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A blog for enbians!

[enbian-radio]

Hello!

I'm Steve (he/ey) and I'm genderfaun, aroapl, fray-aceflux and mspec cenelian/astian/cetero! This is a radio themed blog for enbians!

For anyone that doesn't know, enbian is a term for a nonbinary person attracted to other nonbinary people. It can also be used to describe relationships between nonbinary people.

I was sad and frustrated about the lack of awareness/acknowledgement of enbians (and diamorics in general), so I made this blog to post about liking enben and for other enbians to share their experiences. I'll also be reblogging other diamoric posts here too since our experiences and struggles overlap.

I'm part of a system so my headmates will probably show up here occasionally too.

Rules for asks:

Don't be a bigot. (This includes being an exclusionist. I'm mspec cetero and non-traumagenic so I'm not going to put up with people telling me that I'm not real or my identities are harmful.)

No nsft asks please, since We're bodily a minor and quite a few of us are/can be sex repulsed. You can mention sex but not in detail.

We have anxiety and We're very burnt out. We'll get around to answering your asks eventually but it might take a while, so please be patient! (We might also struggle with posting altogether for these reasons.)

I don't have any pictures of radios to decorate this post with yet so here's a drawing I did of a radio that's based off the enbian flag

Tagging: @our-enbian-experience @diamoric-culture-is (I hope you don't mind being tagged)

[macaquredacted]

More enbian posts and rep without binary terms/words please... love all nonbinaries but I only seem able to ever see stuff with "girls" and "boys" and "men" and "women" in the nblnb and enbian tags

[our-queer-experience]

you all deserve BETTER

[nblw-nonsense]

Those people that say that nonbinary people should just call themselves gay?

All your faves are gai. All of them. That one character who you thought was cis? Gai. That one person who you thought was gay? Gai. Everything and everyone is gai now, all thanks to you

[enbian-radio]

[Plain Text: Those people that say that nonbinary people should just call themselves gay? End PT]

[diamoric-culture-is]

diamoric culture is loving my nonbinary partner so so much!!

also it's really fun to talk about gender with them (I'm a binary trans man so it's neat to hear about their experiences, also they've given me the confidence to get a bit more funky with my gender expression which is so awesome)

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[sproutshq]

I get that gay men/veldians and lesbians can be nonbinary and some are also attracted to nonbinary people, but as a cenelian can you at the very least stop tagging nblnb if your post is about a (binary) man or woman please

(This is a problem in #wlnb, #mlnb and sometimes #enbian as well)

[sproutshq]

@oncelerfucker I was also thinking about this the other day! It's so annoying as someone who only wants relationships with other nonbinary people.

I wish enbian relationships were seen as just as important and worthy of celebration as binary relationships, not just as an afterthought. I also wish that people could see past the gay/straight binary and see that not every enban wants to have their attraction and relationships put into those categories.

[pumpkinlandoffear]

i might be calming down now sorry i need to stop dwelling on the negatives. here's positivity: i love being nonbinary, being nonbinary is so awesome, i love myself and my fellow enbens

[this-is-exorsexism]

sometimes i search for nblnb content as someone whos most drawn to nonbinary people of a similar subtype to me (mostly agender) and all i see is stuff that centers wlw or mlm (mostly the former, ig understandably but still—and it's cool if it's someone nb posting it but not so much if it's not) even if i try to filter/block. obviously nonbinary is a spectrum but it seems extra hard to find content that isnt of the "nbs are Always women lite or men lite" flavor. the dearth of unambiguously(!) nb-centric media is maddening (pls recommend any if anyone knows). is this connected to exorsexism? i just want to be somewhere where monogender binary people arent the ones centered for once. at least somewhere where we're equally represented.

this is exorsexism.

yeah, if you look up wlnb/nblw or mlnb/nblm stuff you'll usually just find stuff that is supposedly for these groups but is also targeted at wlw and mlm, and any constellation explicitly centring nonbinary people is sidelined. nblnb stuff specifically has even less visibility, and mostly is only mentioned in the same breath as nblm and nblw and those once again get binarised. it's also telling that nblnb, nblw and nblm content heavily centres around attraction, identity and relationships that are gay or gay-lite, nonbinary men attracted to men, nonbinary sapphics, nonbinary people who are aligned enough with one side of the binary to consider their attraction to men and women sapphic or achillean, all of which is valid of course. but you hardly ever see unaligned or other-aligned nonbinary people atttractee to literally anyone and refusing the gay/straight dichotomy, or god forbid, nonbinary wlm or mlw, because those couldn't possibly be queer enough.

[pride-hearts]

Cenelian Hearts

[our-enbian-experience]

isnt the enbian flag so beautiful. like it is so pretty genuinely i love the colors....

yes, i like it too! stripes are so nice and moon... idk if it's official meaning, but the moon for me speaks about nonbinary spectrum, its wholeness, variety, and fluidity.

[our-enbian-experience]

im someone who usually thinks about binary men but enboys are pretty cute (from a girlby)

this is enbian experience!

[nonaligned-nblm]

Feeling very gai this fine fine day!

[enbian-radio]

[Plain text: Feeling very gai this fine fine day! End PT.]

[the-future-is-chrome]

nobody knows how to be normal about nonbinary people on this goddamn webbed site

[the-future-is-chrome]

correction: nobody knows how to be normal about nonbinary people. anywhere. ever

[mx-macintosh]

swear to god i'm gonna start saying "nonbinary and anonbinary people" to refer to the entire trans umbrella the same way people say "transmascs and transfems"

[getmorenonbinary]

i think nonbinary people should be allowed to go after anyone that denies their existence/worth with swords. or axes. the weapon of their choice

[diamoric-culture-is]

Diamoric culture is trying to bring up the word as often as possible to make sure people find out what it means

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[shrubmogai]

celarsian flags in the style of the lesbian/gay flags!