Taking in consideration that seeing people like us represented in fiction and social media helps shape our sense of self, I'd like to criticize "dead dove" and dark romances based on how queer people and women interacting with such stories are, whether they like it or nor, internalizing the way people like them are being treated there. The fact that in proship circles people are interacting with this kind of story from an early age is concerning.
This is how propaganda works, btw, by slowly and gradually exposing you to concepts until they are so normalized in the media said propaganda is spreading from, that it's real world counterpart seems like a natural and immutable part of the world. Many proshippers seem to believe they are immune to propaganda by saying they are not internalizing themes present in something they obsessively interact with, but nobody is immune to propaganda.
Exposing yourself to themes of your trauma repeatedly, obsessively, and outside of a controlled and monitored environment where a mental health professional would be there to help, is not a form of healing, but form of self harm, as well as a maladaptive coping mechanism that retraumatizes and makes one escape the impact and shock of their trauma by being able to naturalize it as something positive while they are immersed in said stories, or project it onto a character and get a sense of relief that "it happened to them, not me".
This causes damage to the healing process. It would be comparable to having a chronic pain, but instead of going to the doctor and following an organized and well structured treatment, you start taking opioids on your own and at will, and telling people it's not an addiction because it makes the pain go away. The pain does go away, but only momentarily, and as time passes, not only will you need more opioids, but the pain will become worse because it's underlying cause is being ignored.
https://www.ebsco.com/research-starters/literature-and-writing/propaganda-graphic-novels#bibliography
https://www.researchgate.net/publication/388715756_How_Reading_Fiction_Affects_Us