My toxic trait is that I think a lot more people are nonbinary than we think tbh. Cause like I have met, IRL, FIVE trans men who, after hearing me be openly nonbinary, very quickly went "hey can you stop respecting my he/him pronouns actually and use they/them once in a while because I'm lowkey like you", and three trans women who did the same. Since I've met like six trans guys and like five trans women, this is weird as hell?? And when I explain to cis people what being nonbinary IS, like 1/4 of the time they just go "but isn't that just how everyone feels though". I genuinely think if society at large took nonbinary people seriously we'd have wayyyyyy more nb's. I don't think most people belong rigidly to one category only.













