#emapthy

[germcore]

When you say you accept and support autistics you have to support us at all times

when:

• a autistic is nonverbal

• a autistic is semiverbal

• a autsitic has speech loss at inconvenient times

• when a autistic needs time to use their AAC device

• a autsitic is having a meltdown

• a autistic having a shutdown

• when a autistic need help with hygiene

• a autistic is overstimulated

• a autistic is underestimated

• a autistic is unmasking

• a autistic stims

• a autistic has tone issues

• a autistic has low/fluctuating empathy

• a autistic doesn't understand something

• a autistic has a hard time relating

[disco-dancing-in-the-desert]

[unwelcome-ozian]

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[confessionsofdramagrl]

“i’m so empathetic” and its the most evil, mean, vindictive person you’ve ever met

[neurotypicalabusesurvivor]

If you're dependent on your ability to feel empathy to not be abusive you're not a good person.

If anything was to happen to your ability to feel what others are feeling you will become abusive.

Also empathy can be weaponized against people. Just because someone is crying and hurt doesn't mean they don't deserve it.

Sympathy is cognitive, it cognitively understanding why something is bad. Sympathy is required to be a good person.

[xerxeswitch]

Unpopular Opinion: Empaths does not equate to "nice people."

--- Everyone is an "empath" nowadays. It's treated as a superpower as well as a coy curse. There's always a misconception that empathy only dwells in kind people, and they'll never, ever, ever be manipulative to you. The first statements I experienced -- that usually follows in this topic are: "I/We have a level of empathy most people don't have. That's us empaths." "Empaths are always kind and sweet people.""Empaths are always easily taken advantaged of because we're so nice! We always try to see the best in bad people but we get abused so easily!" "We are natural healers. It's our job to change people for the best!"

-- First of all, yikes. Personally, anyone who brags that they're super empathic are the people I stay away from. I get skeptical when anyone claims they "have a level of empathy most people don't have" aka "I am nicer than most people" aka "I'm a nice guy/girl."

... An empath is supposedly someone who feels and understands other people's emotions. They can read the room and react to the environment or to the person accordingly. NOW, this does not mean they care more, or are better than the average person. Ever heard of "dark empaths?" There are plenty of empaths out there whom exist that can cognitively sense or catch your emotions, but they can use your emotions against you to their advantage. A lot of empaths I met claim they can feel through other people's emotions and state that this automatically makes them nicer people than most, but then they push other people’s feelings aside for their own selfish needs. They also know how you feel and what you want, which considers them one of the most dangerous people you'll meet. I feel it's the same perception for those who are radically into "love and light" but then utilize toxic positivity and spiritual bypassing. -- ..Another gross stereotype that these proclaimed empaths like to say is that they are prone to be pushed around, and be strung along into bad relationships because they want to change someone, or because they're "too nice."

I think that's a toxic expectation to expect from genuinely nice people to be naturally taken advantaged of. I find genuine nice, empathetic people set firm boundaries and know when to say no and set a lot of time to themselves, because they also wouldn't want people to go through bad experiences themselves and understand the importance of being protective of your own energy and space. A kind, empathic person would not boast about how nice they are. They just are. They shouldn't feel the need to be better than most people either. Additionally, genuinely nice, empathic people shouldn't feel the need to change people, but just hand them the tools they think it's helpful then leave them alone to their own devices. --- So, being an "empath" doesn't mean that person is kinder than the average person. Being an "empath" doesn't mean you have to compromise yourself for the sake of others, disregarding your own time and needs. I'm not trying to preach about what takes a genuinely nice person to be nice. This girl's just tired of hearing harmful things that comes with the topic revolving around "empaths."

[mysoulsecrets-blog]

It's okay to feel what you feel and how you feel sometimes, because you don't have to pretend to be strong always sometimes letting go off of your emotions is needed to make you strong mentally, holding on to everything within you can damage your mental and physical health, so if you express how you feel once in a while will not make you look week as a person.

[vampyrasa]

                           @emapthy​   |  aviators starters

though the night itself was irreparably damaged   by the knowledge of coming onslaught and gloom, there was everywhere you looked a sort of country charm that helped to alleviate one’s sense of dread.   steep hills that sloped down into the tall, flowering canopies of many mixtures of fir and acacia trees, and some dirt pathways that had long-since been overtaken by both age and massive clusters of budding oleander.   though picturesque when one could see it in the light of the day, the scene had not lost any of its elysian nature.  for it was doused in a cloying beauty of its own kind by the cold light of the moon.  

❛❛     is this not what you expected?    ❜❜        the count’s voice was quiet, as though he were only speaking to himself.  there were no bodies around him, no warmth of shivering human hands.  buy nay, he was far from alone.   clever had been that man doctor van helsing was his name      and it had taken the count some time to figure out just what had transpired.   

hypnotized, the both of them, and allowed to share the occasional, dreaming glimpses through one another’s eyes.  she was leading them to him, this madame mina, so that they could rob him of his life.       ❛❛     you cannot wake from this dream either more than i can.  so,  suppose that i shall take you with me tonight.    ❜❜