#indivduality

[hope-tea-and-khaki-pants-blog]

Hey. You. Yes, you. Stop. Read this.

You are amazing.

I don’t care how much you think you’re not. The fact that you are alive, that you are a being, that you have a consciousness, that you are individually and uniquely you, makes you undeniably amazing.

Don’t let people get you down. No one has the right to tell you who you are, or what you are, or what you’re worth. Only you have the right to decide things about you, to determine you’re own worth, to discover your own identity.

This can be one of the hardest things to remember, or to recognize. We’ve been conditioned to please other people, but something that I’ve recognized is that only pleasing others is a very good way to slowly destroy yourself. 

Allow yourself to be amazing. Allow your own happiness and individuality.

No matter what happens, just remember that I think that you are amazing. That there is someone out there that believes in you and thinks that you are amazing no matter what happens.

[togetyourarmsfree]

Fundamentally the persona is nothing real: it is a compromise between individual and society as to what a man should appear to be. He takes a name, earns a title, exercises a function, he is this or that. In a certain sense all this is real, yet in relation to the essential individuality of the person concerned it is only a secondary reality, a compromise formation, in making which others often have a greater share than he.

C. G. Jung

[luxbeautyandstyle]

Carve A Niche When I read this, the words resonated with me. I hope you find something in this inspires you too.

[open-mindedoutcast]

My definition of open-mindedness:

Willing to see things from others’ perspectives

The up side to this is seeing why people might positively view you and the bright side to everything (people, opinions/beliefs, events, etc). The downside to this is seeing why people might negatively view you and the dark side to everything.

Positives: creativity/intuition

excellent discernment/intelligence

sociability/agreeable

charisma/“je ne sais quois”

fast-learners/timely

Negatives:

indecisive

misunderstood/wrongly perceived

contradicting

too aware

confusing

awkward

Being a naturally open-minded person like myself is like a double-edged sword. It can make life much easier or much harder. For example, I try my hardest to be careful about what I say and how I act. I know this can be viewed in two general ways. I can be viewed as cautious, disciplined, well-mannered, and reserved. However, I know I can also be viewed as over-bearing, distant, pointless, awkward, and annoying. My open-mindedness makes me have no opinion of myself only appreciation for people who think positively of me and a “I’m a little upset right now but I’ll get over it” attitude for anything negative about me. But others they can let the negativity eat them alive.

[1withthepen]

Thoughts I had on... ( August,29th,2015) About....(life and history and myself)

Thoughts I had on… ( August,29th,2015) About….(life and history and myself)

Hello everyone. So glad that I had this idea to start this segment that I intend to do every once in a while with you called ” Thought I had on… (the day of the thoughts) About….( what the thoughts are about)” Basically I share with you some things I had been thinking about that day. Sometimes it will come right from my mind to my screen but like today’s post this was actually from August 29th…

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[chil-ledvibes]

Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind, don't matter & those who matter don't mind.

[missmichellemybelle]

Humans.

I'm all about human rights, not labels. 

[beamindful]