#gender null

[chronicallyleggless]

Gender blinkies! (More neutral-ish?)

[tertiarytestified]

gender mysterious. you need to go through trials and find extremely vague clues before you find out what my gender is. if you get it wrong i send you to the fire realm.

[starcoffinxd]

Okay so genuine question:

Is there a term for agender people loving women and agender people loving men? Like I know some people will do like an 'NB' for nonbinary folk but like, I feel like us agender and neutrois folk need some terms as well.

[beyond-mogai-pride-flags]

Transfeminull Pride Flag

Transfeminull (transfemnull, transnullfem, transnulfem, transnulifem, transnulifem): being transfeminine and transnull; a term used to describe transgender people who were assigned male at birth, but identify with null and feminine gendered feelings to a greater extent than with masculinity.

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[thatspookyagent]

I love how neutrois is a very diverse label that can mean different things to everyone who uses it. Some might use it in a gender free or gnc kind of way that rejects the gender binary, words associated with it, and anything the gender binary forces onto queer people. There are also neutrois folks who use it in a way that is synonymous with agender and anything related to genderlessness. Then there's folks who use to mean gender neutral, a connection to neutrality, or even gender null (or both).

And some neutrois people use the label in all of the ways that I listed above or are fluid in definition/feeling. Being trans neutral, null, genderless, gnc, and gender free can often connect in ways that all reject the gender binary and gender stereotypes. Some trans neutral folks use null and some use genderless or both to describe themselves. We're an extremely diverse community, just as diverse as the trans masc and trans fem communities.

This doesn't really get talked about a lot tbh. How trans neutral folks express ourselves in all kinds of different ways and how neutral can mean different things to all of us. Some interpret it as genderless, others gendervoid, or unaligned/nonaligned, maybe someone is male or female (or both) but they're neutrally gendered, or they're neither male nor female, abinary, atrinary, anonbinary, trans outherine, etc.

Just like how the trans masc and trans fem communities are both very expansive, so is the trans neutral community. Not all of us identify the same or use the word neutral the same way, hell some of us might be neutral aligned but don't actually use the label but consider ourselves apart of the community. At the end of the day, we're all members of the queer community with diverse experiences.

[ayyeeequality]

Gender Null

A term meaning you always, often, or occasionally feel nothing towards your gender or lack thereof. You don’t have to have a certain gender identity to also identify as gender null.

Black = no gender / agender

Dark grey = partial / changing genders

White = any and all other genders

Light grey + zero = the lack of feeling towards your gender

Incase either of you are interested @myworstdays @kaypls

[plushself]

Pannull / Pannullic

definition: being every null gender

[bookbingingproblem]

There is a tragic lack of information and blogs on Agender and identities, specifically null gender, that fall under the Agender umbrella so I've decided to compile all the stuff I've found that helped me out

Agender is considered the same as/synonymous to terms like genderblank, genderfree, genderless, gendervoid, non-gendered, ungendered, and null gender  

Neutrois, genderless, null gender and neutral gender are used interchangeably, but are sometimes differentiated by the emphasis of lacking or having neutral gender.

E.g. Null gender / Genderless are similar, but are unlike Neutrois/Neutral gender because the definitions strongly lean towards lacking gender completely

E.g. Neutrois / Neutral gender are considered interchangable, but are different from Null/genderless because their definitions strong implications of having a neutral gender (usually somewhere between, or off the spectrum of boy and girl) Neutrois gender wiki link

!! important !! These labels are used casually by those under the agender label!!! So if you feel neutral but like a term emphasizing the lack of gender go for it! it's up to you!! Try it out!!! Pick what's comfortable!! Trust your gut!!

Null gender

(Coined by dieselwolfe) (?)

All have links to the 3 wiki's/websites I was able find information in..

"... feels their gender does not include aspects of being a male or aspects of being a female. There is sometimes a strong emphasis on the rejection of gender stereotypes concerning behavior and traits. Null-Gendered people sometimes like to just describe their gender as being just me implying an emphasis on the fact that specific gender categorizations are unneccesary considering the complexity of people and their behaviors."

"It may also be associated with genderlessness, and shares many similarities with agender - people who consider themselves neutrally gendered or genderless, but some may identify as both..." (Definition also applied to Neutrois)

"An I don’t want a label because labels don’t fit but they help shut people up sometimes, so here have a label' gender label." (under tab 'Lists of kinds of Agender identities")

Agender/Null gender Experience

Here is a link to a Reddit of people talking about their experiences and getting philosophical about gender.

(mentions gender presentation vs. gender identity, misogyny, and the pointlessness of boy/girl classification)

Quotes from the reddit that are possibly relevant about being Agender and the Gender journey:

"Basically, it's a preference. If someone feels the need to identify themselves as agender, then they're agender." - reddit user

"He says that having no strong perception of one's gender is just a 'symptom' of being cisgender, i.e., only people who are born into the wrong gender develop a strong perception of their gender

My wife is cis and feels strongly feminine. Tada: counterexample, disproven.

Honestly, I think there's a semi-easy answer to the overall question. Imagine that you wake up tomorrow and your body has changed gender. What's your first thought?" - reddit user

"I'm more of a masculine person, but I feel uncomfortable when I'm implicated as a man, or when I have to choose between "male" or "female" (I know that I am certainly not female, as well), or when I'm cornered into calling myself a man.

To me, it all just seems arbitrary. I don't really have a stake in being male, or being female, or being any gender, really, so I decided that perhaps I could best describe myself as agender and leave it at that." - reddit user

!! Reminder !! Just because you may not resonate with these folk's perspective 100% does not mean you do not got fit with the label!!! This is just to give perspective, don't stress over comparing your experience to theirs!!! Trust yourself!!!

A quick Thank you to @raavenb2619, and every other gender questioning blog, for their questioning-agender tag! The tag helped me find these resources which helped me grow comfortable with this label!!

Idk if I'm completely comfortable with this one yet, but thank you for giving me the chance to find out.

Please tell me if anything needs to be fixed or corrected!! If you need to talk DM me bc I'm also trying to figure myself out and would love to talk!