Pick a Card: Next Romantic Partner & What Could Be Blocking Your Love Life
This is a next romantic partner reading. It contains messages that will help you if you feel that there are blocks to finding your person. And then there's also the part where I describe that person or how you could potentially meet them.
Pile 1: The Star Pile 2: King of Cups Pile 3: The Magician
Please pick one pile and then scroll for your reading. It's up to you to decide if you want to read this if you're not single.
Keep in mind, I'm pretty honest in my readings. They're long because I tried to be as specific as possible for as many scenarios as possible. But of course tarot reading is not science. Please do not take it as absolute truth. Not just for me but from any reader that you interact with.
Also I'm sorry for typos as always because I voice to text my readings.
Pile 1
I think you know by now I only speak the truth. More than about being a romantic partner although I might try to draw some cards to make sure I can describe a person. What I'm actually getting is more advice on what to do to manifest your next relationship or what you should be doing before you even enter into another relationship. This is actually showing me that there is some work for you, or potentially even this partner to do, before you guys can come into Union so to speak.
Because what I'm getting is somebody who has a tendency to be very caring, to the point that you may attract people who would take advantage of your kindness and empathy. So to me the eight of pentacles represents the work that you need to do. The seven of swords is showing me that either in the past or currently or whatever, that there have been people who have taken advantage of you. Lied to you. Cheated on you. So you've either already done the work to set boundaries and recover from those situations or you need to. Some of you might have even gone through abusive relationships and are either hoping to meet someone after resolving those issues or you are at the phase where you're still doing the work. It's also possible someone may come across this and need validation that this relationship you're currently in is not healthy. Because even the oracle card says codependency. Addictions are affecting your romantic life.
Those can be your addictions or someone else's of course depending on the situation. This can be even the need to habitually be in a relationship or obsess about the next relationship or a partner or when you're going to be dating somebody.
And the little tarot deck that I have here, shows the Aquarius and ten of wands. So again that's almost like a difficult journey or burden and then the star is actually a card that represents rebirths and coming to that point after a hard journey or difficult situation. Also notice how the ten of wands looks a lot like the seven of swords. And that can be that you are carrying something from another relationship. If it's guilt or bitterness. Those are things that tend to happen after a betrayal in a relationship anyway. And there's a lot of emphasis on death here and strength and Earth mother so again there's just lots of stuff here about willpower and ends and New beginnings and femininity and womanhood or feminine energy. So to me I'm getting a lot of healing happening here.
So you're like okay but what does this have to do with my next romantic partner? Well like I said I have to tell the truth. If you haven't gone through this healing process or you are still in the works of it, maybe this is a message to keep working on that before you feel like entering into a new relationship. I can relate to that. I've been healing from an abusive relationship for a long time. And will I ever completely heal? I don't know but have I really dated since then seriously? I haven't. And no I don't even know if I would be ready if that person hit me in the face and I'm often wondering well have I healed enough? Or some people say you know even if you haven't healed completely then does that mean you aren't deserving of a relationship? You can't have a healthy relationship? Me a few years ago probably would have said no because usually people who aren't healed or have some type of hole that they need to fill can end up taking that out on a partner. But there probably is a difference between being in the process of healing or somewhere in the middle and someone who genuinely has issues and would still remain abusive if they were to get into a new relationship or would still be susceptible to being abused in a relationship because they haven't entirely created boundaries.
This isn't meant to scare you but it's definitely meant as a message I need to pass on or as validation if it's something that you have experienced. Now let's talk about okay you've done the healing and you are ready for a relationship. Let's hope that the cards understood I would never want you to end up with somebody bad so they shouldn't be showing your next relationship is going to be in any way abusive. So for this pile in particular I want to draw more cards about okay yeah but tell me about the person who is waiting for you out there. Show me the person take that one
It's funny when I grabbed you more cards and I did additional tarot cards I ended up with the star at the back of the deck. So you could be an Aquarius or you could meet them during that season or they could be an Aquarius. I would also say even though it's not really that these animal oracle cards are tarot, they definitely remind me of those cards so Leo, Scorpio, Libra or Taurus Eva.
I'm still going to use your old cards but I want to tell you about the new ones that came out when I asked specifically okay we don't want any messages we want to know about the person. So there is six of pentacles, getting to know each other as you reveal your innermost selves to each other your bond deepens, stay optimistic about your love life positive thinking and faith will bring you romance, three of wands, queen of cups
So again definitely lots of contemplation about when will this happen, when will I meet this person, a sense of being pessimistic about if this will ever happen or why you keep being drawn to the wrong people. Six of pentacles again I'm feeling like you're somebody who gives a lot of themselves and doesn't always get as much back but you're looking for somebody who gives as much as you do. You want an equal relationship where nobody is being taken advantage of and there isn't some kind of crazy power dynamic.
Totally understandable after the things you've gone through. Queen of cups and the Three of wands again of just seeing somebody thinking about the future, what's going to happen next. Maybe there's so much emphasis on what's going to happen or why isn't it happening that it could be blocking this manifestation. I don't usually say stuff like that because sometimes I think it's hokey. But yeah it's just like not having a lot of faith that this will come. So I guess I can say with this stay optimistic card is that it is coming. You shouldn't rush into anything. Definitely if somebody comes along that you need to take the time to really get to know each other. I would definitely suggest not rushing into anything with somebody. And again this might be saying for the second time that you really need to take time to figure yourself out and what you want and heal any wounds from previous relationships before you get into the next relationship.
Yes I also find this frustrating because I thought it would be more specific about the person and I hate to look at the cards and be like well it's got to be a person like this but I feel like it keeps wanting me to tell you that maybe it will be a while and like I said there are things you need to do with yourself or again it could be about your partner having to do this first.
But let me try to now look at everything from the perspective of what kind of person this energy would draw in or if I look at this more like how is it describing your next partner. But please really keep in mind that if this sounds like you and deep down you know that you're not ready or that you still have work to do that this is the message for you and we can end it here. It doesn't mean you'll never find anybody, it just means that now's not the right time for her relationship.
But for those who have done the work and feel like they've been healed and are still wondering okay I've done the healing I've gone through all this. I don't feel like I'm that bitter anymore or if I am it's a normal amount and I'm trying so where's my person? These are valid questions. And I find them very relatable
Now let's pretend all these cards are solely about the person and not you.
I actually feel like probably they will mirror you in certain ways like about your journey or having gone through some rough relationships and having to do their own work and set their own boundaries and even having that skepticism of whether they're going to meet somebody.
