#dating bts

[littlelunababi]

Imagine dating Jungkook and he just got back from his schedule, all sweaty cause it ended with practice and boxing.

He’d hug you despite the protests that he’s sweaty and litter your face with kisses while also rubbing a bit of sweat on you. He’d laugh as you swat him away and tell him to shower.

He would also hold you close to him later on as you watch ghibli movies and feed him your snacks. He would fall asleep wrapped around you and his cheeks would squish so cutely 🥹

[petitedivine2]

Hi! I decided to make this my first question answered for the new blog, because I think this is something a lot of readers report they experience.

Have I ever personally thought I might share a romantic connection with any member of bts?

Nope!

Is this because i'm married? No. But this is largely because even if our energies would probably get a long really well, it's highly unlikely we hold the same values. Look around at the people who grew up in your hometown - do you share the same values with them? Sustainable romantic connections are based less in initial attraction and energy levels, and more in shared values.

Do I find the members attractive?

Yes! I have eyes, lol.

But in reality, I think I have common interests with a few of them and probably could become friends with more than one but I don't think I could truly date any of them. They live incredibly public, turbulent, work heavy lives and I'm an ambivert. I need a lot of time spent in the quiet, alone, and then time where I can be really social. To date BTS you would essentially have to agree to never be seen in public with them and to only ever spend time with them in complete solitude. It's really not compatible with me.

IF you find yourself feeling a romantic spark with a member (or really any celebrity), sit down and think about what you would need out of a romantic relationship to be fulfilled. You would find the celebrity life style probably doesn't suit 99% of the population.

[geminijoonie]

Perhaps

note: just another fluffy blurb about Joonie, how hard he works and all the good things. this was not at all organized or structured and I didn’t want to post it but I created this and done is better than perfect so here it is

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“ To receive care, love and validation at the same wavelength were possible only because of you and from you. “

“ Perhaps he could wake you up and you could head out for lunch. Perhaps he could take you on a shopping spree and spoil you to the fullest. Perhaps you could do something better than him pulling you closer so you lay your head on his chest and continue sleeping. “

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Perhaps there is more to life than sitting on your couch cuddled up under your favorite blanket catching up on Netflix documentaries. Perhaps there is a more exciting and fun life out there. But when you hear the beep of your apartment door lock and see your boyfriend walk inside there is nothing more exciting and comforting than that. There no other joy in this world than seeing Namjoon turn towards you filled with those random little bursts of energy that makes him bounce towards you. Dimples full-on display, hair freshly dried and eyes twinkling at the sight of you.

He dumps his bag by the table and makes his way towards you while you fold your limbs to make some space for him on the couch. “ hi baby” Namjoon greets you wrapping his arms around your frame to pull you closer. You can smell lingering scents of his shampoo and moisturizer. You’ve missed being this close to him so much. You’ve missed him peppering your face with kisses. You’ve missed the way his arms feel around you. You’ve missed the closeness, the affection from the person who was deemed to be probably the least affectionate. But here he is showering you, giving you his all and it’s not even been five minutes since he entered the room.

Your cheeks are painted red which matches the shell of Namjoon’s ears and the tip of his nose which are all shades of warm red. He sits there just smiling at you, still holding you to him the way he longs and yearns and probably makes hundreds of wishes to hold you just like this when he’s away. “Hi Joonie” you finally reply and peck at his plush lips and you probe and thumb at his dimples, his tiny little nose, the edge of his eyes. Tonight he’s all yours and you’ll have your way with him and Namjoon doesn’t want it any other way either. You pull the blanket towards him to cover his exuberant frame as best as you can. Namjoon sighs at the feeling of this blanket and scrunches it in his palm to bring up to his cheek. He still remembers the day the two of you went shopping to buy this. It was the most perfect date ever.

The storekeeper was shocked that the two of you knew so much about the kind of blankets you wanted. With Namjoon it was easy to learn about textures, the fillings inside, the layers and the fabric you wanted. And the perfect souvenir from your trip. A secret trip to Norway which the public is still unaware of. The few days you got Namjoon all to yourself and the days you’ll cherish your whole life. You finish the rest of the evening with some beer, pasta, and candy Namjoon got. There was a movie playing in the background but just for the sake of it. After all the chit chat Namjoon is a little exhausted. With food in his stomach and a good hot shower with you his eyes feel heavy, his body not too sore anymore so you decide to lay in bed next to each other and stay there. You worry about him, the exertion, the way he strives to always do his best, to deliver, to create, to provide, to be there for everyone else. You always wonder if anyone will be able to the same for him at the same capacity.

To Namjoon being the one who would always give, always go the extra mile and take the lead was natural by now. To receive care, love and validation at the same wavelength were possible only because of you and from you. There was no one else that made RM and Kim Namjoon feel safe, whole, cherished and loved at the same time the way you did. You would always give, go that extra mile to see him, to show him you love him, to show him how much you care and support him. And tonight he fell asleep with all this goodness while your hands were playing with hair carding through the dense long silver locks. His face this relaxed it’s been a while since you saw him like this. Lips parted, eyelashes fluttering now and then. Namjoons sleeping form resembles that of a waning moon. Head crooned towards you. Knees pressed together inwards but towards you again. As if it’s out watching over him when he’s this small and curled up. It relaxes you seeing him like this. Puts your worries to rest. So when you close your eyes you’re pulled into a deep slumber as well.

