#concept of self

[awawawabot]

Everybody calm down the article says there’s a high degree of variance in spider brains and many if not most do not even possess concept of self

[godlytransurfer]

Associating prior and recent studies: Neville Goddard and Alan Watts

Before we begin I continue to credit @diorbabe66 and @multiversebaddie for the inspiration they gave me to go back to these concepts for some insight and peace of mind besides my own reflection ahah.

As we continue to discuss the fact that obviously we are always manifesting, no wonder we can access to the void at any time even when awake, since it is literally within us. I found that years prior, one good way of figuring this out (even though you already naturally know how to effortlessly do it) was to focus on how the nature we already know, from people to other living beings, the planets, the space and the whole cosmos works harmoniously and was made from all the same thing, no wonder we can influence it. As we all know, Neville and our experiences within the community have shown us that even beyond this level, we can then go further and further into ignoring logic itself and shift continuously in more apparent “drastic” ways, even by skipping a bridge of events. The reason I came to post this amazing lecture of Alan is so we can understand how we naturally are always everything, so no wonder we can always influence it and get to the void at any time wether you are in the middle of your day or not, wether you use some level of logic or not. It was inevitably going to happen anyways, because you are everything and everything is making itself move.

Your brain will gain confidence on this system of how things work and take it as factual effortlessly, and you can use it so it will naturally escalate into limitless levels inevitably. So even logically we can understand why we are the void and everything itself! I am not posting this because Neville isn’t enough, I just personally found that I was able to focus on my inner world with a lot more discipline and ease as a beginner by associating these two parts of what is deep down almost the same concepts. It also helped me in maintaining a better self image and self concept in long lasting ways, as well as stable moods, feelings and thoughts, which overall even helps with your health. In my opinion, by being aware of all this from the most basic to the most impressive influence you can have on things, you will find that your changes in mindset and life that you have been manifesting have a way smoother, happy sailing like path, even thought obviously we can manifest our desires no matter what! Before we go into the lecture I would also like to emphasize that by ego, I’m pretty sure what Alan means here is the concept you have of yourself as human, but also regarding a bit to the exterior world. There is nothing wrong with obviously having a solid concept of who you are as a human in this experience, what isn’t so recommended is perhaps to deeply identify yourself with either taking external factors as decisive of who you are as a person, since it all comes from within as Neville and the whole Law of Assumption community have pointed out. The point of sharing this lecture is to make us notice that even when you change your concept of self and become exactly the human you wish to be, who experiences exactly what they want to experience - you are still everything, and you have always been. You are, and you will always be it, and the void. For the void is not empty but full and complete already, and that is why creation is finished and manifestation is instant! Now let’s dive in!

From “The False Idea of Who You Are” by Alan Watts

“But when you don’t think about it, it goes on. Is it voluntary or involuntary? And so we come to a very arbitrary definition of self: that much of my activity which I feel I do. And then doesn’t include breathing most of the time, it doesn’t include heartbeat, the activity of the glands, it doesn’t include digestion, it doesn’t include how you shape your bones, circulate your blood... do I do or do I not do these things? Now if you get with yourself, and find out you are all of yourself, a very strange thing happens. You find that your body knows that you’re one with the universe. In other words, that the so called involuntary circulation of your blood is one with the continuous process with the stars shinning. If you find out it’s you who circulates your blood, you will at the same moment find out that is you who is shining the sun. Because your physical organism is one continuous process with everything else that is going on: just as the waves are continuous with the ocean, your body is continuous with the total energy system of the cosmos. And it’s all you, only you’re playing the game that you’re only this bit of it. But as I try to explain, there are in physical reality no such things as separate events. Doesn’t it astonish you that you are this fantastically complex thing? And that you’re doing all of this and you never had any education in how to do it? That you never learned but you’re this miracle? Well the point is, from a strictly physical, scientific standpoint, this organism is a continuous energy with everything else that is going on. And if I am my foot, I am the sun.

Only we got this little partial view that I am something in this body: the ego... that’s a joke. The ego is nothing but the focus of conscious attention, it’s like a radar on a ship. The radar in the ship is a troubleshooter: “Is there anything in the way?” And conscious attention is a designed function in the brain to scan the environment like a radar does, and knowing for any troublemaking changes. But if you identify yourself with your troubleshooter, then naturally you identify yourself as being in a perpetual state of anxiety. And the moment we cease to identify with the ego and become aware that we are the whole organism, you realize first thing how harmonious it all is, because your organism is a miracle of harmony! (...)