I would say that yeah they would have to be compassionate to sometimes a fault. I think they are a person who is genuinely kind. I think that they think a lot about the future. They could have recovered from not just issues of codependency and relationships or with friends or family or whatever other that mostly probably includes boundaries. They could also have had issues of becoming obsessed or addicted in other ways. They could be recovering from drinking or gambling issues or just like obsessively shopping online. Mostly I'm not really seeing things like that. I'm seeing more someone who really had to learn that they didn't need to get validation from other people. And again it doesn't just have to be romantic partners. They could have issues with family and trying to appease them. Having them people pleasers at some point and really having to learn that they need to respect them themselves first. So there's been a lot of contemplation about that as well.
I think sometimes they can be a little lonely as people can when they are kind but feel like they can't always connect on the same level. I would say very empathetic especially about world events. When other people suffer, they tend to hurt too.
I think they're very generous. They might have this is very specific but like a Venus that's very domestic. Like a Venus in cancer which is funny because I think we're entering that now maybe? I'm not sure. They could be a cancer or some other water sign. Because I get the sense that their love language is more about actions than words. In fact this person may have a difficult time verbally expressing how they feel. They could be a bit more introverted. They might even prefer to be alone rather than out in a crowd or partying.
Again the getting to know each other card could indicate that you meet through a friend group or a friend of a friend, at a party, on a dating app, on a blind date. It would be a very slow process. I'm also suddenly getting Gemini energy because we tend to like to get to know each other but if the other person moves too fast you can scare us off. So I feel like both of you are kind of like that but this person especially might want to take it slow.
They could be quite alluring and mysterious. Not only are they attractive, but they're very deep. They might want to have deep conversations. They could be a bit prideful. They might not be shallow or anything but I think they definitely care about their looks. I feel like they have really nice hair. Whether it's a man or a woman I feel like they have really thick nice hair. Well groomed in the hair area. As in it's not like long and Tangled and unkempt. Well it could be long but it's not going to be all over the place.
I do think that they have a strong personality. Even if they aren't extroverted, I'm not seeing them as shy. I see them as quite loyal. For the most part, it does seem like they have a steady job or steady income and are responsible or reliable in that type of financial area. As for what they actually do? I guess it could be a lot of different things if a lot of people are reading. I am feeling like they are a very unique individual. Because I'm still seeing these oracle cards as their tarot cards. With that Leo and Scorpio and Libra and Taurus energy plus a bit of Aquarius. That would make somebody be very intense. I'm capable of being flirtatious. Naturally attractive. Unique style or a unique perspective on life. If I had all of these qualities, what kind of job would I do? Aesthetic and bold. They could be a graphic designer or an artist but someone who has a very unique style of art. What I would be seeing is someone whose brain is almost kind of mathematical and how they do art. I don't know art well enough to compare that to something but I guess I would say very sharp imagery like geometric patterns or modern art that focuses on natural elements organic elements. That's so specific. Basically they could be doing anything but they have a very sharp and unique and narrow perspective or niche I guess would be the word with what they do. Not just an artist but somebody who paints this type of specific style about this specific type of subject a person who is an accountant but they're an accountant in this specific industry that focuses on this.
Again I'm feeling for sure you would be meeting them through a friend group. I guess you could be set up by mutual friends or it's a very casual get-together of people and then you get introduced to this person. But basically any situation where it might be kind of awkward at first because you don't really know each other and you have to sit down and talk and ask questions and not just that but you both have to maybe put effort into keeping the conversation going. Not because it's boring or weird or anything, it's that you both might be a little bit rusty when it comes to romance or relationships or having these types of conversations.
And I think you both might be thinking okay I don't want to get too deep into this because I don't want to scare them off. Or you could even thank or not realize that it could potentially go somewhere. It might feel like oh I'm just like we're just talking and then you get to talking you're like I don't know I kind of like this person. But again I still feel like the cards are saying don't rush into it. Not just because you shouldn't rush into it but because I think the other person doesn't want to rush into it. And again I'm really seeing that this person is quite generous. Especially with their friends or family. As in they give them money when they need it or give them practical gifts when they need it. Like oh my dad said he needed a new fishing pole because the last one just got broken so you buy them a new fishing pole and a couple of lures. I don't know why that example it's just what came to mind. But not just like a gift card. Nothing wrong with gift cards but it's like oh you said you needed that so I went ahead to the store and got it for you and it's functional. They aren't going to give you something that's crazy overpriced and kind of superficial just to impress you. They're going to give you something that you said you need or they know you need.
I think they're really good at offering solutions. Now if you want to vent to somebody just to have them listen, I'm not sure this would be the person for you LOL because I do feel like this is a person that will listen but then expects that you want a solution unless told otherwise. Because there's something very practical about this person. Logical. I don't think they're stiff in any way I just think they lean more toward being rational and logical than being emotional.
The only number that comes up twice is eight eight. So they could be born on the 8th or in the 8th month or you could meet on the 8th. Your first date could be on the 8th.
I feel like they have a lot of responsibility or have a feeling they need to carry more than they should. So I think what you could do for them to show them affection or what they want in terms of a love language would be well it's kind of difficult to pinpoint. Because this feels like somebody who is pretty used to doing things on their own so they aren't used to other people doing stuff for them. So I would guess that what comes to mind first is something simple like let's say they come out of a store and they're carrying a lot of bags and then you made them and they're pretty intent on carrying all of them and you're like do you want me to carry a couple of those?
And at first they might be like no I got it but then you just take it. Like slowly and burdening this person of things where you can. Like they say something like well I'm so busy I got to go get groceries and then I have to go pick up some stamps and then I need to go do this and you're like well I can go to the post office and get you some stamps that's on my way to go do this thing. And I'm like I don't know that's too much trouble and you're like no really bro I can do it. Thank you but I still feel like they're going to be resistant to allowing other people to help them. And that's really again because they're used to doing things all on their own and taking care of themselves. They're pretty independent.
In terms of entertainment they might like things where they mostly are by themselves. These could be like doing more solo sports like golf. Although I could see them playing pickleball I guess. Going to an exhibit by themselves. Going to the movies by themselves. I don't think they're a complete hermit, I just think they like to do things on their own. I don't think they're antisocial either because I do see them doing things with a small group of friends or maybe even into sports or Ellie's like doing things outdoors running hiking walking working out. I'm feeling a lot of Scorpio now because I feel like I'm just constantly worrying or brooding I guess is the right word. And then I feel like a little Libra coming in too. I guess I feel a lot of different things. Granted that this could be that there are different signs for different people. But mostly I just think this person isn't easy to fit into a box. They are complex. They're smart. But they are empathetic and think deeply and feel deeply like a Scorpio. But I have very bold ideas and bold thoughts and bold ways of expressing themselves when they do. And yet I do think there's something very open and spiritually about them that they can appreciate the beauty of a moment. The beauty of the sunrise. The beauty of an intimate experience with a friend or loved one enough to say that wow you know this is something I want to remember forever.
