#demispec

[your-bigender-big-brother]

Shout out to:

polyamorous folks

ambiamorous

queerplatonic folks

loveless folks

atertiary aroace folks

demispec folks

quasi-spec folks

relationship anarchists

You're all fantastic! I'm gay, aplatonic, and ambiamorous myself.

- Your Bigender Big Brother 💙💚

[phinksyhxhfan]

Yoo I'm both a demigirl and asexual now! ( maybe aromantic? )

[stevie-b]

banging pots and pans SOLITARY DEMI RAIN SIREN WHO FOR CENTURIES ONLY USED INTIMACY FOR SURVIVAL AND WHEN SUMMONED INTO A PACK OF OTHER TOUCH STARVED FUCKS HE WAS WEIRDED THE FUCK OUT AND STILL ONLY USED INTIMACY TO KEEP EVERYONE ELSE HAPPY UNTIL PHANTOM'S ARO-ACE TOUCH STARVED ASS CAME ALONG AND THEN BOTH OF THEM LEARNED TO HOLD EACH OTHER AND BE VULNERABLE TOGETHER IN WAYS THAT DOESN'T ALWAYS NEED INTIMACY I L0VE BEING A-SPEC!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[butthatsjustmyfilthyopinion]

I don’t think aphobes who pull the whole “you’re asexual/aromantic? Oh sweetie, you just haven’t found the right person yet” realize that they’re just describing demi people.

Like oh, you aren’t romantically/sexually attracted to anyone until this one specific person? Thats still aspec dumbass.

[eden-has-rotted]

this post is for the demispec people (and for the demispec people who tried to fit in)

for those who don't know, demiromantic/demisexual mean that you only experience romantic/sexual attraction to someone after forming an emotional bond with them.

this is for the demi people who never understood the idea of celebrity crushes. (and for the demi people who picked a randomly celebrity to "like" to fit in.)

this is for the demi people who felt bad for not reciprocating feelings for a person who liked them. (and for the demi people who were known for "having high standards" for never dating anyone.)

this is for the demi people who always sat out spin the bottle or 7 minutes in heaven at parties. (and for the demi people who participated in those games to fit in.)

this is for the demi people who take years to develop feelings for someone. (and for the demi people who take even longer.)

this is for the demi people who worry about making friends because they fear eventually developing feelings for them. (and for the demi people who have or have had feelings for their friends.)

this is for the demi people who are told "everyone needs to know someone before liking them, you're not special" by society.

this is for the demi lesbians, the demi gays, the demi bi people, the demi pan people, the demi trans people, the demi enbies, and all demi people who use the demi label along with other sexualities and genders. (and for the demi people who don't, and are just demi.)

if you are demiromantic, demisexual, or both, you are valid.

[Image ID: The demisexual and demiromantic flags, respectively. /.End ID]

[ihavetoomanyfandomstobesane]

finding out i’m demiromantic and demisexual after 22 years of feeling nothing of those attractions and it being for a person i’ve been best friends with for 10 years really is a fucking slap in the face

[crazy-doo-doo-acey]

"To deny a demisexual their right to be proud of their identity is to rip a demi heart from a demi chest."

- Bunson Holmes, The Queer Guide to Mulling About

[thechronicsloth]

The sunflower is the official symbol of hidden/invisible disabilities.

Since most of my sunflowers are buried under reblogs and other posts by now, I'm getting them all together on new posts, so you can find everything more easily. Especially now that Pride is around the corner.

Feel free to use these and share them. I just ask that you credit me.

The Demisexual, Demiromantic, Demisexual Aromantic, Demisexual Demiromantic, Demiromantic Asexual Sunflowers! For chronically disabled people with an invisible condition who are proud to be in the community.

If you'd like to have it on pins, stickers, tote bags, clothes and other merch, this and other pride sunflowers are all available in my shop. You can find merch with these on through the following links:

Demisexual Sunflower

Demiromantic Sunflower

Demisexual Aromantic Sunflower

Demisexual Demiromantic Sunflower

Demiromantic Asexual Sunflower

Let me know if you'd like a particular flag on a sunflower, or anything special for Pride 🏳️‍🌈