So if you awaken from this illusion, you can feel yourself. Not as a stranger in the world, not as something here on probation, not as something that has arrived here by fluke, but you begin to feel your existence as something absolutely fundamental. What you are basically, deep deep down, far far in is simply the fabric at structure of existence itself. So in this idea, everybody is fundamental. The ultimate reality. Not god in a politically kingly sense but god in the sense of being the self, the deep down basic whatever there is. And you’re all that, only you’re pretending you’re not.”

[thegoldenuzi]

Concept of Self and Manifesting

I’m sending you this information with love. I’ve been seeing a lot of misinformation surrounding the interpretation of what “concept of self” truly is. It has nothing to do with speaking to yourself positively 24/7 or saying self love affirmations. Positive self talk is good don’t get me wrong but that’s not what concept of self is referring to. It’s referring the feeling of the identity associated with your desire.

When you approach manifesting from an “identity based” standpoint this concept becomes a lot easier. When you begin to feel and react to the world from the state of your wish fulfilled things change instantly. It’s not “acting as if”. If you were someone who is wealthy, how would you react to spending money? What would be different? Would you be worried about the cost? Or would you have fun spending because you have more where that came from? How would other people perceive you? Would you get compliments on your clothes?

This can be applied to anything. If you want to be in your ideal relationship. How would you see the world from the identity of Happy Partner (whatever level of partnership you desire)? You wouldn’t feel panic or desperation. This identity is already a part of you and you know that it’s already done. Concept of self is realization of your many identities. You naturally react without forcing. If your reaction is anything that contradicts the person you want to be and the life you want to experience, that’s how you know it doesn’t come from the state of your desire being done.

It’s always about you. Not the desire, not the other person. If you want to be in your ideal relationship how would YOU feel? How would you go to bed and wake up each morning if you were completely fulfilled in your relationship? Notice how you react and it’s okay if you have a bad day or get out of your desired concept. It’s already a part of you. You are infinite. You are so many things at once. “Be still and know that I Am”. That’s my favorite reminder when I get out of my state. You can change and reset your wants at anytime but you will never stop being exactly who you desire to be. It’s already been promised to you.

You are what gives life. Notice what and who you are giving life to. Your desires are not bigger than you. So give life to who you would be if it were true right now. Live from that POV and watch how easy this becomes.

“Who would I be if....”

[nekomaniya]

[lemonlimeimprobabilitydrive]

(Reposting because I realized the original had my dead name in the background)

Almost missed Trans Day of Visibility!

Today we say FUCK dysphoria! Also, as always, fuck truscum/trumeds

[jenniferberning]

You Better Lose Yourself in the Music

I feel like I’m being most true to myself when I lose myself in something. When I lose any sense of “self”. This used to happen to me most of the time when I was on my own in my home studio recording for hours on end. Now, this feeling slowly but surely also enters the stage-me every so often. Which is just the best feeling ever. Knowing exactly what you’re doing without having to think of it. Flow. But how can the absence of self-awareness be the same as being your truest self? Can you be your truest self without any self involved? Is it possible to be yourself at all? What is this “self” anyway?

If you have no self-awareness, who are you? You are no one. If you are no one… why would you care about anyone or what they think? You wouldn’t. So, in the understanding that you have no self-awareness (you are no one… you don’t exist), you can be anyone… anyone, any person you want to, or need to be. In the absence of self-awareness also comes the absence of consequence. If I’m not even aware of my awareness how could I understand any consequence of my actions? Therefore my actions don’t affect me. I can be anyone, do anything. I can be who my mind thinks I am… my truest self. 

[godlytransurfer]

( UPDATED) SELF CONCEPT IN LOVE AFFIRMATION TAPE TEMPLATE + FREE TEXT2SPEECH LINK

Hello to everyone again! Sorry I’ve been away from here, I totally did not abandon this blog ahah. I’ve just been mainly on twitter (@godlytransurf) and being brief also because I was completing my bachelors degree.

