#bl fans

[cerav2]

It’s funny… how life never asks what you really want,

it just keeps moving… and expects you to keep up.

Somewhere in between… you start losing track—

of what you feel, what you hide, what you’re supposed to be.

And then suddenly… there’s someone,

not fixing anything, not asking anything… just there.

And for a moment, everything slows down—

like the noise inside finally finds a pause.

Nothing changes, not really…

but somehow, it doesn’t feel as heavy anymore.

[risu442]

Barcode about mental health struggles, challenges and growth as a BL actor

I saw some of you posted about it, so I want to post the translation of it.

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Cr.: lunarobsidian on twitter

Original post: BarcodeTin on twitter

[heretherebedork]

Happy Turkey Day, y'all!

I'm so thankful for the community I've found here, the shows I've loved, the people I've shared them with and Mr Cinderella coming out on the first day of Hanukkah!

Any way, no matter where you might be and whether or not today is a holiday for you, I'm thankful that you're here, that you're watching BL and that you read my nonsense and enjoy it!

Thank you, thank you, thank you!

May the season treat us well.

Also, very thankful for 2022, the year of the gay mafia.

@absolutebl @iguessitsjustme @weekendatennuis @thequeenofsastiel and far more people that I want to tag but either can't spell their name, can't remember or just don't want to bother. Love you all, every single one.

[gem-ravens]

My life struggle is waiting for Friday to come around

[alwaysmeanie]

Dear People belonging to BL Universe...

I beg you to keep your code names on BL characters or BL related terms in Among Us ever so often

It'll help find friends faster...

Sincerely,

An Among Us player and BL Fan...

[saifahname]

ok let’s have a little bit of word here:

BL fans (and I’m looking at the straight girls now because usually, they are the ones that do it but the others are no exception) have to STOP searching for the bottom and the top roles in gay relationships. These roles are ONLY when it comes to sexual intercourse and most of our series DON’T actually have that displayed. (there are exceptions and the first one that comes to my mind is What the Duck with PreeBo)

It is extremely heteronormative that in every relationship one has to be “the bottom”, and it’s usually the smaller one, the younger one, the more childish one or the one that gives a more “feminine” vibe. I just don’t have words to explain hor annoying and harmful this can be to men that like men. Each couple has their preference and you honestly have to idea how gay sex works in general (no, yaoi is not a source) so please shut up. 

Please stop doing this. I’m sick of this whole “bottom/top” ideology. Moreover, I’m sick of the whole “wife/husband” ideology that goes around BL thai dramas. Yes, there are couples or men that go by this ideology (one example is Diary of a Tootsie where the characters are using these names themselves) and the lowkey homophobia that goes in almost every thai drama with the whole “who’s gonna be the wife” doesn’t help at all, but just don’t encourage it more. 

[cerav2]

"I watched him treat my wounds like they were a fragile secret. His hands were shaking, not from fear, but from a grief I didn't know he possessed. I’ve spent so long being a ghost in my own body, wandering through rooms that never felt like mine. But the way he looks at me... it’s the first time I haven’t wanted to disappear. I used to think a home was a destination, a place you reach after the war is over. But looking at him, I realize home is just a person who refuses to leave when the storm gets loud. He gave me a roof made of concern, and walls made of the one thing I never thought I’d find: belonging." ✨🥀