#fasd

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[Self indulgent]

[terri-0-terrible]

(a vent post i'm making while upset so i might look back at this and delete later idk) Tw for ableism

haha i love (/s) trying to look up stuff about my disability on this website trying to find community or resources or people who might share similar experiences to me and seeing this bullshit:

haha so funny (/s) how my disability is seen as a fucking joke or a insult to throw at people you hate, that my existence is nothing but a tale of caution to be looked at with pity and disgust, that i am just an extension of my birthmother's decisions and not someone who's condition should be talked about with respect-

i don't know how to end this post I'm just mad, support disabled people, even the ones with "controversial" conditions, or die by my arcane wizard blast or some shit like that.

[plz-degrade-me]

Nicole (Bistro Huddy) FASD headcannons cause it's cannon that her mom drank while pregnant with her

She started talking late but after she started she never stopped

She grew up always being a bit behind in school

She tried at first but then started to just give up and play the role of the popular girl who doesn't care about school

She'd get guys to do her homework or let her cheat off of them to cover up how she was struggling

She's always had memory problems

She got really good at lying because she got so used to making up stuff to hide how much she was forgetting

She wears contacts and is super impulsive and easily distractable

If she were to try to listen to Terry's long talks or follow the instructions he gives her she would struggle a lot but she doesn't respect him enough for that to be a problem 💅

She thought it was just ADHD at first but complaining to Ruby about how many ear infections she gets Ruby started to connect the dots and suggested that maybe her mother's drinking actually did have an effect on her

She got SO angry at the idea that she might have FASD

Their fight was a whole thing the next day at Bistro Huddy

Nicole was doing as much as she could to piss of the kitchen, putting in the wrong orders, getting customers to get modifications on their food

Finally they were able to talk about it

Joey: "Why'd you've been doing every possible thing to get on my bad side today! What are you fighting with Ruby about now?" Ruby: "I lightly suggested that her mother's drinking could have had an affect on her and she flipped out" Nicole: "Don't you dare tell people that, they'll think I'm like disabled or whatever" Joey: "stop having a stick up your ass about it" Trick: "Yeah, I'm just glad you weren't the one to carry me or else I'd definitely have that disorder" Joey: "Go run some food!" Nicole: "ughh!" Ruby: "There's nothing wrong with it, baby"

[disability-shout-outs]

Shout out to folks with Fetal Alcohol Syndrome!

[ego94]

reminder to include people with fetal alcohol spectrum disorder in your neurodiversity advocacy thank you

[originaljediinjeans]

I'll see your Main Character Syndrome™️and raise you "Why is my blorbo not the main character????" syndrome.

[trans--v1]

[ a mere object ]

a mere object

no id, help appreciated

[ schrödingerFASD ]

schrödingerFASD

A schrödingerID when one identifies with / as being cis fetal alcohol spectrum disorder but if proven wrong will identify as transID

[ may your woes be many and your days few ]

may your woes be many and your days few

[grahamkennedy]

Finding out there's absolutely no community for FASD on here and there's a significant chance I have it. Cool 🙃