Now that I have free time again, I will be posting more of my success stories in detail this week, but today I’m gonna show u my latest SC tape for beliefs about romantic relationships specifically. I also have a general SC tape even for things in my DR, but that’s for another day. I am having success with my SP tape and a lot of people have positive feedback on it which I’m delighted to know about. However, sometimes you need to just turn to your own self concept and be general, give a little attention to yourself, you know? This is about you after all, and to be able to sustain good relationships, we must have good beliefs about our experiences within them.

So enough rambling, here is the tape content and the link! 

I am currently using these sites because it’s free and I couldn’t find it for the life of me before. I like it because it doesn’t have a small limit.

http://www.fromtexttospeech.com

http://readloud.net

Change and add to your liking or context of course. When you go into text to speech though, I personally like AI female voices the most because it feels weird to me to hear my own voice on the phone, so I always pick “Daisy” (or “Salli” for the second link) , US American voice, fast/very fast speed (Speed 3 on the second link).

PS: Some of these I took out of my SP tape and made it more general. Others are targeted towards myself and are new. If you have my SP tape some are similar, but there’s also a lot of new things! So u can download both.

Enjoy! I hope it helps you as much as it does to me. I’ve been feeling happier, more sure of myself and the outcomes I want, stable and safe!

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My love interests are forever in love with me.

I am the one and only love of their lives.

I am the dream partner.

I am magnetic, irresistible and irreplaceable, and to my love interests, I am unforgettable.

I am loved, admired and healthily obsessed with by my love interests.

We are perfect for each other.

We are right for each other.

Me and my lovers always love and see each other for who we truly are.

I am always loved and seen for who I truly am.

I am the most beautiful girl in the world inside and out.

I am perfect inside and out.

I am fully loved for being me, mind, body and soul.

I am always 100% compatible with my love interests.

They love my intelligence, beauty, way of being and my sense of humor.

I am the most interesting person everyone knows.

I love everything about them and they love everything about me.

I am always the priority and I am always supported by them.

I am prioritized.

I have priority and I am prioritized over everything and everyone.

I always come first.

I allow myself to be put first.

I allow myself to be prioritized.

I allow myself to be loved and chosen.

I know I deserve the best treatment and I always get the best treatment.

I am acknowledged.

I am important.

It’s an honor to be in my life and in my presence.

I am the most valuable.

I am always loved even more than I love.

I am always chosen.

I am always the first and only choice.

My love interests always choose me over everything and everyone.

I never get left, I never get replaced.

My lovers could never leave me.

My loved ones never leave me.

I am too important to lose.

I am way too special to lose.

Things always last as long as I want them to.

My relationships always last as long as I want them to.

I’m more than enough.

I am always enough.

I am always more than good enough.

I am always the best.

No one can compete with me.

No one compares to me.

It’s always been me, It’s always me and it’s always gonna be me.

I always leave a positive and strong mark on my love interests.

I am perfect exactly the way I am.

I am more than enough as I am.

I’m always accepted.

I’m always loved and embraced.

I could never be rejected.

I am always the favorite.

I am always the one they love talking to and spending time with.

I am always sought after by my love interests.

My relationships are always strong, stable and better everyday.

I am always the only one my lovers love, want, are attracted to and connect with.

I am always on my lovers mind.

They only want me, love me and connect with me.

My love interests only get into relationships with me.

My love interest are always faithful, loyal and devoted to me only.

I am always loved, respected and treated as such.

My love interests are always 100% committed to me and always want to spend the rest of their lives with me.

I have healthy a self esteem.

I am always healthy, positive, balanced and safe at all times.

I have amazing physical, mental, emotional and spiritual health.

I am successful.

My love interests have healthy self esteem.

They are always healthy, positive, balanced and safe at all times.

They have amazing physical, mental, emotional and spiritual health.

They are successful.

My lovers’ romantic feelings and attraction for me are so strong that they cannot hide it.

They always express their love, affection and desire for me in a consistent, healthy loving way.

I am the girlfriend, the soulmate, the wife.

Me and my lovers are always our highest selves.

I always have perfect communication within my relationships.

We always feel comfortable, confident, loving, loved, safe, secure, happy and whole within ourselves and within our relationship.

Me and my partners always trust each other.

We always have the same values and compatible goals in life.

My lovers always want the same exact things with me that I do with them and they’ll gladly do anything to make that happen.

