#nonbinary transgender

[darkcloudsatnight]

Ah yes. Non-binary trans people.

I respect this.

[sieveofjuniper]

how 2 signal 2 the person at the hick town deli counter who may or may not be trans that i see them & we could be friends ??????

i would flirt with them over the Meat Buying Process except that i don't eat meat so what do i dooo

[sieveofjuniper]

notes 2 self & whoever else needs 2 hear it:

ur not a chaser bc u prefer dating trans ppl... ur literally t4t.

trans issues are your issues... your opinions are not out of place.

youre allowed to think ur a lesbian now. like thats okay, youre not lying. & if smth changes.. ur allowed to change.

ur allowed to be a he/they trans lesbian or sapphic or whatever the hell, with no medical transitioning going on, & only date ppl who are not binary men. thats literally fine.

ur not a "trender" dawg you literally changed ur name in 4th grade & 'crossdressed' for three years. you dont owe a certain presentation to anybody. & also thats not a real thing.

ppl on tbe internet have wild opinions abt shit thats not their business, & thats not ur problem. irl queers do get you ml.

u lowkey could get on that diy train if u wanted, & maybe u do want to,, & you need to think abt that without 'what will the cis ppl around me think' being a factor

just bc you refuse to conform to cis ppl's preconceptions of transness does not mean youre not trans, and does not mean that other queer ppl will refuse to see your transness either.

[justagaymoth]

I’m a woman but only I can say that

Im a woman but im also not a woman

I’m definitely not a man

[your-rutherfurr]

Why do orientations that include nonbinary people get erased or put down?

I constantly see this with enbian and especially skoliosexuality, I'd hear people call enbian "transphobic" and "invalidating" to nonbinary folks because apparently this label is putting us in the binary somehow? Like what?!

And with skoliosexuality I see people say it'd make "more sense" to make this an attraction to androgynous folks when;

Nonbinary does not and never will equal to being androgynous, Nonbinary people will dress how they like and present themselves in a way that will make them feel best

Skoliosexuality is not a presentation based attraction like gynosexual, androsexual or linsexual. It is based on gender and nonbinary is a gender, a big gender umbrella and people need to accept that!

And lastly, that it's apparently impossible to know if one's nonbinary or not. Which isn't completely false, but also not entirely true. The Internet exists where you can meet nonbinary people, queer spaces to meet nonbinary people, or just ask, and a lot of the time a majority of queer people (IF IT'S SAFE) will express that they're nonbinary! Also, it can be hard to tell if anyone is one gender now a days, not everyone will dress like their gender. It's not just a "nonbinary problem"

Let's start celebrating sexualities that center around the attraction to us nonbinary folks and not try to erase them because we "don't understand it", if you don't understand it go and educate yourself instead of spewing exorsexist/transphobic shit on the Internet

[justagaymoth]

Happy nonbinary people’s day (July 14th)

I’ve been out for six years!

No matter how long you’ve been out or if even you are not out yet happy nonbinary peoples day

All nonbinary are valid regardless of their pronouns

Nonbinary people who still use their birthname are valid

Nonbinary people are valid regardless of where they are at in their medical transition

Nonbinary people who don’t want to transition medically are valid

Feminine nonbinary people are valid regardless of their assigned gender at birth or sex

Masculine nonbinary people are valid regardless of their assigned gender at birth or sex

Intersex nonbinary people are valid

Nonbinary people who feel connected to a binary gender while still being nonbinary are valid regardless if it’s the gender their were assigned with at birth or not

Disabled and POC nonbinary people are valid

All nonbinary people are valid no matter what

[nerdby]

In other news that is totally TMI, I use mens' deoderant because it smells amazing and because my sweat glands got all fucked up when I was on HRT, and I sweat like a leaky garden hose now and it's fucking gross. Women's deoderant is bullshit and does not work. I sweat it off in like an hour if I'm outside. Anyway bought a stick of Old Spice Swagger deodorant yesterday cause the store was out of Mitchum's Mens' Unscented which is what I normally wear. I love Old Spice cause I'm a cliche with daddy issues, but I let my cat smell it today cause he was curious. He looked disgusted and ran under the bed after😂😭