#be more understanding

[chiefmilkshakeprincess]

I absolutely hate it when people say “Others go through worse”......ummm...okay???....so???....that doesn't really change what I’m going through now does it? I mean I don’t in any way mean that people don’t go through worse...I’m just saying that others going through worse really doesn't change the situation for me......may others get all the strength to face what they are facing but could you please stop telling me to “suck it up” and “man up” and “get over it” because you don’t think I’m going through something extreme....what i might be going through might not be a big deal for you but it is for me....there might be something thats not a big deal for me but is for you.......so please just don’t be so inconsiderate towards whatever others are going through....you telling them that doesn't make them feel better about their situation, it just makes them feel incompetent and discourages them further.....coz in the end you really have no idea how the other person is feeling.

[t-lostinworlds]

Let’s stop shaming people for feeling the way they feel as long as it’s not direct hate or causing any harm towards anyone please and thank you ❤️

[happytakes]

2023.06.05 | Everyone has their own struggles. It's hard to refrain from judging and be more understanding instead.

[fun-fit-chaos]

Just a little aggravation

Let me just get some things off my chest, I’m a customer service rep and we’ve been dealing with short staff in our warehouse and trying to get orders out quickly. It’s hard, let me tell you guys something. For every email we get asking why their order hasn’t been fulfilled and asking why it takes weeks to box up JUST 5 or 6 things, we have another 10 people asking the same things. It’s not JUST your 5 or 6 things that need processed or boxed up or shipped off. And it’s a big company but that doesn’t mean there is staffing in all areas of said company. So I’m gonna need people to step back and realize the holidays are crazy and if you want something then you might check to see if it’s available elsewhere before expecting to get it quickly from us. Because it’s not going to happen. 

End rant.

[hakuna-mataataa]

You'll have more successful relationships if you stop and think, "what does this person need from me at this moment?" instead of just reacting based on how you feel at the time.

[eve416]

Just wanted to say it!

sometimes... I just dont get it - seriously....  and its really really getting on my nerves these days ... not sure if i should really post it ..  (i dont want to offend someone just saying what i think about it.. well maybe i do it with this anyway)

you can ignore me if you want but here a some thoughts of mine about this:

seeing a “underage” like person being a bit more freely in a manga/anime/OVA or something else (when its a original) then its alright.. but if its from a fanfic or a fanart then of course its soooooo wrong and bad - yeah right ... of course -.-

oh these people .... well you must not read or look at it if you dont like it!! and i am just saying but... omg its not like today in this world no 15 yeah old person ever had sexual experiences or ... IDK likes to wear a bit more exposed clothes? seriously.. it would irritate me too if there was a child being groped by an old pervert or something like that... but (just as exaple) if yuri is lightly dressed on a ice skating show doing his programm or a fanfic where he makes (maybe) sexual experiences (maybe) cause of love - well ...  I dont think thats sooo shocking (not for me at least!) & like I said you are not forced to look at it!

btw yuri here was just an example ... its happens more than often everywhere...

well this is just my opinion of course i can be wrong with it too and i am sure some people think otherwise (as me) - and thats ok for me ... everyone thinks differently...  really! and everyone has a right to share his opinion... thats ok!

-  but please donst just bitch around because of everything! .. ‘cause you think thats makeing you cool, smart or whatever .... NO - it doesnt!!!  -.-  thats relly childish .. to make everything more bad as it truly is just to have a chance to battle about it ... if you are bored - do something else please .... PLEASE! >.<

and last but not least - in the end everyone has the right to draw a fanart or write a fanfiction how they like ... maybe its bad, maybe its good - but who do you think you are.. that you could make them down - they’re trying their best!

PS: If you dont agree ... well - you can hate me or argue with me... how you like - whatever - but i will proprably just ignore it anyway .... because its stupid!! xD

I know my englisch isnt the best so i hope you understand it nevertheless... sry

[crownkissedbyfire]

Wyd

Ya'll about positivity and stuff but when someone says something that can be slightly mislead you guys go and make sure that person never speaks again.