high enough without the Mary Jane

[chiefmilkshakeprincess]

I may have...cut off all of my hair yesterday....it used to be right above my ass now its just below my shoulders...

[chiefmilkshakeprincess]

What do u do when u kinda like someone and ur certain they like u back but u dont know if u entirely like them coz sometimes the idea of them is extremely appealing but sometimes it isn't at all???? Oh and noone around u none of ur friends support the idea.

[chiefmilkshakeprincess]

I understand that I’m falling and somehow still laughing, I understand your understanding is that I am unaware - I am not. My laughs mourn in a way my tears cannot.

[chiefmilkshakeprincess]

Don’t throw light at me.....I don’t want to see what I’ve become in the darkness.

[chiefmilkshakeprincess]

I was always just one step away from who I really wanted to be.

~ my friend

[chiefmilkshakeprincess]

I absolutely hate it when people say “Others go through worse”......ummm...okay???....so???....that doesn't really change what I’m going through now does it? I mean I don’t in any way mean that people don’t go through worse...I’m just saying that others going through worse really doesn't change the situation for me......may others get all the strength to face what they are facing but could you please stop telling me to “suck it up” and “man up” and “get over it” because you don’t think I’m going through something extreme....what i might be going through might not be a big deal for you but it is for me....there might be something thats not a big deal for me but is for you.......so please just don’t be so inconsiderate towards whatever others are going through....you telling them that doesn't make them feel better about their situation, it just makes them feel incompetent and discourages them further.....coz in the end you really have no idea how the other person is feeling.

[thepiscesactor-deactivated20121]

Just an experiment. Reblog if you actually give a fuck about male victims of domestic violence and rape.

[minotaursauce]

Of fucking course

What sick bastard doesn’t

[xaldien]

“You’d be surprised”, said Xaldien, who just lost four followers and received a lovely “men can’t be raped” anon shortly after reblogging this the first time.

[minotaursauce]

Yowch, disgusting.

[samuraiko]

If I don’t reblog this, assume I’m dead.

[glory-of-hera-blog]

Always reblog this

[nygmobblepot-der-pool-deactivat]

If you Dont reblog this if u see it then i cant call u my friend

[witchofthefuture]

IF ANYONE TELLS ME THAT MEN CAN’T BE VICTIMS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AND RAPE, I AM SICKENED BY THEIR MERE PRESENCE ON MY BLOG.

If you disagree with me, unfollow my blog, block me and never look at my blog again.

If you want to debate about this or send anon’s about this, I will reply but your actions have consequences.

[witchofthefuture]

Out of 19000+ followers I have, only one of you actually reblogged about this issue, yet a lot of you have reblogged and liked a picture by playboy about catcalling and that how men should never do it.

Additionally, I have received abuse in my ask box (which I will be answering when I can) and threats. In particular death threats and rape threats.

I can see the real problem here already. Male domestic violence and rape is just invisible in our society because we don’t want to talk about this because it just damages the status quo of this fucking website.

[tarothy-deactivated20230301]

I’m a male victim of child sexual abuse. We matter. Please, reblog this.

[off-with-there-heads]

if you don’t agree with this post unfollow me rn

[blah-blah-blah-ne-zha-main]

^^^

[blah-blah-blah-ne-zha-main]

reblogging again

[cuddly-god-of-bats]

Reblogging bc I am one, and if y'all don’t care, then fuck off and unfollow me.

[off-with-there-heads]

^ the same goes for me

If you can’t reblog this Im extremely disappointed In you.

[pixzyn]

We need to leave our complexes behind and accept that mens can also suffer both physical and sexual abuse just like women and these cases should be treated with the same seriousness as with women.

[iamannettecresselion-deactivate]

^ We do.

[it-was-a-bad-idea-fag]

We care about you, victims of abuse. <3

[chiefmilkshakeprincess]

Chaotic Writing 101

Okay so.........I kinda might've submitted my draft essay (where i talk to myself) instead of my real essay to my teacher and may have said that she can shove it up her ass if she doesn't like it or expressed the desire to murder her in it..........yea.....fingers crossed she didn't open it.......

[chiefmilkshakeprincess]

Okay but when Charlie’s dad in “The perks of being a wallflower” said “Not everyone has a sob story Charlie, and even if they do, it’s no excuse”. Like why in the world does this hit so hard??? We should really stop letting people take advantage of the situation and trying to find clues as to why they did something. Bottom line: they did it.....nothing can change that.

[beclynn-herondale]

People going through your blog and liking a bunch of your stuff is a love language.

[chiefmilkshakeprincess]

this......

[chiefmilkshakeprincess]

MASSIVE TRIGGER WARNING…...CONTAINS MENTION OF GROPING, ASSAULT, MURDER,RAPE AND HARASSMENT!!!!!!

