#destructive criticism

[alidaaudit]

Girl, Guy, whatever you may go by, get a life. It’s really sad to see you not get any engagement on other accounts leading to you having to make what 3 more? While regurgitating the same thing over and over again we get it, you won’t stop talking about it and trying to convince people there’s something wrong with her. They’re together,have been for 10 years now and have 3 children together. Whether they’re happy or not who cares. Why put this much time, energy and work into people you don’t know and never will meet? It’s very scary and obsessive behavior. She doesn’t have enough of a fan base for there to be this many accounts made about her and her supposed “strained relationship” with Bill. Maybe working on not using the same kind of format for each account would make it less obvious.

Why not make a positive fan page about him instead if you hate her so much? I’m sure people would actually like to see that. There could never be too much Bill content and it would put your good detective skills to work towards an audience who is actually engaging.

Thank you for your message. I appreciate you taking the time to share your thoughts, even anonymously. To clarify a few points factually:

I operate only this one blog/account focused on body language observations of public figures like Alida and Bill. I'm not affiliated with or running any other similar accounts. If there are others out there discussing related topics, that's independent of me. My content sticks strictly to observable behaviors in public photos, videos, or appearances, without speculation, opinions, or personal judgments about their relationship.

The goal here isn't to convince anyone of anything "wrong" or to dwell on negativity. It's simply an analytical exercise in nonverbal communication cues, similar to how experts break down body language in interviews, speeches, or events. Repetition of certain themes comes from patterns that emerge across available media, but each post aims to highlight specific, evidence-based details.

If my approach comes across as obsessive or unengaging, that's fair feedback. I'll reflect on varying the format to keep things fresh. That said, I'm not interested in shifting to a "positive fan page" as that wouldn't align with the neutral, observational lens I maintain. If you're a fan of Bill's work, there are plenty of great dedicated spaces for that already.

Thanks again for the input. Constructive suggestions on specific posts or analyses are always welcome if you'd like to engage further non-anonymously.

[artracoon]

PJO SERIES HOT TAKES/UNPOPULAR

OPINIONS. Sorry if I offend anyone, it's just an opinion. NO HATE I LOVE RICK AND THE ACTORS 💙(I just don't like Disney directing tbh)

The Athena kid in me is screaming at the top of their lungs because they think they could make a better script than Disney. BRO FINISH 2

Chapters in like 5 minutes- AND THE FIGHT SCENE BETWEEN MS DODDS AND PERCY

WAS RUUUUSHED Slow down Disney that was a good bit. They also made it happen outside instead of having her lead him inside. How hard did the mist have to work with all those people there???

Is it just me or is Sally kinda mean, where's our mom figure? Im crying over Luke's acting it was so good but also why are you dropping bombshells on us the second episode??

No offense to the actors but some of the lines felt like they were from Disney channel in the 2000s. It feels almost like a completely different story I understand why but I thought it was going to be more accurate

Love Annabeth’s "you drool when you sleep" but why was the scene setting so weird??

1 I drastically miss the Hellhound scene. It was one of my favorite scenes. They should have made the first two episodes *| accidentally vaporized my math teacher" and "My mom teaches me bullfighting" then they wouldn't have had to rush it so much. So much information was thrown at us in the first episode I couldn't process it. Also the convo between Percy and Sally in the Cabin was really unrealistic... Why did she have to drop that on Percy so fast I thought Mr. D and Chiron were supposed to have that conversation with Percy.

The bathroom scene was fine but I really wish Annabeth could have been there, instead of making her look like a huge stalker. We could have had her show him around camp like I get we want to build that relationship with Luke so it hits harder but Idk I personally wouldn't want her on my team if all she did was go "Im stalking you to see if your worthy" ditch me and watch me fight 3 v1 and then push me in the ocean. The Ares kids bashing... but Clarisse's acting was great. That scream of anger was amazing.

I feel like they took the first book and went

"eh don't need this, or this hmmm nah that doesn't seem important" and then shook it all about. They changed so much to save time but they didn't even make it a movie so there wasn't much point??

The intro was fine. I didn't really like the dialogue between Percy and Sally at the beginning. The museum was okay but we didn't get a lesson about Kronos so no foreshadowing for that at all. No one really seems to remember this but Percy didn't keep the pen and it doesn't make sense for him to as-well with getting kicked out of school. In the Book Percy was given the pen while fighting Miss Dodds. Afterwards he was still unknowingly clutching the pen when he went to talk to Mr.Brunner who took his pen back saying he should bring his own pen next time, making Percy more confused because Mr.Brunner had given him the pen.

Later when he's leaving for the quest Chiron gives him the pen saying it was from his dad. That means Percy wouldn't have had the pen during his time at camp and his fight with the minotaur. So it wouldn't make sense for him to defeat the minotaur with its horn rather than his pen if he had the pen. In the book he HAD to defeat the minotaur with his own horn because he had no other weapon.

He had a hard time on the beach and during sword training because no other sword felt right. I could rant forever on everything they overlooked.

Sorry no one asked for this rant i'm just so upset because Rick said it was going to be accurate and he chose these Actors because they would be able to play the parts more accurately but the script doesn't work so I there's no point in having actors who would do a good job if the script doesn't do a good job

[incorrectservamp]

Hyde: I finished your poirtrait. What do you think?

Licht: Do you take constructive criticism?

Hyde: Yes?

Licht: It fucking sucks.

[reyloart]

Hey fam just a gentle note to be kind to the artists who share their time and treasures with us :3 

[iveenteredtheabyss]

Following up Chapter 1

My first Dr. Ramani installment is about covert invalidation - also referred to as "toxic correcting," "nitpicking," or destructive criticism. No, I wouldn't say you can identify a deceptive person based on this alone, but if that is the case, additional red flags and manipulation patterns will appear eventually. (DARVO, blame-shifting, emotional blackmail, smear campaigns, etc.) More on that later.

Helpful charts via NeuroLaunch:

[mrmupi]

Criticism vs Self Reflection: Where's Your Focus?

There’s an ease with which we point out the flaws in others while overlooking our own. It’s almost instinctive – seeing where someone falls short, what they could’ve done better, how their choices don’t align with what we think is right. But what if that same energy was redirected inward? What if, instead of dwelling on someone else’s shortcomings, we examined our own? It’s easy to label someone…

Criticism vs Self Reflection: Where's Your Focus?

[adoseofgodtoday]

WHY DO WE QUICKLY JUDGE OTHERS?

March 2, 2025 – Eighth Sunday in Ordinary Time Click here for the readings (https://bible.usccb.org/bible/readings/030225.cfm) Do we often find ourselves judging quickly others or to speak ill of someone?  Is it easy for us then, to find faults and ugly things when we are with others? Does our speech express bitterness as we describe others? Judging others is actually natural to us. It is our…

WHY DO WE QUICKLY JUDGE OTHERS?

[baked-potatoes-rule]

Potato o'clock

Types of criticism :

1. constructive - serves a purpose,helps the person improve, usually given in a compassionate and helpful manner

2. destructive - also serves a purpose, helps the person understand and accept the fact that some people are simply assholes, but they are just as crucial to one's growth.

Faced with No1 : Say thank you, chew on the suggestions and improve

Faced with No2 : Say thank you, make peace with the fact that you can't please people who walk around with brooms up their asses and go get yourself a treat because you're awesome.

Optional : throw them a Robert Burton quote and a small cactus so they can fuck themselves with it

🥔 Have a wonderful day ✨🌈