#life progress

[deepdrearn]

hey tumblr here's an update: I will be unemployed in five weeks, I am madly in love with a boy, finally moved all of my stuff into my new apartment and now lie on the couch that I got from Craigslist which is possibly less comfortable than I'd hoped for but okay

[xanaxlollipop]

When NOT to trust "your guts"

We deal with shitty stuff in our life, and we always try to improve ourself, we outgrow our past-self version and we try to build new ones to better face situations. Sometimes we succeed, sometimes we feel like we're walking backwards because we are not satisfied with our reaction. Well let's dive a little bit deeper in this feeling. If you're responding to a difficult situation that makes you feel:

Small

Embarassed

Is crossing a boundary you have

The situations that makes us feel like this, often give out a sense of urgency, because we feel like we have to respond immediatly. When we're stressed or confused we tend to lean towards "what we know better" , because is faster and it doesn't require too much thinking (ofc cause we already did it multiple times!) and that often is our instinctive response. Which, most of the time, is one of the response that our old-self would give.

HERE. Don't trust your guts (not immediatly at least). Pause, and try this instead.

Notice how you would have responded in the past

Take a lil bit of extra time to come up with a different solution that is aligned with your present-self and not with your past-self

THEN, decide what to do...

Important Do not think that all of your past way to react/coping mechanism are somehow wrong and you don't have to use them anymore. Some might result in being extermely valid again, even after a long time. What I'm saying here is take your time to consciously decide if the reaction you're about to have is aligned with who you are /you want to be NOW.

[tarnishedgoldenboy]

Today was my 75 days alcohol free ☑️ Celebrating the win 😊😊😊 and making the choice again tomorrow and the next day and onward and upward 💙🌟💙🌟

[thelostgrimoire]

Update: so I did my exam! The results will be given on the 23th.

Let's hope for the best, I'm trying to be confident about it! ☺️ Thank you for all the support 💕✨

[silverback-fitness]

Had my 6 month performance review at work. Was nervous about it going in but then.. I got a 20% pay increase! They said I have exceeded expectations and they really want me to stay with the company.

[tocuremymind]

So guess who’s got an offer to attend oxford brookes university to do his chosen MA course?

This guy. Still a lot to take in and process.

[astroperegrine]

The Most Important Days of October 2017 Based On Planetary Movements

October 5th – Full Moon (12˚ 43” Aries)October 11th / 10th (depending of your location) – Jupiter enters in Scorpio. It will stay in Scorpio until Nov 9th 2018

October 14th – Venus enters in Libra

October 17th – Mercury enters in Scorpio

October 19th – New Moon (26˚ 35” Libra)

October 23rd / 22nd (depending of your location) – Sun enters in Scorpio

October 23rd / 22nd (depending of your location) – Mars enters in Libra

Additionally Uranus and Neptune will remain retrograde the entire month of October. Also, Saturn is transiting Sagittarius sign (22˚ 16.3” – 26˚ 2.8”). Nevertheless Pluto is continued its journeys through Capricorn sign (16˚ 51.2” – 17˚ 7.1”).

See if you have natal planets in or between those points (degrees). If you do, then you may experience the life differently, more intense then others

[neonspacedreams]

This is the heaviest weight I've ever been but this time of my life is the happiest I can remember. So what if I've got a few more rolls and extra cellulite? I love myself exactly the way I am, I have incredible friends and family behind me, and I felt hot as shit in this swimsuit😎