Aries Venus & Matters of the Heart
So, in companion to the first post of Aries Mars, let's now talk abot Aries Venus and why... not everyone seems to get them right.
this is highly variable on where it is in your chart, what aspects it, and so on and so forth lol. this is just basic, aries venus.
so, Aries venus! the lover and fighter. the thrill of the chase, the chaser and never satisfied. the thirst for blood and the willpower and edge of a lover. devoted, and slightly playful. childish, loud, bold, but very charming, sweet and ...fiery.
Every aries I know, are independent. they are selfish but not in the way most would have you believe. they know what they want. they're easily excited, quickly bored but that doesn't mean they aren't... worthy of loving and being in committed relationships.
The aries I know was in a loving relationship and the other person ended it after six years of being with her. they were the ones that got bored of her.
it's not like they can't be devoted or loving partners. they just need their own space. they need their own time, and they need someone who can keep up with their quick reflexes. much like the mars placement, venus also loves the thrill of it all.
they are loud because they care. they are childish because that is how they have fun.
Aries is like... the louder Scorpio. people see aries venus and think this person will cheat. this person won't be faithful. but that's further from the truth. they have a hard time keeping to anything but that doesn't mean they aren't still in love with you. they just like to keep things fresh.
And, maybe this is just my mars in aries speaking, but sometimes, I don't like to be chased or be the chaser lol. I like to be up front, and I wouldn't be surprised if Aries Venus is the same way. sure, mars fights but I think y'all get it backwards.
we argue because we care. it's when we go silent that we don't. so saying that we tend to chew people up and spit them out...isn't ... very fair. because we just see them for what they can be. we see the relationship and wonder how it can grow. how it can involve and be something new again. fresh.
so I guess this is a long about way of saying that... aries venus people, are straight forward, they care and want to keep things lively. they aren't so much out to conquer people as they are trying to conquer love and what love brings.
they're more protective in my experience than not. they know what they like and will go to great lengths to get it. it can ... go over someones head sometimes but, that is the thrill of the chase for most aries venus. the thrill of having that relationship and then seeing how it can go beyond that.
also aries are romantic as fuck. some of the aries I know are so poetic and charming.
