#dysphoric cis

[neopronouns]

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a flag for cis people with dysphoria (aka cisphoric) for anon!

colors are mostly from these gender dysphoria and cis flags.

tags: @radiomogai | dni link

[shadow-redferne]

honestly i feel like we don't talk about folks who are cisgender, but still receive gender affirming care anyway, or cis folks that are pronoun non-conforming. i feel like it's important to know that the stuff that literally saves trans kids' lives can also benefit the lives of cisgender individuals too.

so shout out to cis folks who use puberty blockers, have gotten bottom or top surgery, hormone therapy and other gender affirming care. shout out to cis folks who experience gender dysphoria or gender euphoria. shout out to cis folks who originally thought they were trans but realized they weren't. shout out to cis folks who are questioning their gender. and shout out to cis folks who are pnc or gnc!

Radfems, TERFS, Transmeds and other Exclusionists do not touch. This post is not to be used to spread your hateful ideologies.

[roman-roy-apologist]

i feel really bad for “gender critical” people who say they’re “dysphoric cis” i genuinely do. their transphobia is in the way of them being happy and my heart goes out to all of them, and i truly hope they get better

[gnc-culture-is]

Cis dysphoric gnc culture is all the dysphoria resources either telling you you're trans (which after much introspection you've understood that you're not) or telling you dysphoria is fake and you should just stop experiencing it

I mean. We believe you, and I hope dearly that you can find a way to alleviate your dysphoria. good luck.

[dysphoric-culture-is]

s*x-repulsion-induced body dysphoric culture is knowing you’d never actually get the affirming surgery because not only are you terrified of surgery (would never get any kind unless life or death scenario) but letting someone see you n*ked to do the surgery would only further fuel your anxiety and dysphoria which would defeat the whole purpose

Dysphoric culture is!

Also, yeah lots of trans people feel the same way about being shirtless/pantless for surgeries. It can be very uncomfy for a surgeon to see the body parts that are making you dysphoric, especially during a pre-op exam or photos. But the good thing about surgery is that the purpose is not 'defeated' because the results very often are worth it!

Even for cis people, like you anon, the surgery often makes a lot of the pre-op stressing out worthwhile because it will prevent more years of dysphoria. But if you don't go through with it then hopefully you can still cope with your body anon!

[warriors-pride]

do you know of any intersex cis or dysphoric cis flags? if so, intersex/dysphoric cis fallen leaves, pinestar, graystripe, and graypool?

[deaddeaddeadsstuff]

why is turigirl controversial??

is it because people think cis women are going to try to use it just to join the community or get attention??? or they're a girlfag and fetishize being gay or something??? as if a cis woman who were to use it wouldn't be actually genuine in how they feel?? as if they couldn't be cusper or gnc or gender apathetic?? maybe even pleonotic?? or cross-aligned?? as if they couldn't feel like they're a girl but gay for guys?? or like that yet also be ace???? like seriously???

[dysphoric-culture-is]

question: I thought I was trans for the past 2 years because I was uncomfy with my agab and thought it was dysphoria.

turns out I was just uncomfy with the roles surrounding my agab and I’m actually cis. but there are still things about my agab that make me feel really shitty (dysphoric?) and so I guess the question is ‘is it normal to cis people to feel bad about their agab or do I need to question my gender again’

disclaimer that I still fully support trans rights. and I don’t regret identifying as trans for a bit bc it taught me valuable things about queer people and helped me understand the complexity of my own gender better

Yes, sometimes. Especially the part about disliking your AGAB's gender roles- a lot of cis women are uncomfortable with their gender roles ('housewife', 'lady', etc). A lot of cis men are uncomfortable with their gender roles ('tough', etc)

And even not liking your 'gendered' body features is more common in cis people than people think. (ex: cis women not liking their chests, cis men not liking their facial hair, etc)

Or just a desire for gender non-conformity in general can happen. Wanting a higher/lower voice or different chest size or different pronouns or different physical features or to be treated a different way is absolutely something that also happens to cis people. And for detransitioners (like you) it’s pretty common to have a complex relationship with gender and detrans people are often still gender non-conforming.

It’s also possible to be a dysphoric cis person- dysphoria is not as simple as ‘this thing makes you trans and also only trans people can experience it’. Gender is a complicated thing and people often have complex relationships with it.

So in conclusion yes you can absolutely label yourself as cis anon! It’s totally up to wether you want to describe your experiences as transness or dysphoria.