And I think you'll be drawn to that mysteriousness and allure and sensuality. You might be a bit nervous about it because I'm feeling like you or I guess this could be vice versa but so one of you is that type of person and the other is more like air energy and kind of anxious but what you have and in common is that kindness and these experiences that you went through in life that are similar so you are both at a place where you have learned similar lessons even if individually you might have different personalities I think in you they might find some what do I want to say whimsy? Softness? Optimism I? You are more like a light to them I guess while they see themselves as not like a dark brooding figure and they are more grounded and serious than you are. You might get youthfully excited about silly things and they might find those things I won't say trivial but wouldn't have been as excited as you but they grow excited by seeing you be excited. I don't feel any of the possessiveness of a Scorpio. So there's nothing telling me that this person would want to hurt you in any way. Thanks or have some secret tendencies of manipulating.
I really meant to keep these piles short but I guess if I can tell you as much as possible that can help. Any final thoughts let me see. Nope I think we covered pretty much everything. I'm seeing lots of muted colors. I was trying to decide if there's a color that stands out for me but really I'm just saying muted greens and blues and Earth tones. Not jewel tones because it's not that bright but not pastel either. Nice Earth tones so I guess my advice is also be as authentic as you possibly can because I think they'll be attracted to that aspect of you which is why they're more likely rather than during a one-on-one conversation but when they see you interacting with other people in an authentic way they will be charmed by that moment. Like if you do meet at a party even after you've had that conversation.
They're more likely to then after you leave and interact with other people to be watching you and how you interact with those people and something about what you do or how you talk or some small gesture that you do like tucking your hair behind your ear or the way you laugh will be something they'll be drawn to. I definitely don't think they like people who put upprete Texas or act fake. If you do act fake in any way I think that they would be turned off. You wouldn't even have a chance with them. And yeah I think they'll be drawn to something that they see as being unique not like kind of oh pick me out I'm so special kind of way. Just this aspect of you that they happen to observe and find charming. That's all.
Pile 2
Why is this giving a bit of the same vibes as pile one. Pile one there was an issue regarding codependency. This time we have cards talking about control issues. It also kind of fits with the tarot cards. The eight of swords and the Ace of swords. I'm getting kind of like the same idea that okay you are locked in and tied up here and then you have this Ace of swords that could cut your bindings so that you're free. In fact it almost is giving me five of cups because you can't see it but there's the sword in the bottom left corner of that card and it's like oh if you could just see it if you could just reach it you could get yourself out of the situation.
But the let go of control issues card says allow this situation to unfold naturally. It's kind of a strange image on here because it looks like a woman who's holding a vase with probably water or I don't know. And she looks like she has a kid. And then there is a guy to the side that's a little bit shady looking who's staring at them. With these angels in the background. To me it's actually a pretty uncomfortable card but we'll come back to that.
We also have the king of cups. And the four of wands. These are two spectacular cards right. Then we have the Divine card, the lovers card, and rise card. The Divine card reminds me a lot of the king of cups. But also clearly it would remind me of the high priestess or the empress because it's a lot about feminine energy. It's about pure flowing emotion, rooted and overflowing with sympathy and compassion.
Then we have the lovers card which says this is a card about choosing love or fear. You can choose to live out of love or live in resistance to love one opens the heart while the other closes it. And then you have the rise card which says rising out of the ashes, taking those first steps after darkness, finding your wings and a new dawn. Yeah this is very similar to pile one
I guess it's possible people would be going through similar things around relationships or you could have been drawn to both piles. I thought pile one just had a lot of advice for the people who picked it and then I tried to talk about okay but but tell me more about the actual person that will be next. Although sometimes the cars are like I don't care about that I'm just going to tell people what they need to hear. And it's like that's great and all but like people want a fun reading with everything happening in the world so could you just be chill.
So again like with the first pile there's this sense of coming out of a situation where maybe things didn't work. So maybe a lot of you have had past the experiences that didn't work out well. You might be in between whether you actually want a relationship or not because of what you've been through. You might not have even been in a serious relationship for a while. You could be skeptical of being in a relationship. So I think the cards are basically saying you know rather than worry about all those negatives or what ifs, just let the next relationship come to you naturally. There's really nothing that you can possibly do about it to make it come in quicker or know the very exact details of the person that's coming.
So if you want more advice you can always scroll up to pile one but ignore the part where I talk about codependency and potentially abusive relationships that could have happened to you before. That could be a case for some of you here. It's not talking about that directly. To me again it's talking more about giving advice regarding this pile seems more intense than the previous pile and how much you want to know about what's coming. You know there are people who are like okay we'll like maybe I just want to know some details are like something but the people in this pile make me feel like okay I'm expecting an Excel spreadsheet with the exact details of what they're going to look like, how many kids we're going to have, how much money they make and like how many people they've dated and probably people who go to different readers and ask them about their next romantic partner. Like you've asked 50 different people and it still doesn't satisfy you. I'm not saying that's a bad thing that's a question I've asked readers a lot too. They all give me different answers. I haven't met the person yet so I kind of understand why people keep going.
But what I'm imagining is let's say you're sitting on a bench and you're so busy scrolling through your phone reading about like astrology things or checking up on what other tarot readers are saying that you don't even notice that your person just walked by you on the bench. You're not even paying attention to what's in front of you anyway. So much so that you are actually getting in the way of your chances of finding your person. So I do think the cards are saying let go and chill out a little bit and that will make you more likely to meet a person. Now let's get into okay so who the hell is this person? The last file I wanted to draw more because I felt like okay yeah great you guys gave your advice. But who is the person. If I just use the cards that are in front of me…
And that's what I used to describe the person. The king of cups is a great card right. It wouldn't make me think that you two would be kind of a match in the sense that one person would be the king of cups and the other person seems like the queen of cups. So you could both be water signs I guess. That doesn't really matter to me. But in the other sense you both just seem like really compassionate people. Or this person is very heavy in water and maybe air as well. But there's a lot of compassion and empathy and kindness. Somebody who would be a good listener. Regardless of the gender, they might gravitate more toward being in their feminine energy.
