#bimisia

[furbearingbrick]

terfs: why do people keep saying we're biphobic

also terfs:

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whenever a bisexual woman in het relationship says something like "im having a queer experience" i just assume she is cheating on him with a woman, because theres no other logical explanation

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[degengxrl]

if your stance is "x oppression isnt real but im working hard to make it real"

youre in the wrong

[macbxth-pdf]

Am I bugging or has there been an uptick in transphobia, radfem ideology and in fighting in the sapphic community? Maybe its me interacting with more with the sapphic community online but its hella concerning.

[rjalker]

"just because you have a disability doesn't mean you're disabled"

"Just because you don't identify as cis doesn't mean you can call yourself trans"

"Just because you're not straight doesn't mean you can call yourself Queer"

"Just because you have queer attraction to women doesn't mean you can call yourself a lesbian, sapphic, or WLW"

"Just because you're aroace doesn't mean you can call yourself aro or ace"

Would any other contenders like to enter the ring?

[arovaricious]

I just know most ppl "joking" about tr*mp being bi aren't bi themselves can you all shut the fuck up and actually talk about important shit he's fucking up.

[moonlightsapphic]

[nbandproud]

ok so like... serious question

I understand that saying multi people experience homomisia contributes to erasure, because not all multi people are attracted to the same gender as them, and also because they are not “homo” or “partly gay/lesbian” in any way.

But if anti-multi sentiments/discrimination (bimisia, multimisia, anti-multi monosexism, etc.) is only rooted on having attraction to multiple genders, isn’t that saying multi people don’t experience anything bad for being sapphic/achillean?

I get that focusing on “sga” is shitty and all, and that attraction that includes NB people is also not normalized, but... if, say, a couple of two men is attacked, and one of them is gay and the other bi, can we specify anything further than heterosexist violence?

And *if* we should only focus on the fact that it’s violence against people for not being straight, shouldn’t we be saying more than “bi people only suffer from monosexism/bimisia and not from anti-gay bigotry/homomisia”?

[rjalker]

"If you call yourself bi but you're only attracted to men and nonbinary people, you're not actually bi, you're just gay and want to feel special, because nonbinary people's genders aren't real because there's no third nonbinary sex, and there's no one way for nonbinary people to look, so that means it's impossible to be attracted to nonbinary people. I'm going to pretend this statement is in support of nonbinary people :)"

--so many fucking people when you're trying to look for posts criticizing exorsexism. No I'm not joking.

the blatant hatred of bi and other mspec people. The blatant hatred of nonbinary people. The idea that all men and women look the same and that's what define whether people are attracted to them or not. As though any gender on Earth can't look like literally anything. gods damn