#fatherwound

[1osingdog]

blogger formerly known as fatherwound

hey so i got termed. i'm appealing it right now and hoping to the gods that they approve it and i can get my main back ):

if things don't work out i'll slowly start trying to build my following back here. please reblog this so i can try to get back some of y'all, especially readers for my fic

update 8/10/25: i have a ticket submitted and waiting to hear back from support. in the mean time my fic is on ao3 as well if you want to stay up to date <3

hey mutuals and people from my taglist i'm gonna tag you in this sorry! i'm tagging you all from memory so i know i'm leaving people out

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[1osingdog]

important writing / fic update!!!

so i added an update to my intro post but i wanted to make a post here to officially say i’m taking a writing hiatus.

i finally decided to just call it what it is, instead of continually telling you all “soon soon” and then never delivering.

i have every intention of returning to IRE, i will not leave the story unfinished. i already know how i want it to end, and how the fate of wren/reader and joel will come together. it is also completely against who i am as a person to ever leave a project (especially one so dear to me) incomplete. i just have to take a step back and give myself time for the motivation to come back to me naturally.

IRE came to me in a heavy period of hyperfixation (literally over a year) and so i was able go rapid fire produce chapters. but now my obsessive nature as turned elsewhere and i am currently in my final year of my degree (on top of working full time). i knew anything i would produce without the true motivation to write would not be up to my own standards or that which you all deserve. i apologize for this unplanned break, but know wren and joel will be back ꨄ︎

thank you all for your patience and your support throughout this journey. all your kind words and appreciation make my heart swell and i cannot wait to return better than ever to give you the conclusion to this story. x

[pokingholes-cptsdwarrior]

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[eulajsmithps]

Heal Your Mother and Father Wounds #healingtheinnerchild #motherwound #fatherwound 10k new…

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[butterfliesrising]

there's a certain trauma in the girls whose dads cheated on their mamas… especially if you knew it in some way when you were young… you got trust issues before you even had a chance to try to love, and from the man who was supposed to show you how to be loved… there's just a certain trauma in a girl whose daddy was the first man to break her heart.

– butterflies rising

[im-leaving-soon-s2]

I wasn't my dad's girl. I wasn't my mom's girl. I wasn't anyone's girl. Love was never something i found in the walls i called home..

[tabo66]

My father had a face he made when I did something soft.

I knew it before I could name it. The slight shift. The almost-nothing that was everything to a boy watching for signs of whether he was acceptable.

I was a dreamer. I liked poetry and dancing and playing in worlds I invented.

Not that. Not here. Not you.

So I packed the softness away and became the other things — steady, reliable, always on time. The things that earned the nod. The absence of that face.

But the dreamer never left. He just went underground.

And for years I went looking for the person who would receive what my father couldn't. Someone whose face would say —

yes. This. You.

And everyone I wanted to get close to was carrying that same impossible weight — the weight of having to undo what a father did before they even knew my name.

That's not fair to them. It took me a long time to see that.

My father gave me what he had. Both of those men live in me now.

The practical one keeps me grounded. The dreamer wrote this poem.

✦

my softness was never the problem. It was always the point.

If you hid your softness to be acceptable — this one is for you. 🖤

[joelekm]

Healing Mother and Father Wounds for Healthier Relationships | Fearless Love

I recently watched "Healing Mother and Father Wounds for Healthier Relationships | Fearless Love" and it offered some powerful perspectives on emotional healing. The discussion explains how unresolved parental wounds can affect our relationships and how we can begin the healing process. Definitely worth watching.