I feel like it's also somebody who tends to be kind of a cheerleader for their partner. You know somebody who's like really enthusiastic and whenever you feel down they're going to say you know you got this. They could have a bit of Gemini in them. Or like a Gemini Moon. I'm definitely feeling a lot of water and this spark of air particularly yes Gemini. So also really good at communication. I feel like they would be very direct. I when I say cheerleader I don't mean like it's fake enthusiasm. When you need to be told something, like this is how it is then this person will say that but for the most part they don't feel the need to be direct or blunt or honest in a way that would feel hurtful. As some Gemini can be I can say that because I am one. Sometimes I'm so interested in being honest that the way I say it can be very self-righteous
This card about control issues could be something that they went through in their own life. Like having to learn to let go and relax. This could be more about spiritual practices as well. Always kind of getting in your own way when it comes to manifestation or just worrying so much about things playing out in a certain way that you never let it happen naturally. And in theory yeah those things can create blockages. When you get to specific about the things that you want it doesn't really allow the universe to do what it does.
I think this person might like to gossip a little bit. They could have a cat or you could or they just might really like animals or be good with animals. You could meet them at a party, particularly like a happy celebration such as a wedding in particular or an anniversary party or birthday. I think they have a pretty upbeat personality. They might be from somewhere near water or really enjoy the water. They might like to travel. I feel like they're really observant because the king of cups in this card has like a telescope in his hand so it makes me think that he watches people very carefully. But again I'm picking up that they're quite the gossip. They would enjoy watching like let's say for example that this was a guy. Not that it couldn't be a woman. Brian is saying like a guy or woman this person would watch stupid reality TV shows with you like The bachelor or love Island. They might say they don't like it but they do. Like silly gossip stupid stuff. They would get a kick out of it because they aren't uptight or snobby about their entertainment. They seem like they would be pretty light-hearted and fun. Again I'm getting lots of Gemini or even Libra. But a lot of water
I do think they are a bit opinionated or have lots of different opinions on things. I think they could be quite chatty or sociable. I think that Gemini is coming through again in that they like to learn things. And they learn things by talking to people or asking people things. They might come from a family where they have several siblings. Like more than usual. They might be somebody that dies their hair frequently or has really kind of like an interesting fashion style
I do think that they are probably either religious or spiritual. I'm also wondering if I need to give a very specific message to somebody that could be like okay well I'm in a situation where my parents want me to partake in an arranged marriage. But I don't feel comfortable doing that and would rather get to know somebody naturally. Or like a situation where okay there is an arranged marriage but you want to be able to get to know the person better before you actually have to marry them. Which I think when people do this they can meet up and talk and it's not like it has to happen right away. Some of you could be single parents or they could be a single parent and it's not like I'm saying that as an issue but I keep coming back to the control issues image on that card. And I guess I'm seeing a specific scenario for anybody reading in India. But even so when I look at the other cards it's making me think you're not trapped or you know there's a way out of it that can either be through asking for something or some type of communication. Or saying whatever it is you need to say to either your family or the person that they set you up with
But yeah I just feel like somebody's really worried about making the wrong decision or saying something wrong or not saying a thing or trying to make everything feel perfect or wanting everything to come out perfectly. I think that's the major control issue thing here. Is somebody expecting perfection and everything wrapped up nicely in a bow. That's just not realistic
And if it is the case I kind of feel like this person isn't going to be what you expected anyway. If you put down a list of all the things that this person is. I think they'll be different. Because you expected like somebody on a 12 out of 10 scale and not to say this person isn't a 12 but they're more of like a personality find. They could be perfectly good looking but this is more about their personality and I think you'll fall in love with their kindness and empathy and ability to listen to you.
Like when you talk they aren't looking at their Apple watch or their phone. They're genuinely listening to you and they won't interrupt you when you talk. And then instead of giving like cold advice I think they would say something in a way that's very encouraging but not patronizing. They'd be very easy to talk to. Very charming and romantic. Probably a little witty but I still feel like the most important quality about them is their kindness and not many people are able to encourage others. Lots of people want encouragement themselves. But this person is very happy to let other people shine and wants them to shine and thinks that they should help other people to feel good about themselves. Just a genuinely nice person. I would even venture to say that they come from a good family that gave them a good upbringing.
I don't feel like they're the oldest in the family. When I go back to the siblings card I would think that they have siblings that kind of taught this person how to behave or act and because of that family they've kind of grown up to be a good person. Again I'm wondering if they are from somewhere near water or genuinely enjoy being near water. I'm getting a lot of emphasis on water here. Even when I look at the mountains in these cards I'm seeing them as water.
What's interesting is I talked about that little telescope and then in this Divine card it looks like she has eyes all over her body. Which kind of makes me think of the Uchiha eyeballs but anyway. So again there's a lot of emphasis on watching or being watched. I mean it could be that this person is either super observant or they also might have a lot of admirers who watch them. Like I don't know even some of you might attract a celebrity I guess now I'm hearing the song I've got this feeling somebody's watching me.
I'm pretty sure you're not manifesting a stalker. But maybe it's part of their job or something else. I'm seeing it as being really observant. Almost two very particular degree almost to that perfectionist level that I was feeling. Like I feel really focused on something. Maybe that's why I feel so focused that this person is tied up.
But again this could be something from their past or something that is in your personality where there's so much focus on something that I guess I don't want to say it doesn't matter cuz that could be invalidating but these other cards are showing me that like you're much happier when you're free. When you aren't worrying or watching what other people are doing or comparing yourself to what people show on social media which is mostly fake. If you have to post your life on social media so that other people can think that you're doing great then that person probably isn't doing great right. Because if you were truly happy with your life as is you wouldn't need validation from other people.
I'm not saying that's all social media is but I think we all know that when it comes to influencers they put the best stuff out there when it almost never is like how they show in photos. So there's no point in comparing yourself to what you see on social media. It's more about just go out and do what makes you happy and that might be the solution for how you find your person. Actually living life instead of being tucked inside somewhere or limiting yourself because you have a certain expectation. I almost feel like you know in the past you could have been with people and kind of nitpicked them to death. Like made them feel they had to be a certain way that you wanted instead of letting them just be themselves. Or it could be vice versa perhaps you dated somebody who told you you know what to wear or that you should lose weight or that kind of stuff.
So take that however any of it resonates but my advice would be if you're asking how to find the person well you need to do the things that you enjoy. Like you would meet them going to a party or going on vacation or going out with friends and just having fun instead of scrolling on your phone and not paying attention and letting life go by. By not having really specific narrow expectations of what this person should be like. Like nobody's perfect and you're going to miss out on somebody really great if you are looking at social media and you're like wow I wish I could have somebody that's perfect like that and we just get a dog and get married and have a cute little house and it's like well that even make you happy that's just what you see online and think will make you happy. So once you go through that phase of life then you might be ready for this person. Who seems genuinely kind and wonderful and supportive. So they will give you all the love that you could possibly want but you also have to be in a place where you can give that equally as opposed to draining them or making it feel like one-sided.
