#bodyshaming

[kpopwithnyxx13]

This is your monthly reminder to NOT FUCKING BODYSHAME IDOLS

It's genuinely disgusting behavior and anyone doing it should be ashamed!!!

[fish-arent-real]

Suddenly struck by the wild memory of that one Tumblr post that PASSIONATELY claimed that "you have no worth after going through twink death". To which OP adamately argued with me that their post was NOT in fact fatphobic! Their reason being, of course, that twink death is about getting OLD, NOT about your weight, and actually I'm the idiot for not knowing that!!!

So anyways, yes the concept of "twink death" is incredibly fucking gross and I never want to hear about it again. It is wildly fatphobic, bodyshaming, and ALSO ageist. There is no pretending it isn't. "Twink" is not some ideal queer body type that needs to be desperately preserved like a damn fossil. It is just a descriptor, that's it. It does not matter how your body changes or why, it will ALWAYS have worth. It will always be worthy of love and desire and care. It is not lesser because it is different. For your body to have changed, it means you have lived and that is a beautiful thing. Fuck the bodyshaming in this community, that twink did not die they evolved!!!! Go!!! Go forth!!!! Gain weight!!! Grow that belly!!! Get hairy!! Collect wrinkles you didn't have before!!!! Start sagging!! Go grey! Let your body be a body in all of its messy glory!

[mysticdrkpirate]

When he’s bodyshaming me but he doesn’t look better in any way

[lexisrants]

it starts with "shave the dark hair on your legs" and then it's your pits and brows and your arms and your stomach and before you know someone is talking to you in a soft feminine voice about how the fuzz from their face that they need to spray with a dense liquid to even see just NEEDS to be shaven off and it will better your life (that hair is there to protect your skin)

[hope-now-and-live]

Quella violenta normalità

Non so se avete notato con quale facilità e quale baldanza le vostre adorate nonnine fanno commenti sul vostro corpo e sul vostro aspetto fisico. Da quando frequento anche nonne non mie (sic!) mi sono resa conto che hanno tutte questa caratteristica. Non è un caso, fanciulle mie.

Le nostre eroine provengono da un'epoca in cui - ci si può credere o no - pur senza social erano fissati tutti con la forma fisica, ma la differenza rispetto al nostro 2026 è che non c'era la minima educazione su come esprimersi a riguardo. Lo fanno con noi non certo per bullismo, ma perché è stato fatto nei loro confronti mille volte: gliel'hanno venduta come "naturale preoccupazione". Infatti se osaste farlo notare vi risponderebbero cose come: "Ma sono solo preoccupata per te!" e il bello è che SONO SINCERE, perché la loro esperienza personale è stata questa: ricevere continuo bodyshaming travestito da "siamo preoccupati per te, vogliamo vederti al meglio".

Per questo ancora oggi sono ossessionate dalla propria forma fisica e da quella di chi le circonda, e non si fanno il minimo problema a commentare l'aspetto degli altri, perché nella loro esperienza tossica del passato, questa è una forma di cura.

[pervertedandproblematic]

Fake chubby chasers are absolute losers. It’s okay to be into it but don’t call them chubby/thick/fat or whatever bc they’re fucking not🫩

[seoulwave]

Hyeri Responds to Body-Shaming Criticism: "Why Does Being Thin Equal Professionalism?"

[joiningsaturn46]

Saw someone on fitness insta say that they're goal is to look like Raimi Peter and all the comments were people making fun of them and saying "they could do better" and calling that look "mid"

Like first of all why the actual fuck would you say that to someone who is trying to better themselves but also like

HOW THE FUCK IS THIS MID?!