If you don’t believe RAMCOA/TBMC is a genuine thing, please block me
I’m tired of seeing people post about how “it doesn’t exist” and say that “ramcoa doesn’t exist but the trauma does.” It’s irritating to be told what I went through doesn’t exist and does exist at the same time.
It’s important to hear survivors and to be able to understand that this shit happens and still does. Cults, trafficking rings, etc. they all happen. Just because you think that someone can’t force a system doesn’t mean it’s not possible. Do you know how much trauma that someone faces within shit like that? How easy it is for someone to see that there’s so much dissociation and use it against them?
I’m tired of so many people thinking that ramcoa survivors aren’t real. We are, we exist.
This is a pro endo blog, so if you’re not endo or not supportive of them please kindly leave! It’s alright if you’re neutral or avoid syscourse but please don’t bring negativity in here. This is meant to be a place to talk freely without judgement about your system otherwise we’re no better than FDC or SC.
What can you do here?
There’s a lot you can do here such as:
There’s a lot you can do here such as:
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Asking Questions
Talking with Us
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The Venting Rules!
I only ask that there are proper trigger/content warnings when applicable!
You can vent about anti endos, you can vent about your day, anything about RAMCOA/OEA, absolutely anything! This is a safe space for all! If you don’t want to see the vents then feel free to block the tags endo-haven-vent and endo-haven-vents!
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You can ask anything within reason! We don’t mind answering any questions at all! But if it goes past what we’re comfortable sharing we don’t have to answer! If you want to know about us check under the cut first!
You’re also free to ask questions for other anons and people to reply to, getting answers and advice is always a good thing!
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FAQ / About The Owners!
We are a Diagnosed DID system! While we are traumagenic we support endos and all types of systems! We have been in both sides of the community for a long time and have done a lot of research with our psychiatric team and personally so please don’t assume we’re just ignorant or don’t know a lot.
We will not be signing off alters that post but you are free to do so! We won’t be sharing our other socials on here unless on our main blog and close friends!
My trauma is not something for you to use to get internet points.
My trauma is not for you to tell me if it did or did not happen.
My trauma and my memories are not for you to tell me if it’s a delusion or not.
My trauma and survival does not give you a right to categorize my morality as wrong or right.
My survival gives you no right to judge me or demonize me because of what I had to do to live.
My trauma does not give you any right to tell me that I’m “wrong” and that it “doesn’t exist.”
I do not owe you my trauma. I do not owe you my memories.
I know my experiences and my experiences give you no right to deny them.
You have no right to tell me that I need to be quiet and let others speak when you won’t even hear my voice.
Just because you have a voice does not give you a right to silence me when I and others are clawing to be heard and believed.
What will you do if your children go through the same? If someone close to you has children will go through the same? Will you tell them that it isn’t true? That it isn’t real? That they’re making it up? That you just think it’s some conspiracy theory? Will you tell them that?
Or is it because you’re hidden online that you feel you can get away with telling traumatized individuals that what they experienced doesn’t exist?
So many systems are fighting for their voices to be heard and they’re being silenced.
There’s so limited communities because the amount of people that get attacked and harassed for even trying to make a safe place for those people. Some of the people that have those spaces can’t even keep up with them with so much going on.
We shouldn’t be telling traumatized individuals what we think was and wasn’t real regarding their trauma. That’s so messed up. We should be banding together to make a space for everyone to be able to go to, not use others trauma as a weapon against people.
