#nofats

[mikediddy]

#PSA Hey you new gays. And old ones, too! Y’all kill me with this whole #NoFatsNoFems shit. Especially when you have thee NERVE and thee AUDACITY to be fat and fem your damn self. Preference my ass. Please dead that shit. You know what you don’t like. You ain’t got to advertise it. They still gonna hit you up, regardless. Shoot, you keep it up like this, you’re gonna find yourself man-less for the rest of your life. Bye! 🚗💨 Thank you, @gq for the article. (SWIPE) It was a great read. #gayculture #gaydating #nofats #nofems #femmeshaming #fatshaming #gq #gqmagazine (at Public Service Announcement) https://www.instagram.com/p/B9FvtNnpm7Y/?igshid=1l2zp61ta0j6i

[muthajay]

No whytez plz just a preference ☺️

[marcfinlay-blog]

Post workout - Chicken, quinoa & veggies!! #simple #postworkout #postworkoutmeal #recovery #recover #fuel #fitter #fitness #nofats #weightlifting101 #chicken #veggies #quinoa #tupperware #nutrition #nutritiontiming #training #backintotraining

[omgfitnessfanatic]

IT HAS BEEN A LONG ASS TIME SINCE I have had cream of wheat. I used to love eating this as a kid growing up! I decided to buy some today and make it for lunch and it taste so good, brought back memories! ❤ #fitness #macros #creamofwheat #foodie #lunch #tuesdayafternoon #nutrition #nofats #protein #postworkoutmeal #memories

[denisewrapstulsa-blog]

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[lifecanbesogay-blog]

Came across this video earlier this morning. And while its been out for about a year now, this was my first time seeing it. It really is a good laugh for those in the gay community so check it out if you have yet to see it.

But that’s not why I’m sharing it. I’m sharing because, while sure its funny, at the same time it kind of makes my blood boil. 

“Are you black? Are you white? Does your belly shake? Cause I wont reply if you’re out of shape. You’re going to get judged on Grindr. Listen up cause here’s a reminder.” 

Okay, we get it. You have a type. Don’t we all? Whether we want to admit it or not, we all have a personal preference when it comes to a partner. There is NOTHING wrong with that. But when you put people down and make them feel ashamed for being themselves, well that’s NOT okay. It drives home the fact as to how shallow and judgmental our own community can be. I’ve seen shirts going around online that read “No Fats. No Femmes”. It was hurtful. 

And before you jump to conclusions... NO I am not “Femme” nor am I “Fat” no matter what your definition of each may be. What I am is a human, capable of love. One with feelings and one who looks at a person for what they have to offer, not just what they look like. And please don’t get me wrong, I do love the video and get that it is for entertainment purposes. But its happening in real life. And that’s what its poking fun at. Looks fade. We all get old. Love who you want to love and live your life how you want. But don’t make others feel like shit for trying to do the same damn thing. #EndRant

[phatphemme]

happy to share and announce this collaboration with micah bazant. this past summer, the beach was my second home. i'd go many weekends with friends, sometimes alone, and some days after work to relax and commune with the water. during one particular visit, i posed for what would become a viral photo of me, in all my fat femme splendor and glory, serving the children body for their nerves. the photo was mostly reposted with "mood" and "i wish my confidence looked like this" and other silly-internet-millennial 'tings; while others were not so nice, body shaming and being extremely fatphobic. this moment was really defining because it revealed to me how important my work and life is, and that the world is not ready because "the world" is limited and shaped by people who refuse to be ready to transform in thought and knowing. all that to say, i'm happy to have this photo transformed into art. I won't write much here because of a forthcoming essay but i do, however, want to leave you with these words: confidence is not a destination to which we arrive, it is an ongoing project of engaging our most vulnerable, unexplored self. donate and support: bit.ly/nofatsnofems

[aliershine]

Cuando veo a alguien gordo u obeso en la calle mi reacción es.... #nofats #vineenespañol #new #followme #lol