"Let me take care of you-" god yes please, somebody fucking hold me already and stroke my hair ugghh my heart's gonna burst just thinking about someone's deep, unyielding affection for me
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"Let me take care of you-" god yes please, somebody fucking hold me already and stroke my hair ugghh my heart's gonna burst just thinking about someone's deep, unyielding affection for me
Bear Butch 4 Wolf Butch anyone?
I love you transfem butches
I love you bisexual butches
I love you transmale butches
I love you fag butches
I love you fat butches
I love you disabled butches
I love you butch4butch exclusives
I love you pillow prince butches
I love you non-conventional butches, you deserve the world <3
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Look, I fundamentally do not care about how exactly butch and femme as labels were used "back in the day" and I fundamentally do not give a fuck whatever the newest prescriptivist take that this fresh hell of a webscape has birthed is
"Has butch been used by men? Are men allowed to use the term "butch"?" Motherfucker, I don't care. Butch originally just meant "masculine" and was used for straight dudes. Any queer usage by men or people of any other genders came later. I don't really care when exactly it started being used in a queer sense and I don't care where you draw your arbitrary lines in the sand as to who is allowed to be butch.
Prescriptivism is a blight upon this world rivaled only by all the other fucking brainrot that exclusionists and radfems come up with on a daily basis. Men use "butch" as a label. They identity with it. Trans men, gay men, queer men, bi men, demi-men, intersex men, nonbinary men. Women use "butch" as a label. They identify with it. Trans women, lesbian women, queer women, bi women, demi-women, intersex women, nonbinary women. Nonbinary people use "butch" as a label. They identify with it. Butch is a noun. It can be a whole identity, butch is love and butch is life and butch is our community. And butch is solidarity as well.
Who do you think you are to tell others they are wrong for it? Some of you will say "be gay do crimes" and then turn around and become the volunteer hall monitor "who gets to use this word, queer police" 🤓🤓🤓 you look like this, you're silly, find something better to do like actually protecting our community from fascist agitators who LOVE the shit you're dedicated to right now cause when it all comes down to it: it is divide and conquer all the same.
Sometimes the way people so intrinsically link butchness and lesbianism and it feels a little alienating. Yes, you say you love and support all butches...but that does include the ones who aren't lesbians and never will be? Us too, right? Right?
I just hate that I don't even feel included in a lot of butch positivity posts specifically because most people don't even realize that butch does not always mean lesbian and so they leave us out by centering the positivity around being a lesbian. It turns every positivity post into a guessing game and just serves to remind me I'm invisible at best and unwelcome at worst. I hardly ever hear butch without it being followed by the word lesbian from literally anyone.
Anyway tfem butches *hands shaking emoji* bi butches in terms of being fucking invisible and more often than not treated as an unwelcome parasite when people are forced to admit that we exist.
"And I would say that people who were referred to as [...] butches, et cetera, nowadays we think of them sometimes as just being synonymous with a certain kind of sexuality but in fact there’s a lot of butch women who sleep with other butches or who are bisexual."
Leslie Feinberg in In the Life: Interview with Kate Bornstein, Leslie Feinberg [unedited footage]
Happy pride month!!! Be vibrant!! Be safe!!!! BE EXTRA GAY!!!! 🎉🏳️⚧️🎀🏳️🌈