#bpd mention

[abyssmallybad]

What if poisonburger was the bpd favorite person dynamic

Aka I did this without knowing. This is how i imagined their relationship to be before any form of therapy. Kinda crazy actually

I saw 1x as idolizing 7n7 and making him the reason for being alive. I saw 1x as seeing 7n7 as one of the worst people ever should he even perceive their rejection. I saw 1x as a jealous freak who would isolate 7n7 out of fear of abandonment because they're a horrid person and talking to others would make 7n7 realize that. I saw 1x as having suicidal ideations should they even imagine the thought of 7n7 leaving them. 1x needed 7n7 around or nothing was worth it. They had to be a part of him and he has to rely on them. 7n7 regulates their hate and keeps it manageable just by their mere presence, he makes them human.

[airoblogz-real]

make way, sakisys! bpd agere shizuku existed before you!

for the record sakisys is june 2025 and agere shz was a year back. how did bro come into existence? idk man i forgot...

[rottedcreatures]

Something I always tell myself is that if you remain calm while someone screams at you and curses at you in the most immature manner you've ever seen, you will eventually get them to realize they are being needlessly cruel.

However I have just been cruely reminded by @/phantomhunt that this is not always the case. Our Remus fictive accidentally triggered them multiple days ago, and hadn't had a chance to apologize. Someone messaged them with our side system's past and they proceeded to decide we hadn't changed at all.

Which is not true at all, but regardless. Their Virgil alter then began cursing at us and demanding a "good enough excuse" for what Remus had done. We told them, multiple times, Remus hadn't been aware of their triggers at the time and was reminded and going to apologize; but hadn't yet had a chance to.

They continued to curse and talk down to us as if we were below them. Then we told them not to speak to us that way, they said "no, I will." And forced our Remus alter to front in a triggering situation while their anti-septiceye alter talked to us like we are the dirt beneath their feet.

We checked their status and they had "splitting: interact with extreme caution" with abbreviations. We realized they were having a BPD induced meltdown and we blocked them after saying if this is how they react to an innocent mistake, we shouldn't be friends.

They are acting like a toddler because we didn't want to force our alter to front and take the verbal abuse they threw our way.

Pathetic. I know they won't see this and I am glad. We needed a space to vent.

[sasdavvero]

I am very funny

[dearreader-archive]

i know it’ll take awhile to get a BPD diagnosis even in therapy cause they don’t want to put such a heavy label on without knowing for sure. like i get it but also i actively think my mom and sister hate me when they DONT and we’re both trying to surprise me by getting eras tickets and intentionally working around my schedule cause they know how much taylor means to me. and even at dinner my mom told me she wanted to help me but my friends a really nice wedding gift cause she knows i’m already spending a lot on the wedding and wants to make sure my friend gets a nice gift even though she doesn’t know her… like I KNOW IM LUCKY AND HAVE A GOOD FAMILY BUY I SWEAR TO GOD I THINK THEY HATE ME

[icedxoatlatte]

[water-mellie-seeds]

top 10 headcanons ever. of anything

I REALLY HAD 2 THJNK ABT THIS

#1: claus from mother 3 is afraid of the dark

#2: napstablook from undertale uses neopronouns

#3: jared from dear evan hansen is good at baking

#4: chiaki from danganronpa has freckles

#5: BASIL from OMORI is trans

#6: coraline from coraline is bi

#7: lapis from SU has c-ptsd (this might actually b canon)

#8: travis from sally face dyes his hair

#9: gene from bobs burgers is genderfluid and uses all pronouns. (The belcher kids would all use neopronouns u can literally fight me on this)

#10: yuri from ddlc has bpd

[mon-cafe-noir]

Question for the BPD community on here!! Please answer if you can spare a moment of your time!

When you go through mood swings, do you forget how bad a feeling is once its over? I mean sorta like, once you've moved on to a new emotion, did you forget what the previous one/s were like?