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Deeply fascinated by Dean
It's gonna be another mess 😎
And we are here for Drama+Mess 😎🫡🙌
Alan honestly comes across as the textbook “nice guy.” (Which isn’t hard when you have First playing him, who is an actual nice guy). You know, the nice guy that acts nice until they don’t get their way and when they don’t, they take on a whole different persona that you wouldn’t expect because of how they presented themselves as the nice guy. Alan can be a “nice guy” and still raise red flags, especially how he postures himself when talking to Wen.
It’s important to also consider the timeline in which they are living in. This is taking place during mid Covid-19. The show alludes to all the financial struggles due to the economy and Wen himself states that he’s living paycheck-to-paycheck. It makes sense that Wen is stuck living with his ex. It happens all the time to couples, sometimes no matter how much you may want to leave, there are extrinsic (in this case, financial) factors that impede your ability.
And! In every interaction that Wen and Alan have together, Wen is more than crystal clear that there is nothing left in between them, even if they are still living together due to circumstances.
First, the interaction they had when they were sharing a bed together. The moment that Wen feels Alan is snuggling up to him, Wen wakes up and tells Alan to move off of him. There’s a certain coldness in the way that Wen tells him to move, as if its been something already discussed.
The next scene, Alan and Wen are having breakfast. Alan doesn’t even ask if Wen wants to go to the party of their mutual friend, he simply states, “You’re going.” He took away any choice from Wen and expected Wen to go along with the charade that they were still together. Wen put a stop to that and even states that pretending that they’re together makes him uncomfortable. ‘Pretending’ is the key word, signifying that they already discussed that their relationship has ended.
Then, when Wen arrives the next morning, Alan reprimands Wen for not notifying him that he wouldn’t make it home that night and for not picking up his phone. There’s no relationship there! Wen already stated as such. Alan is crossing a line that has already been drawn, there was no reason to attempt to scold Wen, when Alan is nothing to him. He’s not his lover and not his parents, so if Wen doesn’t want to let him know that he’s not coming home, he doesn’t have to and that pisses Alan off.
Wen also tells Alan that he’s moving out and that he found a condo to stay out. Wen is giving Alan a heads up so he can figure out his living situation, that wasn’t a comment for him throw it in his face whether he’s moving in with a boyfriend. Even if he was! It’s! Not! His! Business!
The final straw is when Alan seeks out Gong, asking for information on Uncle Jim, just because Wen posts him on his IG story. A) Wen has made it clear that they’re not in a relationship anymore B) who Wen spends his time with is none of his business C) going to a mutual friend to find out is overstepping a huge line when it’s clear Wen doesn’t want Alan in his life.
To top it off, whatever the final straw was for Wen, Alan plays it off as if Wen was being too much since he did it with good intentions. Gong even states that no matter if his actions were well-intentioned, he should have considered Wen’s opinion. I swear Alan’s posturing as if he knows what’s better for Wen kills me.
Then he actually goes and tracks down where Wen is with Uncle Jim and asks if they’ve slept together! The way that he pushes Wen down, as well, he didn’t stop to think until he saw that Wen fell. Talk about overstepping, he really ran through the line that was drawn by tracking them down and then resorting to violence.
It really doesn’t matter that they live together or that Alan has unresolved feelings. Wen has made it clear through his actions and verbally that there is nothing left for them. Wen even stated that what they were pretending for their mutual friend and even just pretending made him uncomfortable. I don’t know how much clearer Wen has to be.
Alan isn’t in limbo with his relationship, Wen made his intentions clear in ending the relationship. Alan just can’t believe or come to terms that Wen doesn’t want him. Living together, sharing common spaces, doesn’t equal a welcome into his personal life just because they used to be together and Alan can’t seem to accept that.
I get it, relationships make people do crazy things, jealousy can be a bitch, but that doesn’t give an excuse for literally stalking your ex and abusing the situation.
TLDR; Alan is a walking red flag “nice guy” that can’t accept that just because he loves Wen that doesn’t mean that Wen has to love him.
Hay parejas y hay parejas... Te ha pasado que sientes que conectas más rápido o no, de acuerdo a lo que la pareja te "haga sentir"? Me ha pasado que veo toda una serie solo por la pareja principal o secundaria, aunque el tema no sea tan bueno. Soy de las que adelantan en el capítulo, solo para ver esa pareja en cuestión.
A continuación publico la primera parte de esas parejas que me han hecho emocionarme de mil formas. Listo? Avanza
BossNoeul - Love in the Air
BounPrem - Between Us
EarthMix - A Tale of Thousand Stars
FortPeat - Love in the Air
MaxNat - Cutie Pie
MewGulf - TharnType
NetJames - Bed Friends
OffGun - Not Me
OhmNanon - Bad Buddies
ZeeNunew - Cutie Pie
Hay parejas de estas que tienen más series, coloqué en la que los "conocí"... Se podría decir que estas son en la actualidad gran parte de mis favoritos, unos gozan como pareja de más fama que otros y dos de estas parejas ya no están juntos, lamentablemente.
Continuará...
All I'm saying is while this is Phupa and Tian, it is also 100% Earth and Mix also.
EarthMix Pre Wedding.
Now I'm just want a special episode of ATOAS of Tian and Chief Phupha getting married.
Fandoms, rejoice!!!!!
This is just the sweet treat i needed at the end of the Easter break. I am soooo ready for all of these to start.
The countdown to April 19 is on!
Let the rewatches commence, enjoy and see you there