#oriented aro

[necrnn]

Ace, aroace and aro bracelets

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(I'm oriented aro btw)

[mogai-headcanons]

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Caine from The Amazing Digital Circus is an autistic petite orchid cupioattractional sexualitylexx mspec veldian-oriented aro proxvir robotgender viridaegender digigender toonish circuspavren circuschoric tekneo techrobai teethcoric teethgender toothgender codaea codegender centrgender man sentient AI who primarily experiences playful, noetic, and doraric attractions; has NPD, BPD, HPD, ASPD traits, and ADHD; and uses he/him, it/its, tooth/teeth, ri/ring, cir/cus, show/shows, code/codes, and hu/hum pronouns!

Bubble is an autistic star dust orientationless boygender bubblegender bubblilexic emailwormgender viridaegender digigender codaea codegender techrobai tekneo lexeprofane saponemius weirdthing bubblething sentient AI with hypersexuality and STPD who uses he/him pronouns to be more like Caine and also uses bubble/bubbles, it/its, bleh/blehs, pop/pops, fuck/fucks, and be/bim pronouns! Be views Caine as an older family figure!

Pomni is an autistic spring rain virago futch alloarospec abro bipan lilean vesbian genderqueer rubinine bigender demitransmasculine cisfeminine jestergender cringegirlfail callawoman azurwoman with anxiety and, due to her time in the Circus, DPDR who uses she/her, they/them, hey/hem, and any pleopronouns! Hey're dating Lex and Ragatha!

Jax is an autistic pink daisy mollis thistle femme-leaning futch imp loveless alloarospec lesbigay faggy dyke libamew feigntffin eggic purplegender pinkgender sarmendy prankgender bastardlexic dysphorrabbic weirdbunian sillybungender funbungender autonine trans woman with ADHD, PTSD, depression, NPD, BPD, and, due to her time in the Circus, DPDR who uses she/her, he/him, she/him, he/her, bun/buns, and nor/mal pronouns and now goes by the name Lex! She started dating Pomni pre-transition, then also started dating Ragatha thanks to Pomni's encouragement, and was previously in a QPR with Ribbit and Kaufmo!

Ragatha is an autistic rosy finch light salmon pink acespec pan lesbian raggie dollcoric dollfem dollomine dollmaiden softpatchidollic kindgender adorafae girlflux cis magiwoman with CPTSD, NPD, BPD, and, due to her time in the Circus, DPDR who uses she/her, fae/faer, doll/dolls, rag/rags, patch/patches, and pleopronouns derived from she/her (such as shey/shem and shx/hxr)! Fae is dating Pomni and Lex!

Gangle is an autistic peach puff futchy schrodiattractional aroacespec allorosespec veldilesbic levexdian ribbongender femixine boybeing bipolarflux transneutral agender bigender veldiwoman with bipolar disorder, DPD, social anxiety, and, due to her time in the Circus, DPDR who uses she/her, rib/bon, sketch/sketches, and pleopronouns derived from she/her and/or he/him (such as shx/hxr, hey/hem, and she/shim) around everyone and also uses he/him with Zooble! Rib's dating Zooble and has a crush on Lex!

Zooble is an autistic GNC sunset orange mosaic gold queerpunk diaqueer vesbian salilian mspec gai modifizique punque genderpunk nimiarumian pxngender transneutral genderqueer gendercreative roguian enban who has DPDR due to hir time in the Circus and uses any pronouns with a preference for neopronouns and for people to switch sets frequently when referring to xem! Ve's dating Gangle!

Kinger is an autistic pearl aqua fern frond mspec straight veldian tekneo schakaen phostechial kingpaic daroric codegender technosic programgender fathergender trans man who currently prioritizes familial relationships; has CPTSD, NPD, depression, and, due to his time in the Circus, DPDR; and uses he/him, pleopronouns from before the year 2000 (such as ey/em, ze/hir, and thon/thons), king/kings, and, in honor of his wife, bug/bugs pronouns! He was married to Queenie and considers all current members of the Circus as his children; even though none of them met Queenie, they all consider her a mother figure alongside viewing Kinger as a father!

Queenie was an autistic light salmon pink honey flower purple transhet bisexual schakaen queenpaic buggender trans woman who had DPDR due to her time in the Circus and used she/her, thon/thons, queen/queens, and bug/bugs pronouns! She was married to Kinger!

Ribbit was a honeysuckle butchy femmy alloarospec celarsian velaurian frogcoric froggic froggender boyflux transneufem agender violenatian demiwoman who had DPDR due to her time in the Circus and used she/her, they/them, shey/shem, rib/bit, and frog/frogs pronouns! She was in a QPR with Lex and Kaufmo and suspected Lex was not cis, but never really discussed gender with her!

Kaufmo was a dark sea green panqueerplatonic alloarospec SAM mspec veldian clowngender littleguyclownic redyellue transnbinemasc ludoviman who had DPDR due to his time in the Circus and used he/him, it/its, honk/honks, and laugh/laughs pronouns! He was in a QPR with Lex and Ribbit!

dni link

[theinsomniacindian]

Being loveless and an oriented aroace at the same time is so weird. One side of me wants to find a queer-platonic version of The One™ to live and die with while the other scuttles away from the slightest mention of love, sex and romance like a terrified beast

[rotten-queer]

Aromantic - Homoromantic flag

Asexual - Homosexual flag

For gay oriented and angled aspecs, it's based off of the mlm flag but I'm not sure if these really read as mlm flag combos

[just-aro]

oriented aro coining

so, as someone who personally vibes with this and has gotten SO many questions about if it's a Thing, I've decided, fuck it, yeah, it is a thing.

let's coin oriented aromanticism.

oriented aros are similar to oriented aroaces, but it's a term for aro folks who fall under the non-SAM / "just aro" umbrellas; we are aromantic, and experience some type of attraction which we'd like to label or describe, and often cannot or prefer not to label further (ie, specifying the type of attraction).

aroqueer, already an established term, would be one such example.

I'm not sure how best to write the subidentities - given the precedent set by aroqueer and the tendency for allo aro identities to be written as "lesbian aro" rather than "arolesbian", for example, I think we could potentially write it that way.

[ale-arro]

i think it's so funny when aspec posts are like "do you want a partner or do you just want the emotional intimacy" bc while i appreciate the value that sentiment brings to others for me it's like babe i am frequently repulsed by emotional intimacy i just want someone to make out with

[thejsorcerer]

aro but still want a relationship? amazing 💫

you don't care if it'll be romantic, queerplatonic, alterous or any other type? wonderful 🤍

you don't have to put a label on it if you don't want to ⚘

you just want to be together with the person's company you enjoy? incredible 🥰

you're no less aromantic 💚

[aro-culture-is]

I actually have a question? I've known for a while that im aro-ace but do you think you could tell me what mspec aro oriented is? google and sites similar aren't exactly always accurate and i think that i am mspec oriented, im in a qpr right now with a woman and i wouldn't have a preference for if it was a man or a woman and I've toyed with the idea of being aroallo but im not interested in much other than a non-sexual relationship; i don't really know but im still trying to figure myself out, if you could help that would be really nice, and if not that's fine too :-)

hi! i'm gonna point you to the coining post i had made for oriented aro identities on @just-aro. basically, the idea is that you are aro, and can't or don't want to identify a specific type of attraction you feel aligned with in some form. this could be any m-spec orientation!

i hope this helps!