You jolt awake when you feel as if your arm was thrown towards you. It was Namjoon suddenly waking up causing it. You see him sweating, breathing heavily hands on either side of his head mumbling incoherent words. You immediately reach out and hold his wrist to pull his hands away from his face. You slowly move your palm towards his face so you don’t alert him but cup his cheeks to coax his attention a little away from whatever nightmare he had and the aftereffect of it. Once he’s pulled out of it you reach out for the water bottle and turn the dim night lamp on. Just the right amount of light to see each other’s faces. Namjoon has a meek smile on his face as he sips his water. You rub his back, his arm and the back of his neck to ease him a little. This wasn’t new to you. This is something both of you go through. Dreams and nightmares in the middle of the night.

“thank you baby, I love you so much” he rasps out when he reaches for your hips and pulls you closer to him. You’re still awake and running your fingers through his hair. Namjoon knows you want to talk about this. You want him to talk about it or whatever might have caused this. This was just another one of those mundane insecurities turned nightmare situation. But he doesn’t want to make you worry more than you already do. So he settles to tell you something else instead. He tells you about the vlive comment he got about how calm he seems these days. He tells you how he is doing that. The mindfulness practices behind that. The reason he is able to do it now specifically. Something about how the members are doing so well and helping him out with everything. Something about a change in him and the way he reacts to things. It momentarily takes your mind off the thoughts coursing through you. It’s enough for the two of you to fall asleep again.

The next morning you wake up a tangled mess of limbs and blanket. But perfectly warm and close. Namjoon slowly stirs into consciousness with the light beaming through curtains not letting him sleep further. He peeks to his side to see you still deep in your sleep. Stray strands of hair curling and falling on your face gently being blown by the wind coming through the window. You have curled yourself next to him with one of your hands fisting his shirt tightly. Like he’s about to fly off into space if you let go. Namjoon slowly cups your hand and presses a kiss to your forehead.

Perhaps if you’re weren’t there for him last night he wouldn’t be waking up so peacefully. He would have ended up with a panic attack. There is nothing more in life Namjoon wants more than right now, moments like this. Little fleeting moments he gets to spend with you like this morning, last night in between jaded and busy days. Perhaps he could wake you up and you could head out for lunch. Perhaps he could take you on a shopping spree and spoil you to the fullest. Perhaps you could do something better than him pulling you closer so you lay your head on his chest and continue sleeping.

But you don’t. Because this is perfect for you.

[btsreactionmemes]

Jin boyfriend material

[jellycake2109]

I'm not going to get over Kim Namjoon long purple highlighted hair for a long time.

Thought by me 10mins ago

[sugaxmilk-blog]

Dating Yoongi would include.....

•silent I love you gestures in public like hand holding, long glances, rubbing his thumb in circles on your hand

•nights of just keeping him company in the genius lab

• “can I listen yoongi?”

•”no no no , it’s not ready yet”

• whispering “I love you” into your ear in public

• getting to see pouty yoongi all the time

• laying together at night talking and him falling asleep mid conversation

• not big on pda but would love to be close and all over you in private

• lots of neck kisses!!!

• nights in with takeout and a movie

• trying to take care of him when he’s sick but him not letting you

• “yoongi you need to rest!”

• “im fine y/n, leave me to work on my music!”

• only you getting to see his sweet vulnerable side

• he won’t always tell you what’s wrong when he’s upset but with a little bit of time to think he’ll eventually tell you

• again, sleeping on you all.the.time

•arguing over who gets the aux cord

•”you’ve plays that song a billion times y/n, can we listen to anything else?”

•*sticks your tongue out at him*

• calling and texting you anytime he can while on tour because he misses you so much

• long passionate sex when he returns from tours

• grumpy morning yoongi

• lazy Sunday mornings in bed

• wearing his hoodies all the time

• singing horribly at the top of his lungs to cheer you up

•tickle fights

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My masterlist

[stillanpan]

Living with Taehyung ~ Moodboard 

gif not mine: (x)

[yoon-lyourself]

Dating Namjoon

Loves to cuddle , and have really deep conversations with you .

Mini book-club , where you two read and discuss characters and plotlines.

Buys you little bouquests of flowers , sometimess he pick them up himself .

Pillowtalks.

Gets shy when you are acting cute around him.

Sends you poems about everything ( including you ).

Loves midnight walks in nature , where you two can look at stars .

He can’t wait for the moments that you two can be together and he can just be Namjoon.

He knows what he wants and how to get it ( need i say more ?).

He always pushes you to get to your goals and work harder .

Always makes you feel better when you are done.

Calls you by a cute version of you name.

The fights are not so often , but are intense when they are . But you two make up eventually , both saying sorry .

He likes to take pics of you when you sleep or concentrating because he thinks that you are cute .

Skyping all the time when he is gone in a tour or something . He likes to listen and catch up with everything that’s going on with your life .

Tries to cook for you . He once made cupcakes and they turned out to be actually good.

Hi guys 🦄I know i haven’t posted in like forever…My inspiration is down the drain literally , and I am trying to write , and I do see your ask and I am sorry for not answering.

As always hit me up with your feedback *it is always appreciated *And I will try to resume writting as soon as I will be satisfied with how it comes up .