#becomingyourself

[timeacoaching]

🌍 The Journey Is ON: How Travel Changes You

Ever feel like you didn’t know who you were — or how to become yourself? That was me. Anxious, uncertain, and stuck in my head. But travel cracked something open. It didn’t fix me, but it changed me — slowly, deeply. This piece explores how stepping outside your world can bring you closer to yourself.

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[markllockwood]

How We Become Who We Really Are

How We Become Who We Really Are | Identity, Self-Discovery & Personal Growth. And why most of us are still finding out Here’s a question that sounds simple until it isn’t: Who are you? Strip away your job title. Your relationship status. Your nationality, your habits, your social media presence. Take away the labels other people gave you growing up — the responsible one, the quiet one, the one…

How We Become Who We Really Are

[tapmora]

 "When Your Dreams Feel Like They’ll Lead You Nowhere"

A Heavy Afternoon Thought

It was a late afternoon when I found myself sitting alone in the living room, watching the dust dance in the golden shafts of sunlight that poured through the window. The world outside was moving, the occasional hum of passing cars, a dog barking somewhere down the street, but inside, everything felt unnervingly still. My mind, though, was anything but quiet. It felt heavy, cluttered, tangled with too many thoughts, too many dreams, and too much uncertainty about who I was and where I was going.

An Unspoken Conversation

Across from me, my mother sat calmly, folding freshly washed clothes, her faded blue blouse sleeves rolled up, her hair gathered in a loose bun. Every now and then, she would glance my way, sensing that something was weighing on me. Finally, after a long stretch of silence, she spoke. “You’ve been quiet today,” she said softly, not lifting her eyes from the shirt she was folding. I hesitated, unsure how to give words to the restlessness inside me. “I just… I don’t know,” I sighed. “I feel like I want too many things in life, but I’m scared I’ll end up being nothing.”

The Fear of Being ‘Too Much’

She paused, her hands stilling for a moment, then placed the folded shirt neatly on the pile. “That’s a heavy thought to carry,” she said, her voice gentle but steady. I leaned back against the couch, staring up at the ceiling as if answers might be written there. “I keep thinking if I don’t pick one thing and commit to it, I’ll never be good enough at anything. I want to write, I want to travel, I want to create, but what if chasing it all means I don’t truly succeed at any of it?”

The Wisdom of Winding Roads

My mother studied me for a long moment before she spoke. “Who told you that being many things means you’ll be nothing?” she asked, her words cutting through the noise in my head. I frowned, picking at a loose thread on my sleeve. “No one,” I admitted quietly. “I think I just told myself that.” She let out a small, knowing chuckle and shook her head. “I used to think like that too,” she said. “When I was younger, I believed I had to choose one path and stick to it. But life isn’t a straight road. It’s a journey filled with turns you didn’t expect and places you never planned to go. Sometimes, wanting many things doesn’t mean you’ll end up lost, it means you’re open to possibilities.”

Reframing Failure and Success

I exhaled slowly, my heart still anxious but my thoughts beginning to soften. “But what if I fail?” I asked, my voice barely above a whisper. “What if I try too many things and never become great at any of them?” She reached over and placed her hand over mine, warm, steady, grounding. “Failure isn’t the end,” she said. “It’s part of learning. And success isn’t always about being the best at something. Sometimes, it’s about doing things that make you feel alive, things that bring you joy and meaning. Life isn’t a competition to see who can specialize the fastest. It’s about discovering the things that matter most to you.”

It’s Okay Not to Have It All Figured Out

I looked at her, searching for something in her face, reassurance, permission, maybe both. “So you’re saying it’s okay not to have everything figured out?” I asked. She smiled, that kind of gentle, knowing smile that mothers seem to perfect over a lifetime. “Exactly,” she said. “You’re not nothing because you want many things. You’re everything because you have the courage to dream in the first place.”

The Beginning of Becoming

I glanced back at the window, watching the light begin to fade as evening crept in. My mother’s words lingered in the air, settling quietly into the restless spaces of my mind. For the first time in weeks, the heavy weight on my chest eased just a little. The fear of being nothing didn’t vanish entirely, but it no longer felt suffocating. Maybe, I thought, I didn’t need to have all the answers right now. Maybe I didn’t have to be just one thing, or have my life neatly sorted into categories. Maybe life wasn’t about choosing a single path but about embracing the winding, unpredictable roads that shape us along the way. And maybe, just maybe, I wasn’t lost after all, I was simply in the middle of becoming.

[carriejonesbooks]

How Do You Defy Expectations

How Do You Defy Expectations

When my super cool daughter Em, was in sixth or seventh grade she was in the newspaper for doing this logrolling day with Timber Tina at the Great Maine Lumberjack Show.

This place is where she studied logrolling all summer and is where she battled seven boys, trying to knock them off logs by fancy footwork and all that. Timber Tina (she was on Survivor for one show and then went back for a…

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[kaifiain-blog]

Dead Excited that Escape From The Law of Octaves will be shown @whitechapelgallery on 27th Feb 2020. The work is a performance and moving image piece illustrating one persons journey through gender transitioning. Shot in a single set where I play every character. Here’s a little behind scenes shot by @londonfemme . The work references mythic symbolism and follows the structure of traditional fairy tales. @themolluscdimension made the sound scape and music for it. The sound mechanic did the mix. #transstories #whitechapelgallery #josephcampbellquote #mythology #becomingyourself #performanceart #queerart (at Whitechapel, London) https://www.instagram.com/p/B8irUg6FmG2NhPmSi9m7Fxa7nDtiQGnTeYwXZA0/?igshid=6y4xo8zs6zhe

[nonbinary-nature-lover-jeri]

I didn't realize who I was until I stopped being who I wasn't - Me #Quote #Trans #NonBinary #LGBTQ #BecomingYourself #CisCloset #PhoenixPegasus #KnowYourself #BecomingYourAuthenticSelf #UBU #YouBeYou https://www.instagram.com/p/B3V4K4tg6vP/?igshid=vm1lcttuandv

[nonbinary-nature-lover-jeri]

I didn't realize who I was until I stopped being who I wasn't - Nearly Every Trans/NonBinary Person #Quote #Trans #NonBinary #BecomingYourself #CisCloset #PhoenixPegasus #KnowYourself #BecomingYourAuthenticSelf #UBU #YouBeYou

[my-heart-mind-universe]

The human task is to become a self in truth, a task that seems insignificant, because it amounts to becoming what one already is. A genuine understanding of the nature of the self reveals that this task is no triviality, however, because ‘what one already is’ includes potentialities that must be actualized to fully become oneself

Evans responding to Kierkegaard