When i had my visit with a transcare physician, she was very insistant that i consider freezing my eggs in case i ever want children. i told her i never liked kids my entire life (20 years) and i dont see that changing, but she still insisted i think about it. Im incredibly suggestible and even though im positive ill never want kids, her insistance made me a bit nervous about saying no. Im in BC, would there be any cost associated w freezing eggs? Esp if im pretty sure im never going to use them
first, as annoying as this is to hear, I am SO glad that your doctor is speaking about this because so many doctors are neglectful to mention this as an option. this is absolutely the standard of care (to ask people to consider if freezing eggs/sperm is right for them) before HRT, and from my experience, almost nobody asks it. She’s being insistent that you /consider/ freezing your eggs, not that you /freeze/ your eggs. think about whether or not this is a good option for you, and what you want for your future.
You definitely don’t need to do it if you’re definitely sure you’ll never want biokids, (you can always have kids other ways later if you change your mind) but for the clients who are more focused on transition and didn’t think about 30 year old parent them, it gives them a second to think “oh yeah, that might be a good idea!”
So back to you: I'm not in BC and i don’t know a lot about your area (i know we have some mods from Canada but i can’t remember which areas specifically and they're not super active right now, and i wanted to get this ask up soonish). What i can find is this blogpost from 2017 (it’s very cis-centric), about female egg freezing (and assumingly your costs should be similar, as long as laws haven’t changed).
“And without an employer picking up the tab, it's a pricey endeavor. Costs vary depending on the clinic, but are usually in the region of $10,000 to extract and freeze the eggs, $300 per year to store them, and $6,000 to cover the cost of one IVF cycle. So far no provincial health plans cover the cost to freeze eggs, though Ontario does offer coverage for one round of IVF and tax credits for IVF drugs. Other provinces like Manitoba offer residents tax credits, and companies like Starbucks Canada have also started covering IVF for their Canadian employees.“
If our canadian mods or other canadian followers, especially from BC read this and have any additional information about cost or context, it’d be great to have them weigh in with that info here.