#dating up

[svdaily]

And if I die a lonely cat lady because I refuse to settle then WHOOPTY DOO

[arikasugar]

I’m finally back from a long hiatus, but shout out to all the subpar men who have been keeping my inbox warm by throwing tantrums because they’re financially and emotionally broke 🖤

[maincoursdelegance]

zombie sugarbaby roll call!

I wonder who's still on tumblr from the old sugar bowl?

Much like the rest of the world, the glory days of 2010-2015 are long gone, and oh do I miss them.

Everything was great: tumblr and Instagram were fire for the sugar bowl, and the bowl itself was insane due to the economy thriving. Truly, these were the glory days.

When I logged back in earlier, I saw a blog post from 2013 from Southern Sugar — we were the same age that year. It's over 10 years later. I wonder where she is now? Is she married and a trophy wife? Still yacht hopping like me?

And when I looked at my page, my last post were my New Year's Resolutions for 2018! How quick 6 years went by...

That's the beauty of the internet: it's a closed system, perfectly preserving it's contents for all of time... until the original poster decides to give up on sugaring all together and deletes the Encyclopedia Thottanica (*pouts at sugarbabytemptress*)

Here's the update:

2018 went as planned, as did 2019. Not as planned but very profitable were 2020 and 2021. I made bank, saved tons of money, collected tons of Cartier, 3 Rolex watches and even got a brand new luxury car bought in my name.

I was living the high life...

I got lingerie and jewelry aplenty! Vacations and spa days galore! You want Louboutins?? I've got 20! No big deal, well who cares, I waaant moooore 🎶

What's funny is that eventually the high wears off and becomes a monotonous routine. That was 2022 and 2023 with my SDBF. So boring, can't believed that I've been locked down and in this relationship for 5 years. No wonder I'm bored and feeling restless. And you know what they say... no ring on the finger, must not linger 💍

So I'm slipping back in the bowl!

Let's see how it goes...

xoxo

Go$$ip Girl

[soothingaura]

[chrissanthemumm]

I need to find all of the level up pages on here ran by the grown women on this platform (21+)

I'm trying to shift from being primarily on Twitter with this information to here since it's less chaotic, but too many of these pages are ran by teenagers romanticizing this journey.

By no means am I mad at it, I'm actually quite happy so many young girls are even dipping their toe in these waters, it will set them up for abundance and success... but I'm looking for the girls who live this life. Have made the mistakes and bounced back. Can tell me the difference between meeting a man at an upscale hotel bar vs. at the gym or country club. So if you're one of these women, feel free to interact with this post and hopefully I'll connect with some like minded women.

- K.C 💄

[tooedgyforbrunch]

Black women in luxury, getting wined / dined / flwed out/ given expensive gifts. That’s what we deserve!

[iknowmyworth]