So I guess I would have to wonder you know a lot of people that picked this pile are they quite young and a little emotionally immature? It's not an attack but I just feel like there's a lot of unrealistic expectations about what a partner should be like or what marriage should be like or a relationship should be like. I think you need to reflect on what's realistic and what mature love is really like and what it's like to be in a relationship when there are two people. One person doesn't serve the other one. It's supposed to be if someone needs something the other one can give but then when the other person needs something that person can give. And just the obvious thing is you know don't be controlling? Mind what you say. Maybe you have a bit of a sharp tongue.
I see a lot of red and blue in the cards so a bit of communication or throat chakra or what have you with a bit of root chakra. Maybe this could be about again being more logical. Because when I think of root chakra it's something that's grounded. It's kind of not being fearful of the unknown. And then throat chakra would be about how you think or communicate. So again I feel like this person is going to be very rooted in their conversation and thinking skills. Like very good with people. If I had to say what job they would be good in, I would think not really life coaches sometimes those folks can be a little wacky but because they're so good at encouragement but also aren't egocentric. I could say like a workout coach but the kind of workout coach that isn't crazy. You know somebody that's genuinely encouraging and wants to help people live a better life like in a holistic way.
Really they could do anything because I'm just feeling like they're a good person. Maybe a bit average like an average good person you know. Even if they were somebody famous, when they come home they still act like a regular person. They aren't stuck up. They don't think they're better than anybody. They like to let other people shine. They'd be really good if you had kids. Because they'd be good with kids and somebody who has like a natural fraternal or maternal instinct. Because again they let other people have their space and the room to grow and be who they are and do what they want…
I'm trying to think if I can compare them to any celebrity. I guess that's hard to say since I don't know any celebrities personally. Harry styles comes to mind. What's his face who's with Zendaya. Like a gentleman right. Somebody who's probably I guess I won't say progressive because I'm not sure in all cases. Physically I wonder if not that some of you won't have somebody who's good looking that I keep feeling like this would be somebody who has just a little bit of a belly but for some reason the belly is really cute to me.
With the telescope and the eyes and a couple of figures looking up at the sky I wonder if they're interested in stars and astrology as well. Or if that isn't it maybe they're interested in physics or the universe or space exploration. They might particularly like to watch movies about space like the Martian or interstellar. They might be interested in exploring. In all kinds of different fields whether it's like exploring bacteria and biology to exploring different animals under the ocean that nobody has discovered yet. I think this is more about this person's interest in the world. They're interested in people. They're interested in things. Like if you were walking in the woods. It reminds me of namjoon.
How like he might stop at a tree because he sees this little insect and he like goes over it and he gets really excited about it. And then when you go home he'll look up about it be like oh that's a so and so and then tell you like oh it likes to eat this and it only comes out of night and blah blah blah. They're just really interested in the world and people and things and learning things that's why they can listen to people. Anyway so that's a lot to take in. I'm personally kind of really interested in whoever this is. Because they smell like such a good person and such like ea kind-hearted person. You could have really nice conversations with them and then at the end you wouldn't be left feeling tired or flustered because you talked about too much you'd feel like oh wow now I really feel like I can write that book. You wouldn't even know that they're doing it but they just have this ability to make other people feel better about themselves. It would definitely be a good person to grow old with.
Pile 3
Well the first two piles were kind of complicated and instead of just giving me a simple idea of the person, it felt like giving me messages that people needed to hear before they could connect with that person. We'll see if that happens here too.
This might end up being kind of straightforward? Let's just talk. Because I almost feel like it's more a personal message again. But all of the cards seem to indicate that you have the potential or it's within your power to manifest whatever you want or you're already manifesting this, in particular I would think that it is romantic love. Because you have the magician and the queen of cups. And out of all the things on The magician's table, it's accompanied by a card where she's holding the cup right. So it indicates you want to manifest this relationship, you already are, or you have the power to right.
But what is strange or interesting about the other tarot cards is they kind of match up well with those oracle cards. Because the void card is about even when you're in the space where like you might feel kind of empty or detached or just like in this bubble where it's just you, there's room to be able to create something right. And this looks a lot like what is happening with the moon and the four of cups
I know it would be easy to kind of read this as negative because well and we can talk about that aspect but I'm still seeing because the moon makes me think of Pisces and then this person is sitting by the tree kind of just contemplating things and so something about the stopping and pausing to think about what you want or how to get it leaves space to be able to manifest it or create it or make it happen. But it's like okay what do you need to pause on. What's the advice here? I guess we can look to the gratitude card which is basically like look to everything you already have with thanks and be appreciative of what you do have. The other part of the advice we have is heart-to-heart conversations. Honestly discuss feelings with each other.
This might be more for people who are in a situationship perhaps? I guess you could already have a partner. It could even be that you have somebody in mind and again it's feeling more like a situationship. I guess it could be somebody who hasn't confessed their feelings or entered into a relationship but has somebody in mind. Because it's almost like okay you're contemplating what to do on something right. But there's a part of you that's not accepting the reality of something or not accepting that it's a possibility or the other person hasn't accepted it completely yet.
But regardless of what is actually happening in this situation, it seems like the issues can be resolved by talking about it. Even in the image of that oracle card there is at least one person who doesn't want to hear it or doesn't want to talk about it or isn't listening. And it almost feels like they've pulled away. So if you are in a situationship and there's something like this going on it still recommends that you find some space where it's just the two of you to talk about it. Or besides that it feels like a little bit deeper I guess. Maybe this is very specific for a specific person but that's fine. It feels like there are two people. And for some reason space has come between them. This could be emotionally or physically. But it still feels like within that space there's room to grow and create something if you talk about it.
So this could be a matter of some issue with forgiveness or anything. It doesn't have to be an Ex-Lover exactly. But I'm just getting the sense that there are two people. One person is being a bit stubborn. They asked to take space or want space. Another person is trying to explain something but it feels like that person has already kind of started to pull away. Maybe one person isn't feeling appreciated and that's why the gratitude card is here. So if you are in a relationship where you aren't feeling appreciated or heard then I would suggest having a conversation about your true feelings. Or vice versa if you're in a relationship and someone has pulled away and you're like okay why aren't they talking to me as much like why do they feel detached. I would have a conversation with them about it and it might be that they are feeling neglected or unappreciated.
So one scenario which I guess we could talk about is that if you are in a relationship and you are like reading this and you picked this pile and you're actually not sure if she should be staying with this person so you were looking to see if there's another person out there for you that's better or this matches up. Yes sure this could be the tail end of your relationship and maybe there's somebody else out there for you. Especially if this person doesn't want to talk about it or fix anything or change and you feel unappreciated. Could you talk about it and fix it? Yes could you talk about it and it doesn't get fixed and you break up? Yes.
So that handles one group of people. But what about the people who picked this pile and they aren't in a relationship is there anything here for them or do they need to pick another pile.