My lovers always put in effort to make our relationship work.

They are always romantic, considerate gentleman towards me.

They always make sweet surprises for me.

I am always pleasantly surprised by them and they never let me down.

My loved ones always stay by my side no matter what.

Me and my lovers always have perfect chemistry with each other in all aspects.

We just get each other and mesh perfectly.

I love everything about them and they love everything about me.

My love interests always have their shit together.

I always have my shit together.

I am always protected and provided to.

Me and my lovers are always living our dreams together.

Me and my love interests always have more than enough money.

We don’t ever have to worry about anything.

Everyone always supports my relationships with my lovers.

Me and my love interests always have the most beautiful and meaningful, deep bonds and relationships with each other.

I’m the only one they have, feel and want to have this type of connection with.

My relationships are always safe and safe to be in for the both of us. They are divinely guided.

I am always safe, successful and lucky in love.

My relationships are always meant for success.

Me and my lovers are always good for each other.

I am the only one that feels and is right for my lovers when it comes to opening up and having a relationship.

I am the only one they can open up to and be intimate with.

I am the only one they feel they can talk about anything with.

Only I feel right for them!

I am always the closest person to them.

I am always their best friend, lover, soulmate and partner.

I am always their dream partner.

I am the only one they click with.

Me and my love interests are always fully conscious of being each other’s soulmates.

Soulmates can’t ever reject or abandon each other.

Soulmates always stay together, they can only and always love each other and prosper together.

My lovers are always forgiving and understanding when it comes to me.

They’re always patient and kind to me because they genuinely love me and want to be with me. They’re always gentle and affectionate with me.

They’re not afraid to tell me how deep they feel for me.

They’re constantly loving me and cherishing me to the fullest.

My lovers always protect me.

I am worth everything and I always know that very well.

My love interests always think highly of me no matter what.

I am worth everything and they always know that very well.

The men I love and want always love and want me too, they always commit to me.

They always offer me happy, loving, healthy long term relationships with life long commitment.

My love interests always see a future with me.

I'm the only one they imagine themselves with.

My love interests always pursue me and take the initiative with me.

They constantly pursue me and I don’t have to do anything but receive.

I am showered with infinite love and attention from them and they are indifferent towards everyone but me.

I only ever experience happy, healthy, loving long term relationships with life long commitment.

I am always the one and the only one.

I am always exactly what my love interests are looking for, and only I am exactly that.

I am the only one that can possibly give them that, so they will gladly do anything for me.

I always get it right just by being me.

I am the real deal. I was born with it and no one else can replicate it.

I am always the best anyone can get and they know it.

I am a high value person and I only experience high value relationships.

I am a good and amazing person on all aspects.

I love myself.

I am loved, and I deserve to be loved and committed to.

I am always unconditionally loved, chosen and prioritized.

My love interests always love me and chose me unconditionally.

Everyone’s always my ideal version of them.

I am always my ideal version of me.

I never fail.

I am god.

I am the one and only operant power.

I am in the god state.

This is my reality and I do whatever I want with it.

I am always deserving of my desires and I always have them.

I have the perfect self concept.

I have my ideal set of beliefs.

Only my positive thoughts manifest.

Everything in my life is perfect.

Nobody deserves my desires more than I do.

Everything undesired has already been deleted from the timeline.

This is my reality and my desired reality, that’s where I live.

I have everything in my manifestation list.

[thegoldenuzi]

When it comes to manifesting, people will always reflect your true beliefs or doubts. It doesn’t matter if you share them with others or not. However your reactions to the outside world can be the difference between how fast or how slow things go. I mentioned “concept of self” in a recent post. When you react from the belief that it is done, someone’s opinion or input won’t cause you to get discouraged. We give meaning to every interaction we have. If someone tells you that your goal is unrealistic, or has something negative to say. It doesn’t matter because it’s already been promised to you.

This doesn’t mean “fake it til you make it” though. Someone could come to you and ask you a question regarding your goal because they actually want to help you with it. You never know what someone’s role is in your story until you apply meaning to what they tell you. If you want a specific job or to get into a specific school and you live your life knowing it is done, the outside world reacts to that. Someone could approach you and put you in contact with someone else to get you the exact job you want. Remembering who and what you are is key. Faith is the belief in the unseen.

Let it be easy and have fun 💕