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Possibly controversial opinion, but Mike Wheeler is definitely demi-ace/demi-romantic
It’s Pride Month!!
Okay, I think I need to explain some things with Grey-Asexuality and Demisexuality and Asexuality since I have seen many people get confused over most grey-asexuality.
Please note that this post is for educational purposes! As a grey-ace, I want to help more people understand the difference between Demisexual and Grey-asexual and asexual but mostly demi-ace and grey-ace.
Asexual- A lack of sexual attraction.
Demisexual- Does not experience sexual attraction until they have formed a deep emotional connection with someone.
Grey-Asexual- Feeling attraction rarely, vaguely, or weakly/ experience sexual attraction very rarely, or with very low intensity, when feeling sexual attraction they tend not to act on it, though in some cases they can.
Here is a chart of the Asexual Spectrum Identities, I would go over all of them but again I only wanted to explain, the asexual, grey-asexual, and demisexual since I’ve seen some people get confused about those three the most when it comes to grey-asexuality. Also, I haven’t seen many grey-ace people but maybe that’s because I don’t really pay attention much! ^^
Anyways happy pride month everyone! ^^
The demi-ace pride flag! I noticed that this orientation didn’t have a name or a flag, so I made one! The demi-ace pride flag is for people who are romantically attracted to some genders, and sexually+romantically attracted to others. I myself am romantically attracted to girls, and sexually+romantically attracted to boys!
Asexuals & Aromantics
You are valid. If you only feel sexual / romantic feelings when emotionally close to someone but no other time. You are valid you are still ace / aro. You can be in a relationship and still be ace / aro. You can fall in love and still be ace / aro. You can want romance and love and NOT feel romantic attraction. You can be repulsed or not be repulsed. You are still valid. You can have a relationship without sexual attraction or s*x. You can have a relationship without romantic attraction or romance. Every relationship is valid. You are valid with and without a partner. You are valid if Hetero Aro and Hetero Ace. You are valid if Cis or Trans Ace / aro. If you are aro or ace in any way shape or form you ARE VALID Ace / Aro no matter what some gate keepers and aphobes alike say. YOU ARE VALID. YOU ARE LOVED. YOU ARE ACCEPTED. My page will be a safe space for all of you. Because I know how it feels to be invalidated as an asexual and gray aro. I love you all. Even if I haven’t mentioned you or explained your situation if you are anywhere on the ace / aro spectrum you are a valid ace / aro. No one has the right to take that away from you. If you one day no longer identify as ace or aro that is okay too. Life is about discovering ourselves and sexuality is a huge part of it just like morals and values are. Your experiences are valid, your choices are valid who you are is valid. So if you identify as something one day its okay if you don’t the next. Because life is about discovery and learning most importantly about ourselves. I know its hard to ignore the discrimination, hate and nasty words and harassment. But please know you DO belong. You ARE valid. You AREN’T broken. You are loved. You are important. You are precious. This world would not be the same without any of you. Any of us. If your family doesn’t accept you if your friends don’t. You still have the community you still have all of us. We’ll be your family we’ll be your friends. You can choose your friends and family. Family isn’t always by blood and no one says you have to stay with those who don’t love, appreciate and understand you. I do ask one thing. If you are not out of the closet yet. Don’t come out, not until you know its safe to. If your family or friends have any chance of abusing you... Wait until you are safe. It sucks, it feels like sh*t but your safety needs to be your first priority over all else. And if you are in such a situation. Escape as soon as you are able to. Escape and free yourself and then..then come out and be who you are without fear without hatred without pain. Be yourself when its safe. Because you WILL find those who love and accept you no matter where in the spectrum you are. You will be loved. A song I recommend to you if you are struggling is https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vYoapICIfeE I myself and other friends have found it a great comfort. Please know you are not alone and you never will be. Just hold on until you can get out and are safe. Just please try to hold on until you find your true family and friends. Until you have a true home filled with love and acceptance. Theres nothing wrong with you. You’re valid. It’s going to be okay its going to hurt to wait and hide but its for survival. One day you will get out, one day you will be free. Hang in there. Hold on, breathe and focus on just getting through each day. Don’t focus on getting through the week, month or year or however long. Focus on the present focus on each day. You WILL get through this.
Happy pride~!
My girlfriend helped me acknowledge my genderfluidity today--! ^^
Just a list of (a few of) the musical theatre characters I head canon as being on the ace spectrum
*Enjolras (Les Miserables*
*Katherine Plummer (Newsies)
*Davey Jacobs (Newsies)
*Henry (Next to Normal)
*Jesse Tuck (Tuck Everlasting)
*Anybodys (West Side Story)
oh whoops i made more of them
also, @hackbentadventures, taking the gradients out of the panels was a hecking pain i hope you’re proud of yourself.
Bonus moon lesbian Seleen bc the pun is great
~Mod Egg