Genuinely, the lines between being “proship” and “antiship” are so blurry, so instead of trying to keep up with whatever Fandom™ thinks, these are the personal criteria I use to decide what belongs on this blog:
What I do include:
Selfcest. Not all antis are against it, but a lot of people find it weird or distasteful, so it usually goes here. (e.g. Rickcest, Oncecest, Linkcest, etc.)
Adult x Minor. (Starker, Maxvid, SebaCiel, etc.)
Incest. (SamDean, Rickorty, Pinecest, ItaSasu, etc.)
Relationships where an adult once knew the other as a child. (e.g. SlaDick, SlaTim, BruDick, etc.)
Pseudo-Incest where they knew each other as small children or didn't know they were adopted. (e.g. Thorki)
What I don’t include:
Pseudo-incest. (e.g., JayTim, Kaeluc)
Child x Teen. (e.g., WenDip, Tokka, etc.)
Small age gaps between adults and teens. (e.g. KakaSaku, Ereri, etc.)
Large age gaps between adults. (e.g., Eggsy x Harry from Kingsman)
Child x Character with an unspecified age. (e.g., BillDip, MaBill, ZaDr, etc.)
Toxic/abusive relationships. (e.g., Hannigram, LawLight)
Selfships (OC / Persona x fandom character)
While I absolutely believe people have the right to avoid content that triggers or disturbs them, it’s not my job to sanitize fandom or prevent people from seeing things they find “icky.” Sometimes, the best thing to do is use filters, unfollow, or block tags.
That said, I am open to discussion! Feel free to comment or share your thoughts about what kinds of ships you personally consider “proship” vs. not.
