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Proto-MFG + Methods of Martyrdom
The Bridge Era Mystic Falls Gang as images I have saved on my phone
Andie Star
Brian Walters
Isobel Flemming
Jenna Sommers
John Gilbert
Logan Fell
Mason Lockwood
Meredith Fell
Trudie Peterson
William Tanner
Someone sent me an ask about how I’d improve Jeremy’s storyline, and I’m typing up my thoughts, but something I really think the show should’ve revealed to immediately improve the Beremy plot is what actually went on between Emily and Jonathan!
If the point is that, despite everything, loving Jeremy is killing Bonnie then it’s a perfect piece of foreshadowing! Johnathan was absolutely complicit in Emily’s murder in some way—we just don’t know how.
(And then there’s what it means for Katherine to be tangled up in that relationship—presumably bringing Emily close enough to meet and fall for Jonathan, and how Bonnie connects to Jeremy through her pre-existing relationship with Elena. I just think that entire trio could’ve been used for some really tasty tragic storytelling. In general, I think the show missed the mark on a lot of those founders-era parallels that they could’ve milked for easy, effective setups.)
And Bonnie brought him back from the dead twice—which is also the number of times Emily defied death to create the two Gilbert rings.
Then there’s the Abby/Grayson/Miranda of it all. Abby loved Miranda enough to fight for her daughter, and Grayson—known torturer of supernatural creatures—kept her secret for the rest of his life. He kept the existence of the Bennetts from the Council and the Augustine Society. His children grew up playing with Bonnie—
But it was Abby’s love for Miranda Sommers that doomed her, wasn’t it?
And in its own way, that’s another possible commentary on what’s at play here—especially considering Jeremy is a Sommers and a Gilbert, and two of the most important (and powerful) Bennett witches loved members of both families. It culminates in Bonnie, who loves the son of both—and who also loves Elena, who is the Amara to her Qetsiyah… ugh!!
They make me insane!!!
Send me back in time to be a TVD writer, and I swear my first order of business will be to make the “key four” in the show Bonnie, Elena, Jeremy, and Stefan.
No one else ever talks about the fact that to take Mikael down, Abby not only lost access to her magic but she had to stop a human heart to stop his (it’s what she tells Bonnie she had to do to take down Klaus in the same way!) It’s my headcanon that her magic “stopped” because of her guilt over this— but it wasn’t enough for her to not save Elena anyway. On one hand, I’d love to say she used Grayson and brought him back. On the other— Grayson’s sacrifice of giving himself up to save Elena in the lake was very poignant and I like that as his first & final sacrifice. So the other option is that they had to kill someone else, and they took it to their graves.
This is what I’ve been screaming about!!!!! I’ve always assumed that whatever they did to stop Mikael was so fundamentally awful that Abigail walked away believing she didn’t deserve either her magic or her daughter. And that’s why—while I make jokes about her lesbianing so hard with Miranda that she abandoned Bonnie and became a deadbeat mom—I actually think Abby probably had a real reason she felt like she had to leave.
We know how far Grayson is willing to go for strangers. His torture of Enzo is partly about using vampiric blood to heal patients under his care. (Side note: I’ve always wondered if Meredith learned what he was doing either as a resident under him, or through something he wrote. At my hospital, our medical librarian keeps a collection of provider journals that other staff can read for insight into hospital culture or research.) So if Grayson is capable of that for people he barely knows… what would he be willing to do for his daughter? A lot, I imagine.
I don’t buy that “stopping Grayson’s heart and bringing him back” alone would be the thing that sent Abby running. Why would it? Grayson would see that as a worthy sacrifice even if he didn’t come back… I think there’s a pretty constant theme in TVD that the previous generation tends to handle problems in the most painful way possible. But I also don’t think Abby and Grayson necessarily recognized that there was a work around—bringing them back—that would still work. Abby doesn’t really strike me as the kind of out-of-the-box thinker that Bonnie was forced to become. If the cost for Nature to put an Original down is that a human dies… well, it wouldn’t be balance if you brought them back. (That’s where they differ from their kids—Abby wasn’t forced to adapt like Bonnie was and Grayson is crueler than Elena could ever dream of being.)
And I don’t believe there’s any spell written down anywhere that says, like, “you can put down an Original by stopping someone’s heart.” What Abby is describing feels less like a codified spell and more like improvised, desperate magic. And it can’t be public knowledge. Because if “kill a random person to put down an Original” and a tiny bloodlink and some minor human sacrifice was all it took, you’re telling me the New Orleans witches wouldn’t have done it a thousand times over? They’d be dropping Originals and Marcel like it was a community service project.
Honestly, I don’t think the key is “a heart stopped.” I think the key is whose heart it was.
