platonic relationships aren't flawless pieces of smth, they can damage you pretty much & that not everyone's capable of immediately (or at all) replacing them w some other person.
So not only you're aphobic,but also ableist? Wow,how phenomenal!
Suddenly being a neuro (idk how to spell it, i don't have this word on my keyboard & its too late to search 4 it..btw this goes for a queue) doesn't exist! Or social anxiety, awkwardness, etc & etc!.. Not everyone is capable of building friendships for fuck sake! And not everyone wants that!
Also does this mf know that orphans exist?.. Or ppl w terrible families?.. Like are they really ignoring that something like domestic abuse exists?.. Even if its one of the most common types of abuse?..
And the person under them..is just fucking deluded..it's like all those older ppl that mistreat their kids & blame it on their age.. And just repeat the last 2 sentences from 2 paragraphs above..
Wow! People despising their family members when they're mistreating them? Hell nah, that's a phrase! They have no right to complain, even if no one owes anyone anything! Especially if they've mistreated them at some point in life.
And I accidentally cropped it badly,but it continues w the mf saying that it doesn't need to be intense to be called love.. Like blud..👹.. Love is smth like enjoying the others' company,caring about them, feeling affectionate, missing them,wanting to talk to them..
Like I personally don't feel anything towards anyone,its just more like a tolerance instead. I don't miss anyone, I practically don't care what's going on in their life..
Please stop being obsessed with relationships, since it's usually the same type of ppl who throw a tantrum in situations like quarantine.