Aro-spec ace culture is playing fuck, marry, kill with abstract concepts and sandwich fillings rather than actual people
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Aro-spec ace culture is playing fuck, marry, kill with abstract concepts and sandwich fillings rather than actual people
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Me telling my mother one of my online "friends" is coming in my area and asked to met but i said i couldn't (because i dont trust him)
Her: well you follow your instincts. But when you decide to broke the spell (virginity) and THAT happen, never say its your first time
Me biting my tongue to not confess im ace sex repulsed and THAT would never happen willingly outside fanfics:
I WASNT TALKING ABOUT THAT
How it went from "i dont trust meeting people i dont know because im not snow white" to "your first time dont say you are a virgin"?!?
Fuck allonormativity
don't assume all aroaces are aromantic asexual. some use the term to mean aromantic spectrum, asexual. other aroaces can mean aromantic, asexual spectrum OR aro spectrum, ace spectrum. all are valid and all can use the term "aroace" if they're comfortable using it.
as long as you belong somewhere in both spectrums. We're all part of the beautiful aro & ace communities. period 💚💜
this has been a psa.
arospec asexual | acespec aromantic
an arospec asexual flag for anon, plus a corresponding acespec aromantic flag, based on the ace and aro flags and these arospec and acespec flags!
flag id: the left flag has 5 stripes. in order, they are dark aqua blue, green, cream, pinkish-purple, and pinkish-purple. the right flag has 5 stripes. in order, they are green, light green, red-white, faded light pink, and soft indigo. end id.
dni transcript here
Canon Aro(Quoiromantic)Ace 80/?: Nadia Van Dyne in Outlawed (2020) version 2
Its ok if your romantic partner becomes a only Q***r/Quasiplatonic partner sometimes. Your relationships still have the same amount of value wether they are romantic or not and you are not broken.
Ace culture is finally realiIng you're asexual and probably arospec just to fall in love with Matt Murdock soon after.
(Still asexual though, but my hyperfixation with that character gotta be the nearest thing to a crush I ever got.)
ace and aro-spec culture is hearing your friends complaining about their current relationship problems and your response almost always being "just break up with them"