Okay so this needs to be said. On 14th August (Pakistan Independence Day) in Pakistan there was this woman celebrating at Minar-e-Pakistan (a famous monument). She was making tik toks and filming herself and all. Long story short she was harassed and groped there by 400+ men to an extent that she was stripped naked. Plus not one man stepped forward to help her. Instead they all took advantage of her compromised position. People even had the audacity to film that scene. Yes there is a video going around on social media about this and if for any reason anyone comes across it please DO NOT SHARE it. It’s a violation of that girl’s privacy. This is NOT okay. Women in Pakistan are not safe…….if this can happen at a public place in broad daylight then who knows what else can happen. Our streets are literally littered with men and we are terrified. Does this mean we don’t step out of our houses? I think we deserve a few basic human rights. Where are all the crying maulana’s on tv now???? Do they have nothing to say about how their sons and brothers took advantage of a poor woman???? Where are the men that speak up and say “not all men” coz I think this incident proves that it really is all men. I used to say in the past that most men or enough men but now I’m gonna say ALL MEN. It’s all men. Instead of sympathizing and helping us get through this tough time you stand up trying to save your own ass. If you really think “not all men” then why did noone step up to help that poor girl? Y’all just took advantage of her situation. This just means men are waiting for such an opportunity. 

Before any of you come at me and ask what was she wearing or was she wearing something provocative all I’m gonna say is IT DOESN’T MATTER. Even if a woman is wearing something provocative, it doesn’t mean she is looking for 400 men to assault her publicly. Secondly for you inner satisfaction I’m gonna tell you she was wearing Shalwar Kameez WITH dupatta. Which for all those who don’t know is very modest.

Recently there had also been a femicide going on mainly dealing with rape and murder cases. Yet nothing was done about that either. This is scarier. Atleast we knew that those were specific particular men. This time it was literally all men. Even kids under 10. What will  become of our country and it’s women if this continues??? This terrifies me to a whole other level. Are we really gonna spend our whole lives fearing men?

People in Pakistan or more specifically the men only care about this if it relates to their own mothers, daughters or sisters and wives. Why can’t you see that us women are also someone's daughters, sisters, mothers and wives?? Is it so hard to just give us equality? Is it that hard to just stand up for a poor woman being assaulted by 400 men??? Do any of you even have a shred of humanity left??? Quaid would have been so proud of you misogynistic assholes. We are NOT safe. Please reblog this post I’m begging you. We need something to be done about this.

[subjecttocriticism]

All of us need to stop apologizing for having been to hell and come back breathing

Clementine von Radics, As Often as Miracles (via subjecttocriticism)

[qvotext]

You never need to apologize for how you chose to survive.

Clementine von Radics (via qvotext)

You never need to apologize to someone else about how you choose to live your life......whether you choose to mess it up or make it better for yourself. They’re not in your shoes and hence will never understand why you choose to do some things and not others. People will always criticize you no matter what you do, so hold your head up queen and throw a big fuck you to all those negative people. This is YOUR life.....live it the way YOU want.

[perfectquote]

No, I’m not ok. But I haven’t been ok since I was 11, maybe 12. I am still here though. I’m still breathing. For me, sometimes, that will have to be enough.

Clementine von Radics (via perfectquote)

sometimes just making it through is difficult enough. im proud of all of us who’ve made it this far

[chiefmilkshakeprincess]

“It’s like when you’re excited about a girl and you see a couple holding hands, and you feel so happy for them. And other times you see the same couple, and they make you so mad. And all you want is to feel happy for them because you know that if you do, then it means you’re happy, too.” ― Stephen Chbosky, The Perks of Being a Wallflower

[amodernlovermadeofouterspace-de]

the worst killers are those you call family, not by choice but because they are of the same blood as you. they say that we must love them, that they were screened for our coming into the world when in fact we never had a chance to refuse passage to this planet. i don't call them family, i scream: murderers! sadists! guilty! monsters! i beg and scream and cry but they keep killing me a little every day. i awakened in me the desire to leave this life that “was given to me” by them. slowly pulling out my essence, they call me “ungrateful” just because they physically intend to care for my well-being. (they feed me, take me to school, pay the bills). they preserve my body and destroy my soul. what matters to them is what is visible to the eyes. they fill me with sores and want me to erase the scars. fortunately or unfortunately, these wounds today expel daily some blood of my killers that still exists inside me.

[chiefmilkshakeprincess]

the worst thing is when you start seeing fragments of someone you hate inside yourself

[chiefmilkshakeprincess]

Everyone’s always talking about if you hate someone so much you’ll eventually come to love them, but have you ever loved someone so much that you come to hate them? You hate the power they have over you. You hate that despite whatever they say to you you’ll always go back to them and they know that so they keep taking advantage of it. You hate that you care so much about them but they don’t give a single flying fuck about you. You hate that you always ask them about whatever is going on in their life but they never even get back to you if you broke down. You hate that you try to get closer to them but they keep pushing you away and always have another person they find more important than you. You hate that despite everything and how shitty they make you feel you’ll still stupidly love them.