#binary pronouns

[dysgender]

Pronoun4Pronoun Flags

She4He | She4She

He4He | He4She

[craftgender]

Some pronoun stuff I made a lil bit ago!!

[mahdikfelloff]

Hey random anons!!

Recently I’ve been getting asks from anons asking if I’m transmed or truscum and other such “identifying terms”. If you’re sending them, fuck off please. I’m not going to respond and I only delete them.

My personal belief is that as long as the person is happy and not harming other people, it’s not really my business whether they use neo pronouns or binary pronouns.

So to sum this up, fuck off, I don’t care, love and accept everyone, and who are you to tell them who they are?

If you have more concerns stop hiding on anon and face me in my dms.

[transgenderadvice]

I'm agender. But I feel like I want to relate to the majority of society by being able to call myself a girl/boy sometimes even though I'm not. Although I relate sometimes. Is that ok? I feel guilty about it somehow like I'm stealing the terms.

Hi anon,

I have met plenty of nonbinary people who use binary pronouns for very personal reasons. I have a friend who uses strictly he/him online even though he is agender himself. I know of a girl who uses she/her despite being nonbinary herself. The pronouns they have chosen all have personal meaning to them. You aren’t stealing anything. 

However, I do want to note that you mentioned feeling this way due to society. Please don’t conform to binary pronouns because society wants you to. Do it because it means something to you and your identity. No good comes from basing who you are on society’s standards! I will link an article I read a few years ago of a person who has chosen to reclaim she/her pronouns despite her being a nonbinary individual.

https://wearyourvoicemag.com/identities/why-im-nonbinary-but-dont-use-theythem

-August

[spreading-trans-nonbinary-l-blog]

S/O to the nb’s who can only use she/him, because their language is so heavily binary gendered.  

You are so strong!

[polygenderstuff-blog]

unorganized question

i would appreciate responses cuz idk so pls respond if u’re comfortable doing so!!

to other nbs would u consider pronouns part of ur gender presentation? im wondering if this is a common nb experience because personally i dont feel a distinct connection to these words they just feel like a description people can pull conclusions from; similar to wearing a skirt. because for nb people, pronouns dont always equal gender one could go by they/them but be demiboy. i feel the connection with pronouns to clothes because to me its about how u want to be perceived, not necessarily what it is u r, u know? and this practice of having differing presentation and gender encompasses a sort of nb agenda, which is to smash the binary. i mean there r no rules to gender right? so pronouns can mean whatever we want them to mean to ourselves. i still want ur opinions though.

[nb-stuff-blog]

Nonbinary people who use binary pronouns are awesome. He/him/his nonbinary people are strong and good! She/her/hers nonbinary people are sweet and amazing! Just because you feel comfortable using these pronouns doesn't mean you aren't every bit nonbinary. They're just pronouns, just like all the others. It's not our fault if society genders words.

[transgenderadvice]

I think I might be trans but I have a bit of a problem: I still want my family to refer to me by my birth name, and use she/her pronouns because it's always been that way and I'm comfortable with it. I just want to be presented as 100% male to people outside my immediate family. Does this make me not trans? I'm not 100% sure yet because I'm only 14 and, yknow, everything's confusing. Any advice would be hugely appreciated.

August says:

Good morning! That’s still fairly young! Your feelings may (and most likely will) change! It’s okay to use dead name and pronouns while you get used to being trans. if that’s what you choose for immediate family so be it.

No pressure in ever changing those pronouns and I’m sorry if the feelings changing is offensive. I just want to clarify that I mean it’s completely normal to hesitate in changing those two things especially with your family! You’re not alone in feeling that way.

Just remember that being used to something isn’t synonymous with being happy with something. ❣️☺️ have a good day!