shout out to enbians whose relationships are perceived as straight. shout out to enbians whose relationships are straight. shout out to enbians who describe their relationships as straight in some contexts (for example, if someone is closeted). shout out to enbians whose relationships are sometimes straight and sometimes other (for example, if someone’s gender and/or orientation is fluid).
you have a place in the community. in queer community, in enbian community, in whatever communities you want to be in. you don’t have to live parts of yourselves or your experiences behind the door to be welcome. you belong here as a whole being.
I'm Steve (he/ey) and I'm genderfaun, aroapl, fray-aceflux and mspec cenelian/astian/cetero! This is a radio themed blog for enbians!
For anyone that doesn't know, enbian is a term for a nonbinary person attracted to other nonbinary people. It can also be used to describe relationships between nonbinary people.
I was sad and frustrated about the lack of awareness/acknowledgement of enbians (and diamorics in general), so I made this blog to post about liking enben and for other enbians to share their experiences. I'll also be reblogging other diamoric posts here too since our experiences and struggles overlap.
I'm part of a system so my headmates will probably show up here occasionally too.
Rules for asks:
Don't be a bigot. (This includes being an exclusionist. I'm mspec cetero and non-traumagenic so I'm not going to put up with people telling me that I'm not real or my identities are harmful.)
No nsft asks please, since We're bodily a minor and quite a few of us are/can be sex repulsed. You can mention sex but not in detail.
We have anxiety and We're very burnt out. We'll get around to answering your asks eventually but it might take a while, so please be patient! (We might also struggle with posting altogether for these reasons.)
I don't have any pictures of radios to decorate this post with yet so here's a drawing I did of a radio that's based off the enbian flag
Tagging: @our-enbian-experience @diamoric-culture-is (I hope you don't mind being tagged)
A feminine achillean who feels they experience a distinctive or unique achillean attraction, due to being feminine / gnc ( and / or ) :: a fem achillean who feels their femininity is heavily connected to their achillean attraction in some way
Azursapphic
a sapphic that experiences azurenan attraction
A masculine sapphic who feels they experience a distinctive or unique sapphic attraction, due to being masculine / gnc ( and / or ) :: a masc sapphic who feels their masculinity is heavily connected to their sapphicism in some way
I made an alternative/mashup flag for the exclusive gai attraction to other nonbinary people. Based on the Aliamoric and Ceterian flags as well as the Lesbian and Gay Man flags to make it look a little more like a rainbowy flag 😆
- I made a high contrast and then a more toned down version
- Colors based on the Lesbian, Gay Man, & Gai flags combined.
- Definition related to Aliamoric, Ceterian, Ceteramoric/Ceterosexual definitions. I wanted to highlight the exclusivity in this flag particularly as the Enbian and Diamoric flags are more well known but are non-exclusive.
- Not exclusive toward any particular nonbinary identities, just a flag to highlight attraction by an enby solely to those also outside of the typical gender binary.
Aliamoric - an orientation that refers to non-binary individuals who are exclusively attracted to other non-binary individuals.
Ceterian / Ceteramotic - an orientation that refers to a non-binary and/or genderqueer individual who is exclusively attracted to other non-binary and/or genderqueer individuals.
Enbian - an orientation that refers to a nonbinary individual attracted (exclusively or not) to nonbinary people, or in a relationship that contains no binary individuals.
Gai - an orientation that is gay but in a uniquely non-binary way
Diamoric - an orientation that describes a nonbinary individuals experience of attraction in a non-binary specific way, which does not fit into the similar/opposite gender attraction dichotomy due to being a uniquely non-binary experience.
for one who is cinthean : men , men - aligned nonbinary people , and unaligned nonbinary people who are attracted to men , men - aligned nonbinary people , and unaligned nonbinary people .
and a girlthing : a gender in which one has a fluid or detached sense of femininity that may be affected by other identities . this definition of girlthing does not necessarily have to be fem / woman aligned .
{ definitions via wikipedia }
[ PT : cinthean girlthing flag!! for one who is cinthean: men, men-aligned nonbinary people, and unaligned nonbinary people who are attracted to men, men-aligned nonbinary people, and unaligned nonbinary people. and a girlthing: a gender in which one has a fluid or detached sense of femininity that may be affected by other identities. this definition of girlthing does not necessarily have to be fem/woman aligned. definitions via wikipedia. end PT ]
