#lovewithoutwords

[asikan]

Bir anne kedi…

Sığınmış bir barınağın soğuk köşesinde, yavrularını korumaya çalışan bir kalp...

Onu anlamak için konuşmasına gerek yok, gözlerine bir kez bakmak yeter.

Ne kadar çaresiz, ne kadar güçlü aynı anda...

Biraz beklemek, biraz sabretmek bu kadar mı zordu?

Bir anne, yavrularından ayrı kalmayı hak etmez.

Hiçbir canlı, sevgisini kaybetmeyi hak etmez.

Onların tek isteği biraz merhamet, biraz sıcaklık...

İnsan olmanın en sessiz sınavı bu:

Bakabiliyorken görmezden gelmemek.

Sevebiliyorken terk etmemek.😞😞

[reallove-truelove]

“Love looking beyond what the eyes see, hearing beyond words that could ever be spoken and love beyond even one’s self. This is a love that doesn’t just survive the strongest of storms but builds in the the most normal and most soundly days. This being what true love is in the most simplistic form.” - FaithFerguson.

[nancymelisa]

Without words

Aku mengucap syukur kepada Allahku setiap kali mengingat kamu.,

tanpa kata, namun hanyalah beribu maaf dari lubuk hati terdalam dan ucapan terimakasih untuk setiap kenangan dan kebahagiaan yang pernah terlewati:)

[holmer1987-blog]

#lovewithoutwords #simplyhappy #likeforfollow (en Glasgow Airport Departures) https://www.instagram.com/p/B70ME0RFi6p/?igshid=n5jaix94wax

[lovewithoutwords]

walking contradiction

vulnerability is supposed to be strength. that’s what people say. to be vulnerable isn’t weakness. but i think there’s a gap between people’s words and actual beliefs because vulnerability has left me stranded, isolated, spread thin without legs to stand on. 

perhaps i’m doing it wrong. perhaps people don’t know how to enter into it fully, so they push away anything that feels foreign or new. i’ve plenty of examples of that to support it, both anecdotal and researched. or perhaps it’s me. is it always just me?

why do i always feel alone, trapped in my mind? why is my first assumption, “they are going to hate me” or “i’m going to fail”? all these worst case scenarios are dizzying. why am i without confidence? why do i both know i’m capable and not believe i’m capable? why have i always been the one to lean on, without anyone to share the burden? what if i need someone to lean on now?

[lovewithoutwords]

starting somewhere

people keep asking me, “how are you doing?” and i never have the words to answer that question. half of the time, i’m fine. but also not at all. and the other half of the time, i’m crumbing. but also not at all. i’m caught between optimism and realism, constantly wondering when i’ve run out of time to grieve, when it’s time to move on, when will i notice peoples’ eyes glazing over because they ask but they don’t have space to offer to hear what the answer is.

some people ask to be nosy. some people ask to make sure that we’re still okay, to see if i have room for their joy and my grief. some people ask because they care. some people don’t ask because they care. and i don’t know what i hate the most. radio silence or unintentional insensitivity? comparisons lead to anger, which i have to let out slowly, like i’ve shaken up a soda can and i have to sloooowly let it crack open. 

i figured putting some thoughts down would be a good way to process. i feel like i’ve experienced love and loss and deep grief and sadness without the words to describe it. maybe this will help create some space for them to show up and take up the space that I need.

[shinsationally-young]

How to make me feel loved without saying it

• buy me tulips not any flowers just tulips • when I get cravings buy it for me • hug me tight and don't let go • know when I say I'm fine but I'm not and ask if I'm really okay • spontaneous date. Anywhere. Park. Movies. Coffee run. Etc. • tell me I look gorgeous and that I drive you mad • make me laugh. Sarcasm is my fave • rub my back and palms • let me sleep in your arms • text me good morning and good night each day

[lalalovinyou]

I treasure the time I got to spend with my little buddy from the leprosy camp, who held my hand while I gave out food and clothes. I love that even though he didn't speak a word to me, we had so much fun together! A bit of my heart will always be in India 💜 #RHindia2013 #missionlookslike #lovewithoutwords