Now if I'm talking to somebody who is single and still wants to learn about their next romantic partner let's talk about it that way and then we'll try to figure out what this person would be like based on the cards that we got and then as I pull more cards for a more concrete idea of what this person is like.
Now if you're single and if not in a situationship and you're like what I don't like anybody at all. Okay let's talk about that too. Again I would think that it is somebody who is attempting to manifest or has maybe been attempting to manifest a romantic relationship for a long time. They could be feeling a little bit depressed that it's been awhile or that they haven't been able to find somebody. It could also be what I'm seeing more is that there have been opportunities for a relationship and it could be that your standards are high or the timing wasn't right or whatever but it's like okay well I've been thinking about this thing and there's this cup being offered to me but I'm not interested or I already have my hands full or like I just don't have time for a relationship. But you want companionship it seems like.
And maybe the void card is saying you know it's okay to take that time to figure out what you want. Because within that time of you being single and not being in a relationship and you thinking about what you want and your standards that's actually allowed you the ability to understand what you want to manifest exactly. Whether you're thinking about the things that you don't want in a partner or whatever maybe that's helping the universe narrow down what to bring you. I know some people say don't be so picky but in this instance I don't get the feeling like you're wanting too much. Like just that the options you've been given are of interest to you
In fact I feel like you've probably been pretty disappointed with options. Whether you did try to date a little bit you were like no this isn't for me none of these people will work. Or you've been single without dating and just nobody has crossed your path that you would be interested in. I wouldn't say there's a lot of bitterness per se but it's just like disappointment, some loneliness, some uncertainty about why you can't find anybody or if you're ever going to find somebody. I feel like there have been thoughts about okay am I just going to like be alone forever?
But on the other hand I think because you've been single and you haven't poured all of your time into a relationship, you've been able to put more time into yourself and the things that you want to do like a career or studying or travel. So it's giving you the opportunity whether you have really acknowledged it that being single has given you opportunities that you couldn't have had if you were in a relationship and even though you were lonely it feels like you should be thankful for what you have been able to do. I won't say there is a purpose for you to be alone but I think for a lot of people it just wasn't in the plan for you to find somebody immediately and settle down. It feels like if you believe in soul contracts that you signed up for something that was more about your individual journey than some type of companionship. Or I guess I should just say it doesn't have to be that you were alone forever but it might take a while for you to find the person because it just feels like you are on a specific type of soul journey. To figure out yourself or contemplate other things. Romantic stuff wasn't really a priority. And again you could have had several relationships before this point but they were disappointing and they just didn't work out.
You could even be a person who sometimes thinks to themselves that they don't have any special skills or talents even though when I look at the magician card I think this is a person who was actually really capable of doing anything. Especially paired with the queen of cups. You know you would definitely be somebody who could be creatively skilled, empathetic. This makes me think of anybody really that could be an artist or a teacher or a therapist or a social worker somebody who actually even if it's not romantic you're actually really good with people or good withdrawing people to you. I think you're a good listener and so I think people appreciate that about you.
I don't necessarily think you're all an introvert but I definitely think a lot of you need time to be alone and think about stuff. In fact I don't really see you as being an introvert. I definitely see somebody who appreciates their alone time but enjoys being social. Without even realizing it. Like maybe you are quite popular at work and so you do a lot of socializing there and then you go home and you're just chilling by yourself and wondering okay well nobody really wants to do anything. But you're definitely capable of being social.
Again I'm thinking that most of you really do have your mind on somebody. Or if it's not that then it's weird that you would be reading this reading because it's like you might be focused on something else. You're not even really ready for a romantic relationship right now. You might be curious but you seem focused on other things anyway.
I also wonder if you're bored. I don't know if you're bored because you're lonely and alone or you're bored if you are one of the people in a situationship and you're just kind of like not feeling like the relationship is going anywhere so again you're here looking to confirm if this person is for you or if there's somebody else.
Some of you might have even dated just because you were lonely and bored and not because you particularly liked the person either. But I mean hey at least it taught you something about being in a relationship and what you do or don't like probably.
What's also interesting about the heart heart card is I feel like you know with the angels kind of bringing these two people together, there are a couple of specific scenarios. Another thing could be you might be asking if there's a romantic partner and then previously you've actually dated somebody who has passed away. Like I said it's specific but it's something I'm getting and then you would be still caught up on that person. That's a specific scenario.
Another scenario feels like again there could be somebody around you already. Like say in this card the Angels have brought this option or this person to you but you're staring off. And it's like this four of cups where you're being offered this person and you haven't considered them or you just haven't had this conversation yet but this person actually is a very good option. It could be that they are around you now or they are coming very soon. The moon card although whether you associate it with Pisces or cancer. But we are currently in cancer season so there's a possibility some of you will meet somebody very soon if you don't already know them and within cancer season. Do we actually have two lobsters. I moved my which tarot deck and the cards are in my car so I just have the photo to look at but I'm pretty sure there's a lobster in that Queen of cups picture and then there's a lobster in the Moon. The first thing that comes to me is that thing from the friends series about somebody being a lobster which is like a soulmate.
But let's talk about the people that either have somebody around them now that has potential as a romantic partner or this person would be coming in very soon. Let's talk about that scenario now. So it's like fate has brought this person to you. You either haven't met them yet but will soon or they are already in your peripheral I guess but you are so focused on something else that you haven't realized that they could be that person. I mean you might kind of know them or let's say you work at a school and they work at the school but you have only seen them in passing or haven't bumped into them yet but you're in the same space.
Now if that person has been put somewhere around you and you haven't met or even if you have met and are kind of aware of them or you've met them and you know them but you haven't seen them like that yet. These cars are saying there's definitely romantic potential with this person. I do think that if you believe in soulmate stuff or whatever that the universe has offered you an option and you're not really paying attention or just uncertain about if you're ready to commit. So even if you met this person and you were given the opportunity to talk to them, I think you would still put up a wall and be like I don't know if I'm ready I kind of like being single or I'm just not sure what I want or I've been alone for so long that I don't know if I'm ready to bring another person in. So it's like you're making up all these different scenarios or excuses in your head when there are options around you or there will be options coming shortly.
I was trying to figure out why the image of the hand on this black whatever in the void card made me think of a hand on a button. And maybe this is again about being uncertain because you use a button in a game show if you know the answer or if you want to reject the thing right like it's a no thanks kind of buzzer. So you might be indecisive in that whether or not you want to hit this button. Do you want to enter the relationship or don't you or do you want to enter it with this person or what do you want. I feel like you're really conflicted when it comes down to it.