I have a very messy headcanon about this—about why Sheila never speaks about Abby, why Abby (all things considered) seems to understand the kind of choice that gets made when mortality is on the line, and why Lucy (despite being related to Sheila) is never mentioned by her and never comes back to Mystic Falls.
Sacrificial magic (the truly powerful kind) in TVD doesn’t just run on blood. It runs on love—on that horrible nexus of devotion and desperation. Papa Tunde draws power from his sons. Emily’s ability to circumvent death in the two Gilbert rings was borne from her love for Johnathan. The entire Gemini coven death cult. Whatever devil Qetsiyah probably sold her soul to be able to create the Other Side on Amara’s back to keep Silas from ever escaping her. Esther’s vampire spell is partly propelled forward by the fact that she does love her children, even if she’s also the architect of their suffering.
Bonnie stops Jeremy’s heart to do it—and I think it would be so delicious if it was about killing someone you loved as much as you hated the vampire you were trying to put down.
So whatever Abby did had to be personal. It had to be a love-driven betrayal. It had to be the kind of magic that stains you permanently—something so terrible she couldn’t crawl back from it, something that made the dead Bennetts look at her and go: you don’t get to call yourself one of us anymore.
Yeah.
I think they might’ve killed another Bennett (probably someone from Lucy’s line) to make it happen.
Which ill-advised parent hookup do you wish happened?
Abby/Grayson (they spend the entire time talking about Miranda #wifeguys)
Abby/Kelly (I support deadbeat moms #milfwrongs)
Abby/Miranda (tfw you lesbian so hard you have to abandon your daughter)
Abby/Zach (Abby leaves because of the affair and not the magic stuff #fuckedup)
Bill/Grayson (my boy has a 100% divorce rate between Bill/Liz and Abby/Rudy)
Bill/Pastor Young (they can run a metaphorical gay conversion camp together)
Bill/Zach (guy who doesn't need vervain x guy whose house is LOUSY with it)
Carol/Kelly (white trash deadbeat x wealthy socialite sahm)
Carol/Liz (mayor x sheriff can I make it anymore obvious? #smalltowncorruption)
Kelly/Miranda (melena and jicki were genetic)
Kelly/Richard (Carol was working thru smtg with the "trash at the party" line)
Liz/Zach (makes the whole “dying saving her daughter” thing a little messier)
I have a coworker whose husband is an oil field worker—he spends two to three weeks working and then gets around two weeks off. His job site is almost three days of driving away—and I’m talking grueling twelve-hour long driving days. If he were to make the trip down every single time, 1.) it would be horrible on their vehicle and make it break down faster, which would cost money and eat into his earnings, making all that work feel almost pointless, and 2.) if he only gets fourteen days off and six of those days (at a minimum—realistically it’s usually closer to eight) are dedicated to travel, either getting a hotel room (which also costs a lot of money) or sleeping in his car, then he’s going to spend the few days he actually has with his family exhausted and dreading the next departure. Because of this, my coworker’s husband rarely comes home. Instead, she goes to him, or they meet in the middle, or she’ll send her children to stay with a relative closer to where he’s working so he can see them.
All this to say: I think the very minor change of making Rudy an oil field worker instead of a traveling pharmaceutical salesman (who do travel a lot, obviously, but with a far less grueling schedule—and they aren't breaking their bodies for their paycheck) would have been a vast improvement to Bonnie’s family story. He has a single-person income (just a few years after the 2008 recession), and while Sheila has a pension, it’s not much—he’s probably also helping to supplement her lifestyle as well—so he works a job that forces him to spend half his life several states away. When Bonnie is gone, she isn’t just visiting her dad’s family—she’s visiting him, so he doesn’t have to drive for hours without sleep to get back to Virginia.
I feel like if Bonnie can’t have either of her parents around, then at least one of them should be busting their ass trying to provide for her.
Rudy and Abby had her when they were just out of high school, and Abby almost immediately left them and disappeared—so Rudy probably never went to college. He isn’t considered highly educated. He’s also a Black man living in Mystic Falls without local family connections (since Bonnie has to leave town to visit her paternal family), so he can’t even easily slide into a nepotism job. Any connections he might have had would’ve been through Abby—the Graysons, Liz, etc—and who’s to say he’s even the type of person who would be willing to use those, even if they were available.
So Rudy works long, hard hours, for weeks at a time—and he makes good money doing it, but it's emotionally and physically grueling work that damages his relationship with Bonnie. And when they are able to see each other, he leans toward big displays of affection that can sometimes make kids feel loved in bursts, because he’s away so often. He has enough money to do those things—but not enough to come home regularly or quit.
Bridge-MFG + Methods of Martyrdom