#naseeha

[breezeway-view]

Learn. Arabic.

Oh muslim who does not know arabic, for how long are you going to be a stranger in your own religion?

If there was exactly one advice I'd give to a 10 y/o or a 35 yr old or a 70 y/o it would be to learn Arabic to study islam, it's just mind blowing, it'll ease you into that life and connection you've wanted with Allah atleast at some point in ur life You'll feel your mind detangle, be wiser instead of idlety, endure better, you start your path into صبرا جميلا توبة نصوحا stated in the qur'an, it sticks with you the more u read & expose to it. This way the qur'an gives you an ayah out of any situation, and also remind you in trying times

And after a period of time when u read the qur'an ur gonna realise you understand so much of it, but not all, of course there's greater depth to what you just understood superficially, but over time, trust, it makes you a very good person. You'll be rejoiced at just how many glad tidings you receive as a result of this, in addition to the happiness for the ilm you get as a result of understanding the arabic texts u read, from ahadeeth to scholar's texts, that speak so wonderfully, certainly very much more awe strikingly than the texts or media of today. Once again, learn Arabic as much as you can!!

[hamdosana]

How to give Naseeha(Advice)?

• Be sincere

• With humility

• With Wisdom

• With Empathy

• In private

• Without judgements

[archivewitness]

Not every single thought that comes to your mind needs to be written down or spoken. Gather your thoughts mindfully and only speak when your speech is more beneficial than silence.

[vvwarda]

dear writer; young, old, middle-aged. know that, your words aren't crafted to be kept hidden but to be discovered by other souls. these souls would see their reflection in you words. so please, don't let that inner critic within you stop you from displaying what lights your soul.

"Your voice, after all, is your most powerful discovery. Share it generously."

- Kaatib Yusuf.

[pierce-of-her-broken-heart]

Are there many people in the world who can understand us?

With and without words. After all, if you think about it, words, in fact, are not that important. Someone does not hear us even when we shout at the whole house, breaking the laces, and someone is able to sort out our silence. There are conversations after which we feel like a squeezed lemon, and sometimes a couple of phrases can bring incredible peace and happiness to the soul. No matter how much you try to explain your world to someone, it will still be understood only by someone who is "of the same blood" with us. The rest will turn his whole meaning upside down, without understanding or accepting anything in it. There's no need to worry. You just have to always go to your own people. They are few, but they are, just like you, weirdos for everyone and amazingly comfortable and understandable for you.

[fa-sabrun-jamiil]

The Prophet [ﷺ] said:

“A Muslim is the brother of his fellow Muslim. He does not wrong him, he does not betray or forsake him and he does not look down on him.”

— [Saheeh Muslim, (No. 2564) | Translated By Abu Khadeejah Abdul-Wahid]

[bxdriyah]

[al-jadwal]

Dealing With People's Harms

The ninth affair: السبب التاسع: From the hardest and most difficult affairs upon the soul and no one is granted success to do it except the one whose fortune is tremendous with Allah and it is extinguishing the fire of the envier, aggressor and infringer with goodness towards him. وهو من أصعب الأسباب على النفس وأشقها عليها ولا يوفق له إلا من عظم حظه من الله وهو إطفاء نار الحاسد والباغي والمؤذي بالإحسان إليه So every time that person increases in harm, evil, oppression, envy, etc. you increase in goodness to him, naṣīḥah (ie: sincere advice) and showing kindness to him. فكلما ازداد أذى وشرا وبغيا وحسدا ازددت إليه إحسانا وله نصيحة وعليه شفقة Ibn al-Qayyim, Badāʾi al-Fawāʾid 2/243 ابن القيم، بدائع الفوائد ٢/٢٤٣ https://shamela.ws/book/12003/464 Telegram: https://t.me/aljadwal Tumblr: https://al-jadwal.tumblr.com