I think in terms of solutions or what to do, again we come back to having a conversation. Like if they come up to you to talk to listen to them and not ignore them for one. It could also be that you're being asked to take the initiative and have a conversation with them or hear them out. It could be that if there is someone and you're conflicted to talk to friends or somebody else about what you should do. Or if you're just feeling a certain way and you're like there's no person and there's no option for whatever to talk to this person cuz we barely know each other, again it could be about talking to other people in your life about something that's happening.
I guess another message I could present is okay let's say you aren't interested in a relationship right now. Why are you reading this? I don't know you're free to read whatever you want. But somebody is interested in you, you're contemplating whether you want to be with them but you just aren't interested, the cards again say you know don't leave them hanging go ahead and tell them how you feel and be like no I'm just not interested I'm appreciative of your feelings but I'm not interested at this time.
Okay now let's talk as if we are using the cards to describe your next romantic person. And then I'll pull some extra cards if I need to.
Well looking at the cards you would think probably a water sign or heavy water in their chart. We have three water cards in the tarot and then magician is Gemini and Virgo so a bit of air and Earth. Gratitude makes me think of air with the bird. And then void could be actually it's giving me water. Maybe a bit of Earth.
They could in particular be a cancer since we have the moon card here. Sure they could be a Scorpio or Pisces. They could especially have a water moon because I have the moon card next to a water card. I guess maybe for a few of you they could have a moon in the air sign or an earth sign. But I'm leaning more toward a lot of water. Maybe even a Scorpio Moon or Pisces moon in particular because it feels like somebody who's very deeply introspective. I don't want to say broody because that does make me think of a Scorpio but like I'm also getting Pisces too. And then again yeah we could go back to cancer. They could be a moon in cancer or Moon and Scorpio or moon and Pisces.
I think that in terms of career like I said before it could be a person who works in a creative field but I'm feeling more like they're multi-talented, multi-skilled, good at a lot of different things. Kind of like a Gemini so maybe some of them have like Mars in Gemini or Saturn in Gemini? Is that even possible I'm not sure.
I think those cards also make me think of somebody who feels a lot of different things. Super empathetic to the point that I do think they could be a bit of an empath. I think their ability to connect with people or something about the way they feel or their emotional IQ makes them a good candidate for a lot of different jobs and can bring a lot of different opportunities into their life. So like I said you know they could change careers quite a bit but any kind of career that has to do with compassion or a good listener or somebody who's a bit emotionally mature or deep. Definitely any kind of artistic skills from writing to painting to directing to acting. But then they could really make a great teacher or somebody who would be a good mentor.
I think they would be a person who if you were a friend of theirs they would give really good advice. Unlike one of the other piles where I felt like the person was a bit light-hearted and more of a cheerleader type of supportive partner. I do think this one is more likely to not always tell you what you want to hear. They're going to tell you the truth not because they're particularly honest but because they are looking at a situation from all sides. I'm not seeing a lot of air or anything but I'm still getting the impression that maybe they would be the type of person to play devil's advocate if not verbally emotionally. As in I guess this comes back to being an empath but able to see different people's points of view and not in terms of how they think but in terms of how the situation makes different people feel or how it makes them feel in different ways if that makes sense. It wouldn't be where like they would look at a political situation be like well I can see both sides I can see both points of view it would be like I feel hurt on both sides because the world isn't always black and white.
Sometimes it's shades of Gray and there are people herding on both sides. And they are more focused on that than what the person might be doing. Not that they can't say oh that's not good. I'm sure their morals are there but I just feel like they're able to empathize with all kinds of different people. Which is probably why they would be really good at the arts because they would be good at writing characters because they could understand the heroes as well as the villains. They could be a good director for the same reason. I guess any role where you can empathize with so many different people and then create this point of view.
Sorry I'm also thinking of Darcy from pride and prejudice all of a sudden where he's just kind of like staring off into the distance. So this could be a sign for you about pride and prejudice and that maybe romantic situation will be kind of like that where it's a bit difficult at first, maybe like an enemies to friends to lover situation. And then through talking and different encounters you get to learn more about each other and realize that perhaps you were wrong about each other from the beginning. And this is why you've ignored the option that's around you. Because you're like prejudiced LOL or too prideful. And then as you keep having more encounters with this person and having more conversations you come to understand that they're just living from a different perspective or seeing things in a different way and suddenly the two of you come together to understand what's happening. Which is funny because I was actually watching K-pop demon hunters or whatever that's called right before this and there are two characters that kind of go through a similar situation and it's feeling like this and it's funny that I watched it right before. It's also funny because I can see the DVD cover forever after which has a similar beginning too. My friend just got me that as kind of a joke because I used to watch that when I was young and we were best friends in high school.
So maybe it's that the universe thought you were bored and so they're going to give you this person that's going to give you a bit of a challenge. It might be somebody again who you argue with at first or you don't seem to get along with at first or when you talk you just aren't on the same page but I think eventually you would if you allowed it to happen, you would grow to like this person the same way that Elizabeth Bennett and Mr Darcy grew to like each other
What's also funny is I'm looking at the gratitude card and I think there's another card in this deck called rise and I was thinking this was the rise card because of the bird flying up. And so I again was thinking this is a relationship that's going to keep rising in level once you learn to appreciate each other. I can't tell if the bird is a falcon or an owl. Right now it's kind of looking more like an owl so maybe there's some wisdom to be found in the other person. You could be particularly wise in how you give advice or they could be. If it's like a falcon I would say the person has a bit of masculine to neutral energy. Regardless of gender of course. So again in terms of appearance they could be very Darcy like a bit masculine but also kind of pretty. So physically I'm getting that they are a bit neutral. I'm not talking about being androgynous I'm talking about just like either really pretty with like some masculine qualities or really masculine but like pretty qualities that soften. I'm also feeling like they would be quite protective but still very independent. Protective of their family especially a spouse and family. Probably a good provider. A bit spiritual. I don't feel like they believe in nothing. I feel most of these people would be have a spiritual element to them where they think there's something bigger than what there is.
The person is quite fierce. I think they have an interesting perspective on life because this bird is also up in the sky and so it's thinking from a higher perspective or a different perspective than how other people would think. Same with the moon in the sky in this card the person is like up in the sky and looking down and thinking about all kinds of different things and there's the dog the wolf and the lobster. So it's like the Moon is considering all different kinds of people and connecting with them despite there being three very different creatures in this card right. Same with four of cups we have somebody who's sitting and contemplating all kinds of different things. Including these three cups.
