I’m a nonbinary transgender person, with my specific gender being both nonbinary and graygender. My pronouns are ze/xem* and they/them; I’ll probably only use ze/xem online, though, as I’m not sure how I’d get people to properly use them offline seeing as how they’re still fairly obscure. ^^; (*Full set being ze/xem/zir/zirs/xemself; basically a mix-n-match combo of xe/xem and ze/zir. lol)
My sexuality is demipanromantic demibisexual; in simpler phrasing, panromantic bisexual and demiromantic demisexual. My bisexuality is I’m attracted to males and enbies (nonbinary people), not males and females. Bisexual isn’t only exclusive to meaning males and females! 😉 It can be any two genders or categories. 👍
While I’m not necessarily in nor have I ever been in a polyamorous relationship, I like to consider myself polyamorous as I’m open to dating more than one person provided we already know each other well enough. 👌
I’m also in a lovely queerplatonic relationship with my friend Esmerelda~. ❤
All that being said, don’t think you have to come out if you’re not ready nor safe. Everyone comes out at their own pace; coming out doesn’t have to be a race. :) It’s also okay to take as long as you need to find a fitting label and okay to decide to /not/ use any labels. For some, it’s freeing, and for others, it’s restrictive; you do you, as long as it makes you happy.
Anyhoo, obviously, if you’re against any part of me, feel free to leave~. Or we can have a nice open-minded and educational conversation. Whatever floats your boat. lol
I’d like to end this by saying everyone is valid and amazing, and don’t let anyone make you feel dejected.
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(I miiight have gotten some inspo in some paragraphs from a friend’s coming out post.)