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hello, want to send love to people who cannot do even low effort/energy hobbies today.
Who spending today listening to podcast or scrolling tumblr or watching movies.
Who can't watch/listen to new media because too exhausting, instead need only simple or familiar stories.
Who doing these things sitting or lying in bed, in supportive/adaptive chairs, or supported by pillows and adaptive equipment to remain sitting.
And also to people who won't see this because scrolling tumblr too bright or too overstimulating or too exhausting. If you do see this on a different day, you're not forgotten.
It doesn't matter if other people see your hobbies as low effort, and can't imagine why you can't do them today. Your body is not theirs. You're the one living in it, you know what's achievable for you today.
Be kind to yourself, know that you're not alone.
Obesity research is a hot commodity these days attracting the big bucks. Our research facility fattenings are more regimented then our standard fare at Fat Farm and Blob Site locations, but you can still expect the same effective treatment Industrial Fattening Facilities is committed to providing.
There was a lot to ponder as Alan awoke. The night before was mostly an alcohol induced blur but there were clues that it had been interesting...
Sometimes being disabled means you can't go to college, can't get a job, have to live with your parents and that's ok. For a lot of us it means not being able to go outside most days, not being able to get up or move at all. It can mean needing someone to wash us or feed us or help us with the bathroom and that is ok. It doesn't mean that we're less than or that we aren't worth anything.
And it's valid for us to be mad about it. Even if we can overcome some of these things with accomodations we're allowed to be mad that we're in this situation, and wish that we weren't disabled because I sure as hell hate this shit.
possibly a long shot but if anybody on the homebound / bedridden / bed-resting spectra who's connected to butch/femme identity / community / experience would like to be interviewed by or otherwise collaborate with me on a submission to Sinister Wisdom's call for upcoming Butch/Femme Renaissance issue (link) please send me an ask / dm / reply!
& if not folks should still totally consider sending something in❣️ submission deadline is december 31st 2025 (anybody interested in working together ideally we'd get started before or by dec 5th)
Make me fat to the point where my weight becomes your excuse to keep me sedentary.
Oh, I'm too heavy for the chairs at a restaurant and I can't fit in the booths? Might be best to stay at home where I can sit on the couch or lay in bed. I'm sure they deliver anyways.
None of my clothes seem to fit like they should. Why worry about decency if the only person around is you? I can just throw on some pajama pants with a t-shirt that doesn't go over my chest.
I can't fit through the bedroom door frame! Not a problem, I can try to push myself through later. Why not go back to bed where you can bring me the snacks I wanted.
It's taking a lot of effort to get out of bed. Why bother struggling to get up when you always offer to get what I want. You always say how I shouldn't waste calories on such trivial things.
Husband sends a few photos from his current work trip to London. I always have a go at him for rushing home and not spending enough time "pissing about" down there as I would blatantly be doing.
HE'S AT THE SHERLOCK HOLMES MUSEUM ON BLOODY BAKER STREET!!!!!!!!!!!