I just think it's somebody who thinks and feels a lot. Which again is giving me all the water signs. Void definitely links me to Scorpio. And it could be that this person has had mental health concerns like depression or other things. I'm not really feeling that hardcore I'm just saying that's a possibility and of course there's nothing wrong with that. But they could have gone through a period where they were depressed or going through some kind of grief or tragedy and had a lot to consider and think about and the perspective on life might have done pretty much a complete 360 or do you say 180 when it changes I don't know…
So yeah I'm really seeing that ending scene from pride and prejudice when he's walking through the field. Definitely a person who feels very prideful and sometimes caught up in their own worlds and their own thoughts and feelings that if you ever feel like they aren't paying attention to you that you need to remind them and anchor them back in because they just seem to live in this different universe within themselves. I'd be curious to know what's in their 12th house. Or where Pisces lives in their chart.
I would also think in terms of career this could be somebody who uses their hands a lot by the way but also has climbed in their career. Like steadily. They might start somewhere quite at the bottom like let's say if they did work in the movie industry they could start as an assistant or a runner or something and then work their way up to a director and then even own their own company. They have that kind of potential to rise to any place of work where they are from the ground up. And I think that's because not only they are creatively talented but they're good with people in a way that people like to work with them. It could be respect but they just seem to feel like they can get behind whatever passion project this person starts.
So my advice would be if you meet this person or there's some person like this. You can get through to them by talking to them. And if they are kind of blowing you off or in their own world and this of course goes within limits. If somebody constantly ghosts you or doesn't care about your feelings and is showing clear signs of disinterest then just back off and it doesn't need to go anywhere. That wouldn't be your person. But this person may be so preoccupied with work or thoughts about other things going on that they might accidentally blow you off like once or twice so you have to be patient. Because again pretend that you are in pride and prejudice and you try to make conversation with them at first and they sort of are rude because of other things going on. And then you meet again and maybe it happens but you get a little more out of them. Until finally you know you have some type of encounter where you both kind of have a change of heart and become interested. Anyway if you haven't seen the movie just watch that. You can also watch ever after.
And it's not to say you can't be mirroring each other in a way that like you've also gone through something similar where you had a time in life where you really felt like you needed to pull inward to kind of explore different things. They might have very long fingers as well. Like the kind of fingers you would use if you played piano. Long slender fingers.
I mostly see a lot of yellow and blue but that makes me again come back to thinking about having the confidence to talk about different things. This person definitely has some really bold thoughts. They could be even innovative in some ways and the way they think or in the way that they create something in their mind and then execute it. Like I'm not talking about science stuff although I guess that's a possibility but to me it's more creative. Like this is a small example because I think they have more potential than this but let's say they come up with a really unique type of film. Like when you saw eternal Sunshine of the spotless mind for the first time or being John malkovich.
ÚThese are very different films done in a different way but good films that have a point about The human experience. So this person could come up with a song that's just like oh that's a really good song that I can relate to and it's not like all the the manufactured pop or whatever that's out there now. Or the film is done in a different way kind of way. And I'm not getting like oh my art is misunderstood. It's like literally they just think about things in a different way so that they can put it together like completely different than other people have. So I can see where sometimes they might get absorbed into their work and you might be like well I kind of feel neglected because all you do is work. So I guess it depends on whether you can keep up with a person like that or you can fit into that person's life. Just because we're asking about the next romantic partner doesn't mean that it's like the last partner you'll ever have.
I'm trying to think if there's anything else and maybe I would have more if I had those two small cards in front of me even though I remember what they are and basically what they look like…
Do I want to touch on the fact that the queen of cups looks pregnant? Not really because to me it's just giving me empress vibes or the potential to manifest something that resembles something you can grow. And that comes back to creative projects or being able to create a relationship with another person. There is the potential with this person to do that but again I do think that not to say it'll be difficult but like just with any relationship it won't be super simple. It'll take time to not just get together but then even when you're in a relationship together with this person who's extremely talented and very deeply emotional that this isn't a light relationship to jump into.
You know like imagine jumping into a relationship with someone who just like doesn't have a care in the world. And this person s isn't like that they're very intense… they're not boring I would say but they're quite serious. So if you aren't prepared to enter into a relationship like that if you need something that's light and fun then great. But if you want passion and intensity and something a little dark and deep and complex and layered then this is the kind of person. Not to say that when you get together after 10 years this person wouldn't lighten up but at the beginning they're definitely very broody and kind of detached and maybe Moody. I'm not saying that they're abusive or anything I'm just saying they're artist in their own little world.
I tried to think of somebody in the life that you could compare it to so I don't want to say Johnny Depp because there's lots of icky things surrounding him so…
Wait why do I have to come up with an example I already told you that he was like Mr Darcy or even the prince from ever after. Somebody kind of pretentious and snotty in the beginning a little broody but sexy and intellectually interesting and creative who grows on you especially if you're kind of like a rebellious I don't give a f*** what you think type of person perhaps. Or you can challenge them at their own game. Some people might be into that. I think other people have probably met this person and thought damn this is too much work I'm not here for this or this is too serious and I need something a little bit lighter. But for the right person this match will make sense and still be something they didn't exactly expect and didn't think that they would ever probably try to work for but something about you I think when you meet this person like instinctually you'll feel a connection and like you want to get to know them more and then you'll be intrigued as you learn a little bit more about them each time.
As for timing like I said it could be very soon for people who read this now since it could be anytime around cancer season. It could be another time where the Moon is in a water placement coming up in the future. Do I see any indications of where? Buy a tree LOL there's two cards with trees in them. So I mean it could be a park. It could be a picnic. A barbecue. On a nature visit thing or a hike. They seem to especially enjoy nature and thinking out in nature. They could be wearing red and green or just red. I guess that could mean you could meet them around the Christmas season which would be in December/ January ish.
I think those colors also speak to their temperament with the red being somebody who's quite passionate and then the green and blue kind of mixing to show somebody who's also a bit grounded especially by nature and then also has this creative and empathetic side. The only thing that they don't seem to have as much of to me is air. Which might be there's a card here that's about you need to be the one to bring up stuff because maybe they aren't used to talking about their feelings. Maybe they can talk about it through their art but literally having conversations about their feelings could be difficult. So in order for you to know how they feel you would have to ask them. They might be a person who's more likely to show their affection through action or services.
Awesome maybe bring in another card about that I'm focusing on the hands and stuff and then when I think of the void card it makes me think of showing your hand like that phrase about cards but it also means you know to show how you actually feel or what you really think. So again I think this person is a bit hard to read as to whether they're interested in you or not. Again back to Mr Darcy. Hard to tell that he was interested in Elizabeth but he definitely was as the story goes along. So if you're unsure but you both seem like you're probably attracted to each other. If they're giving you the signs you just have to ask. They might even be surprised that it's not obvious that they like you because to them they've been doing everything to make you realize that except saying it.
So I hope that's pretty detailed enough to help you with your next romantic relationship.
