Throwaway because I care about the community and I'm just going to get banned for speaking up Tom, DefilerWyrm, admin of the Aeor is for Lovers server, is unapologetically transphobic and unsafe to be around. He constantly feels the need to tell everyone on the server how much he hates transmascs who haven't elected to get bottom surgery. And if you speak up about it or say anything, he'll attack you personally. And the mods don't do shit about it. They just try to placate everyone after and let him throw his little tantrums. One time he attacked someone cause they mentioned Frumpkin getting chunkier as Caleb healed because it was animal abuse. And he constantly says nasty things about art about how it's not his preference but its nice or whatever. But he always phrases it in a way that's super gross. Like I'm not going to post screenshots because it's against the server rules but every single day there's some new thing. Recently the Aeor is for Lovers rec list posted recs and one of them said 'Representation of a trans man who’s had the full package done instead of just existing as a cunt to get fucked by a cis man'." which is absolutely disgusting and we all know exactly who posted it. The fact that that got through to be posted at all is really gross but it happened right after he made a nasty comment about the same thing in the server. It's really obvious. Please keep yourselves safe, especially if you're transmasc or nonbinary or have a vagina since he seems to especially hate anyone that falls under those categories.
